Cait

17 | virgo | slytherin | senior | future criminal psychologist

[anniespositivity]

Maybe you have not been that productive today; maybe you have not been that kind to yourself and others; maybe you have been crying a lot; maybe your anxiety prevented you from leaving the house; maybe you spent the entire day trying to get out of bed; maybe you messed up and made a fool of yourself; maybe all you managed to do today was hoping for a better time. But you know what? That is absolutely okay, my love. You are still here. You are still breathing. You are still a wonderful human being. And you matter so so much. Days like these happen and they are nothing to be ashamed of. You are loveable even at your lowest points, darling. You are not your bad days. You are the fact that you overcome them. Every damn time. Give yourself credit. You are doing such an amazing job. Please be gentle with your heart. You are trying - and that is all you need to do.

[britp0p-deactivated20210628]

compliment yourself!!! say you look cute!!! say your outfit is nice!!! say you like how you look!!!! it’s not conceited. you’re beautiful!! you’re cute!!! own it!!! wear bold outfits or makeup and take pictures and replace the negative self talk w positive self talk!!!

[barnsnjournal]

the state of my apartment bedroom in this chaotic season. i hope you guys are staying safe, healthy, and intentional. please adopt the safety measures that work for you.

[capacity]

*listens to an album for the first time and enters a new era in my life*

[walllflxwerr]

This gives me chills. The fact that something so simple can be such a poignant placemarker in life. The fact that this first listen will tuck itself away in your memory and that the 87th listen will draw memories out of that safe place your brain is keeping especially for that album. What a gorgeous little treasure to share only between you and your younger self.

[capacity]

…that was some real shit you just said

[jenlizrose]

It's 4am but happy international women's day you badass bitches. All women; black, white, asian, straight, lgbt, trans // we are all worthy of love and acceptance, especially our own♡.

[soie-lux-speaks]

How to dress like a winter princess ♡

• place delicate bows in your hair

• adorn your ears with a soft pair of white earmuffs

• wear dreamy vintage nightgowns to bed

• accessorize with pearls

• wear soft colors such as white, dusty blue, and baby pink

[myfashionburden]

Giambattista Valli // Ready to Wear, Spring 2020

[brookesgirlymood]

[fiercelittlestudyblr]

5.4.19 Working in the day through to the night is not that fun but sometimes it’s got to be done.

[studyblr]

study tip: don‘t think about studying as something you need to do. that implies it’s some tedious process, something you can’t really enjoy, just another task ruining your day. rather, try to enjoy the process. think of yourself as someone who loves the subject, who loves studying for the sake of learning. you’re someone for whom studying comes easily, it’s just another good part of your day. if you change your identity and sense of self from someone who struggles with studying or with a particular task, it will be much easier to get done, as we always strive to stay consistent with who we think we are. think of yourself as a productive person, and it's much easier to act like a productive person would.

[studycalleis]

how to be more present🌙

take more moments throughout the day to just focus on your breathing.

notice the things other people would normally just glance over.

let go of expectations. holding onto expectations means that you’re holding onto an “idealized” or “perfect” reality, which means that you’re not in the present. often we are left disappointed when these expectations are not met.

be grateful for the things you have, and stop wishing for your life to be different.

don’t sweat the small stuff. don’t dwell on the small unfortunate yet irrelevant moments that we’ll most likely forget about!!

notice the negative thoughts floating in your mind and replace them with loving ones.

take one step at a time. you might not be where you want to be at the moment, but you will get there. and it might not feel like it, but you’re making progress.

forget about the past and the future. many things such as shame or anxiety keep us pulled away from the current moment.

take more time out of your day to do the things you love!!

get away from the digital world more often.

do self care! make sure to take care of your health, physical and mental before anything else.

[eintsein]

Hey guys, so I’ve seen some posts around about daily routines so I thought I’d share my own. I consider myself to be great at being productive even early in the morning, and here’s how I achieve that. Hope this is helpful, and feel free to ask me questions if you have any!

[studyinginthestormclouds-deacti]

Ya know I’d post more of my studying and tale more aesthetic pictures, but, the truth is studying is not pretty. Yeah you can make your area pretty, you can take neat photos and go to that coffee shop but the reality of it is, if your trying to get some REAL studying done your entire desk is taken up by papers. your trying to make the experience less mind numbing, because guess what you have a test soon or you procrastinated just a litttle too long. so you turn on your music on your laptop, and end up placing mORE paper on the keyboard and every time you go to write on that paper you accidentally tap a button. Studying is messy and boring Because you can’t love every subject you take and you can’t understand everything, that’s why your studying baby. But I do appreciate those people whomst do have the time to take those cute photos, and all I’m saying is we need to stop making everything look like it’s picture perfect a l l the t I m e, because It not always pretty, and that’s just them facts bb

[darling-with-no-problems]

[tkkatherineblog]

[januaryhoney]

little weirds, jenny slate

[studysocial]

I think all Gilmore Girls fans can agree that Rory Gilmore is the original studyblr! If I’m having a chill study session, I’ll play an old episode where she is extra motivated or there is a big focus on academics. The following are my go-tos!

SPOILER ALERT

I wrote short descriptions with each episode so SPOILER ALERT for everyone who hasn’t seen or is still watching Gilmore Girls! 

S01E02- “The Lorelai’s First Day at Chilton”

Rory starts at a new prestigious school. She has to deal with proving herself academically.

S01E04- “The Deer Hunters”

This episode deals with academic failure and studying hard to move past it. 

S02E02- “Hammers and Veils”

Rory has anxiety over not having enough extra-curricular activities for college applications. 

S02E04- “The Road Trip to Harvard”

Rory visits her dream school and gets a good look into college life. 

S02E18- “Back in the Saddle Again”

Rory has a challenging group project. 

S03E03- “Application Anxiety”

Rory receives her Harvard application and gets stressed over the competition. 

S03E08- “Let the Games Begin”

Rory visits Yale.

S03E16- “The Big One”

Rory has to give a speech and has to comfort a friend who doesn’t get into her dream school. Rory also receives her college letters. 

S03E17- “A Tale of Poes and Fire”

Rory picks her college. 

S03E22- “Those Are Strings, Pinocchio”

Rory graduates high school and deals with paying for college. 

S04E01- “Ballrooms & Biscotti”

Lorelai and Rory have to deal with the stress of preparing for college. 

S04E02- “The Lorelais’ First Day at Yale”

Rory starts college. 

S04E03- “The Hobbit, the Sofa, and Digger Stiles”

Rory begins her college shopping period. 

S04E06- “An Affair to Remember”

Rory has trouble finding a good place to study while she is behind on her class syllabus.

S04E08- “Die, Jerk”

Rory is told to toughen up her journalistic writing, so she writes a harsh review and faces the consequences. 

S04E10- “The Nanny and the Professor”

Rory participates in the orientation for her school newspaper. 

S04E14- “The Incredible Sinking Lorelais”

This episode once again deals with academic failure.

S05E10- “But Not As Cute As Pushkin”

Rory gives a tour of Yale to a high school student. 

S05E20- “How Many Kropogs to Cape Cod?”

Rory starts an internship.

S06E13- “Friday Night’s Alright for Fighting”

The student news has to pull a hectic all-nighter to publish the paper.

S06E14- “You’ve Been Gilmored”

Rory becomes the editor of her paper.

S06E16- “Bridesmaids Revisited”

Rory speaks at a journalism panel. 

S07E21- “Unto the Breach”

Rory graduates college.