Silk & Satin

ೀ ׅ ࣪ Stay At Home Mother & Trad Wife . ׅ ᱙ ⁺𓏸

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Welcome To My Blog ๑ஓ═════════ʚ♡ɞ∘==========

˗ˏˋ꒰ 🩰 ꒱ About Me

Hello, honey! ／(^ × ^)＼ I'm KB ♡ [She/Her] I enjoy all things soft, sweet, and elegant! Libra, INFP-T, 24 years old

˗ˏˋ꒰ 🩰 ꒱ Likes

Flowers

Art

Poetry

Romance

Self Care

Bubble Baths

Cleaning & Organizing

˗ˏˋ꒰ 🩰 ꒱ Dislikes

The Dark

Seafood

Crowds

Loud Noises

Bright Lights

Onions

Know-It-Alls

˗ˏˋ꒰ 🩰 ꒱ About The Blog

This space serves as a purpose of inspiration for me, and hopefully some others. You will find things ranging from soft coquette aesthetic, to journal ideas, and leveling up your life - hyperfeminine style.

˗ˏˋ꒰ 🩰 ꒱ What You'll See

Coquette Aesthetic

Angelcore Things

Hygiene & Health Tips

Romantic Ideas

Emotional Awareness

Diet & Exercise Tips

Homemaking Advice

Cleaning Motivation

Basic Girl Blogging

˗ˏˋ꒰ 🩰 ꒱ What You Won't See

Funny Memes

Arguing/Drama

Mental Health Glorification

My Personal Life

NSFT Content

˗ˏˋ꒰ 🩰 ꒱ Masterlists (WIP)

Cleaning - Girly Things - Health - Romance - Mood Boards - Emotional Awareness - Diet & Exercise - Home Making - Cute Messages

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stop asking

Do They Like Me?

start asking

Do I Like Them?

What do I like about them?

Are they honest & consistent?

Do I feel met & heard?

Do our values align?

Do I resonate with their level of emotional capacity?

Does our dynamic feel healthy?

Do they receive boundaries well?

How do I feel before, during, and after I am with them?

Are there any red flags?

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Bad Habits To Break

🎀 Irregular sleep schedules & screen time before bed

🐇 Prioritizing instant gratification

🎀 Not acting on your ideas

🐇 Saying yes to everything

🎀 Letting fear dictate your actions

🐇 Obsessing over what people think

🎀 PROCRASTINATION

🐇 Ignoring constructive criticism

🎀 Not exercising & an unbalanced diet

🐇 Stressing over things you cannot control

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🍇 Fruity Nails 🍇

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You mother differently when you

✉️ Slow Down

🐰 Nourish Yourself

✉️ Spend Time Outside Daily

🐰 Prioritize Rest

✉️ Spend Less Time Scrolling

🐰 Listen To Your Intuition

✉️ Make Time For Play

🐰 Look For Beauty In The Small Things

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What The Bible Says About Mothers ~ 📖

🕊 Honor

She is to be honored. Exodus 20:12 Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.

🤍 Remembered

She is not forgotten. Isaiah 49:15 Can a woman forget her nursing child, and not have compassion on the son of her womb? Surely they may forget, yet I will not forget you.

🕊 Comfort

The Lord comforts a mother as she comforts her childred. Isaiah 66:13 As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you; and you will be comforted over Jerusalem.

🤍 Legacy

Her faith leaves a legacy. 2 Timothy 1:5 I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.

🕊 Teacher

She teaches her children diligently. Deuteronomy 6:6 And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart.

🤍 Blessed

Her children will rise up and call her blessed. Proverbs 31:28 Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.

🕊 Housekeeper

She looks well to the house. Proverbs 31:27 She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.

🤍 Strong

She is strong and diligent. Proverbs 31:25 She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.

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Biblical Femininity

The Bible offers quite a bit of wisdom and guidance on various aspects of femininity, highlighting the value and beauty of women as created by God. While there may not be specific traits and characteristics of femininity within the Bible, it does offer insight to how women can live in a way that honors God and reflects His design of the divine woman.

🎀 Dignity & Worth

It is written in Genesis 1:27 - "So God created man in his own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female, He created them." This verse emphasizes that both men & women are created in the image of God, highlighting the dignity and worth of women.

❣️ Strength & Character

Proverbs 31:25-26 praises a woman's strength & dignity - "Strength & dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teachings of kindness is on her tongue." This passage illustrates that femininity can encompass qualities such as strength, wisdom, and kindness.

🎀 Modesty & Inner Beauty

1 Peter 3:3-4 encourages women to focus on inner beauty rather than external adornment. - "Do not let your adorning be external - the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear - but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious."

❣️ Nurturing & Compassion

Titus 2:3-5 instructs older women to teach younger women to love their husbands and children, be self controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their husbands. - "The older women likewise, that they be reverant in behavior, not slanderers, not given too much wine, teacher of good things- that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphamed." This passage highlights the importance of nurturing relationships & demonstrating compassion in daily life.

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As the seasons transition and the days grow shorter and cooler, it's the perfect time to embrace a fall refresh! Much like we enjoy a spring cleaning, a fall cleaning is essential to prepare for the cozy months ahead. Let’s dive into the key areas to focus on during your autumnal tidying spree. Remember, you can tailor your fall cleaning to suit your unique needs and preferences, making it as detailed and delightful as you wish!

🍂 Forgotten Spaces

With more time spent indoors, it's crucial to improve your home's air quality. Make sure to dust all those often-overlooked areas: nooks and crannies, ceiling fans, the tops of cabinets and refrigerators, vents, air returns, and blinds. A thorough dusting will help ensure a fresh and clean environment throughout the season.

🌰 Clean Your Linen

As we cozy up more during the colder months, don't forget to give attention to all your linens. Freshen up your curtains, rugs, blankets, sheets, pillowcases, furniture covers, and mattresses, along with any other fabric-covered furniture that may have been overlooked during the warmer seasons.

🍂 Deep Clean

Give your home a thorough deep clean by tackling the walls, baseboards, doors, door handles, light fixtures, and appliances. Don't forget to clean your fridge and freezer, washing machine, dryer vent, and replace your shower curtain as well as batteries in any detectors in the home for a fresh start.

🌰 Outdoors

Don't forget about the exterior of your home as the weather changes. While I don’t worry too much about the yard after the last cut (leaves are great for the ecosystem and fun for kids), it’s important to keep walkways clear. Keep a rake and broom handy for this task. Consider power washing your house and sidewalks, cleaning out your gutters, and hosting a yard sale to declutter. Additionally, check your pantry and donate any food you no longer plan to use.

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Ladies!!!

Stop settling for men with their hearts in the wrong place! You are worthy of love and to be in your femininity to the fullest. You deserve to be safe, and secure, and living out your dreams. All of this is possible if we follow God's word.

What To Look For

• Man of God

• Secure & Trustworthy

• Natural Leader

• Hardworking

• Good Listener

• Able to Give Love

• Patient

• Family Man & Provider

✟ "Husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself" Ephesians 5:28

✟ "Husbands, love your wives & be gentle with them..." Colossians 3:19

✟ "For the husband is head of his wife, as Christ is head of the Church; the Church is of Christ's body & as it's head, He saves it." Ephesians 5:23

✟ "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ also loved the Church and gave Himself for her..." Ephesians 5:25

✟ "But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." Timothy 5:8

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Home-Making Masterlist

• Infant Diet 9-12 Mo

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9-12 Month Baby Diet

it is important to remember that including a variety of colors and textures are important for babies' development.

** this is also the diet I follow in my own household with my children, backed by nutritionalists.

Color Ideas

• Green 💚: Green Beans, Peas, Spinach, Zuccini, Kiwi

• Orange 🧡: Cantelope, Sweet Potatoes, Peaches, Carrots

• Yellow 💛: Peppers, Bananas, Squash

• Red ❤️: Tomato, Strawberry, Watermelon

• Blue 💙: Berries

Breakfast

• 1 Egg

• ¼ cup Fresh Fruit

• 6 oz Bottle

Lunch

• ¼ cup Yogurt

• ¼ cup Veggies

• 4 oz Bottle

Dinner

• ¼ cup Meat

• ¼ cup Veggies

• 6 oz Bottle

Bedtime

• 8 oz Warm Bottle

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Hello September 🍂🐇

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𝐁𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐇𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬 & 𝐍𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐬

💌 Rub vaseline gently into the skin around your nails to hydrate your cuticles.

🎀 Massage the vaseline into your knuckles to reduce folds and wrinkles for a smoother look.

💌 Doing hand exercises after applying vaseline can slim down your hands.

🎀 Wash and clean you nails often to prevent grime build-up and spread of germs.

💌 Switch to acetone-free polish remover, as it is more gentle.

🎀 Trim and shape your nails often.

💌 Soak your nails for 15-30 minutes in warm oil daily to help contribute to nail development.

🎀 Eat youe vitamins!

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Homemaking .vs. Housekeeping

In this day and age, it seems the art of homemaking has almost been completely lost, if not forgotten altogether. What we as small children used to play pretend, has somewhat become a burden to us. We were pushed to get an education and focus on a career, rather than learning the art of homemaking.

Those of us who have fallen into the role of being the homemaker and mother tend to reply "Oh, I'm just a stay at home mom," as if it is something we have become ashamed of. How many of us were ridiculed and made fun of for saying we wanted to be mothers as children in school?

You also don't have to be a stay at home mom if you choose not to. Or even have kids if that isn't something you'd not like to do. It is absolutely possible to be a homemaker and have an entirely seperate career. Regardless of your personal living circumstances, ANYONE can be a homemaker.

People tend to come to a disconnect between homemaking and housekeeping. They are NOT the same thing. While housekeeping is very important, it isn't where people find contentment or fulfillment.

Housekeeping is the actual action of keeping your house looking neat and tidy. This includes the mundane cleaning, but it also may include repairing the roof or plumbing as needed.

Homemaking is the art of making your house a home.

So what makes a house a home? Comfortability, a welcoming atmosphere, love, decor, and above all - you. Homemaking is about people and communicating love through actions. When I think about the homes where I’ve most felt loved and welcomed, it was not because the house was spotless but because the women in those homes knew how to truly make a house a home.