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27, NYC, engineer, aspiring MBA, dog mom || shit is purely for sport, I need a 30 for 30

[brownbabysugar]

HELP: I feel like I'm talking to a fake on SA...

He’s some real estate guy from NY who was born into wealth, conveniently bought land in a town 50 miles from me and is offering $1000 meet ups. BUT. He proposes snapchat as a method of communication beyond SA, to be “discreet” and trustworthy, but I don’t want him to have my personal snapchat and I can’t make another one on the same phone apparently. Something is off about him though. His profile name is “Sugar Daddy”–that’s it. And there’s nothing written in his bio space at all. In his description, his occupation is missing (and he used the wrong word for discreet btw). I’m thinking these are all red flags for a fake posing as an SD to get snapchat photos from bitches, but hey, I’m a pessimist. Maybe this guy is just super lowkey–but come on, SNAPCHAT? You can’t just make a fake email like everyone else with ½ a brain or more?

What do you guys think??

[sucrose-engineer]

lol they all use discrete instead of discreet and it takes every ounce of will power i have not to correct them.

I wonder if you could make a snapchat using a google voice phone number? Could be worth a shot but yeah most likely he’s wasting your time.

[westcoastsugarbabe-blog]

All these daddies with “high” and “substantial” as their lifestyle budget and their high net worths need to either stop lying or start acting.

[sucrose-engineer]

amen

[sucrose-engineer]

AMAZON PRIME DAY

Ladies - 

Quite a few Cartier, Chanel, Omega, Baume et Mercier, etc watches are included in the Prime Day 30% off.  Get sending those wishlists to daddy, and don’t forget to remind him of the deal you’re getting him because you care about him.

I’m prowling right now maybe I’ll make a post of all luxury items we need in our lives.

[sucrose-engineer]

old men don’t even appreciate the effort that went into that cheekbone highlight, tragic

Question for you guys/gals who have lines in your lips - how do you get rid of them? Do you get rid of them? I slather aquaphor and vaseline on these things like it’s my job and drink plenty of water but there’s still always lines! Can’t even really wear matte lipstick because of it, ugh

[sucrose-engineer]

Conversation somehow got weirder. His profile said he was white but he keeps asking who I prefer to date and mentioning that “there must be a difference between dating an Italian guy and a black guy” and things like that. Not sure what he’s getting at but I’m gonna quick say I like green men, like Ben Franklin

[bisou-bisou-bisou-bisou-deactiv]

Lol what. A penis is a penis. Why is he sounding so damn insecure?? Like he is basing his views on BM on stereotypes (BBDs, sexual super males). I hate that bullshit.

[sucrose-engineer]

The “Mandingo” stereotype, if you will.  I should have told him black men take you to dinner, buy you drinks, fuck in missionary and ask you to be their girlfriend the same as white dudes do (and east indian/asian/hispanic for that matter), this isn’t some like forbidden taboo kinky thing happening.

[sucrose-engineer]

Conversation somehow got weirder. His profile said he was white but he keeps asking who I prefer to date and mentioning that “there must be a difference between dating an Italian guy and a black guy” and things like that. Not sure what he’s getting at but I’m gonna quick say I like green men, like Ben Franklin

[bisou-bisou-bisou-bisou-deactiv]

Lol what. A penis is a penis. Why is he sounding so damn insecure?? Like he is basing his views on BM on stereotypes (BBDs, sexual super males). I hate that bullshit.

[blankstareho-deactivated2026051]

No shade but white/italian/ any color than black men are obsessed with black dick like honestly obsessed with it. constantly bringing up black dick like i dont know why they dont just fuck one since they so obsessed.

[sucrose-engineer]

LOL i should have suggested that. i can just imagine being in bed w him and him whispering in my ear “how does this compare to a black dick though? can you give thorough details?”

[hoegoalsunited-deactivated20161]

How do I be one of those girls who doesn’t give a fuck about guys that’s she’s in love with???? Asking for an emotional friend jk (it’s me)

[sucrose-engineer]

Sooo the date went well! We didn't talk money but he has major connections with people on the boards of the schools I want to attend for grad school. He seems like more of a pay my loans type than a buy me gifts type, and that's totally fine with me right now. If my money isn't going towards my loans, I can buy my own damn gifts 😊 Not trying to get my hopes up though because I know how these things can go from 0-60 and then back to 0 in a day.

[shxva-deactivated20161117]

Going to meet my first ever POT tomorrow...

Newbie sugar baby here and I need some advice!

We met online/on an app and have chatted for a good couple hours. He says he is interested in meeting. My only concern is he lives in what I know as a sketchy neighbourhood (lots of muggings, robberies, stabbings). He also suggested meeting in a coffee shop or his place, but is more keen on his place. I tried suggesting meeting halfway because we literally live on opposite sides of our city. He doesn’t want to and says better in his area. He then mentioned only his place after. Should I be suspicious? Aren’t first meeting supposed to be in public? I’ve asked if he has previous SB before and he said his previous SB lasted 5 years but moved to England for a job. Luckily he hasn’t mentioned sex but I asked him what he expects from a SB and he said he’s looking for a relationship and friendship.

Do I consider any of these red flags? Any help is appreciated! Thanks! ❤️

[sucrose-engineer]

do not meet him at his place.  i wouldn’t even want to go somewhere walking distance from his place.  if he can’t meet you halfway, i don’t think he’s gonna be very generous with his wallet either.

[whatwhiteswillneverknow]

I am not a woman and yet, even I know that’s not really… 

*sighs* 

This is why you go out and vote because a person like THIS have the same power as you. 

[sucrose-engineer]

why is this woman even thinking about and making graphic visual representations of her daughter’s vaginas tho like 

[sucrose-engineer]

I'll push him up to $1000 next time. If the $200 is that big of a difference to him then he's not the whale he claims to be.

[sucrose-engineer]

“Where are you going later?”

I hate this question at work. Why do men see fit to comment on my clothes and makeup? Do I ask you who you’re seeing after work because you ironed your pants and lint rolled your fucking shirt for once? No, because it’s none of my business, and because your appearance and the reasons for it are yours alone.  

Say “you look nice!” and leave it at that, why are you gonna add in the implication that I’m dressed the way I am for someone else? Sometimes I wake up early and do that thing where you do your makeup but you’re ready early so you just keep putting on more and more layers.  

Oh, another crease color! Now I’ll have to darken the outer v!

Oooh look at this blush I haven’t worn in a while! I can cover the one I already have on with it!!

Highlight everything!!!! Oh wait too shiny... mattify everything!!!!  But re-highlight the cheekbones!

I do it for me.  I like to look nice because it puts me in a good mood and helps me be productive.  I paint my nails so I don’t bite them not because I think it’s more attractive to you. 

“Oh shit lemme buy both Essie Mint Candy Apple and Essie Turquoise and Caicos because some guy is gonna actually ever notice the subtle differences in saturation and might prefer me in one over the other!” - Me, never. 

I’d like to additionally point out that it takes less time and effort to slip on a dress than to have to find a top to wear plus pants that match that don’t need to be ironed and aren’t in the dry-cleaning pile.  It’s one piece.  

This happened in college too - a professor asked me if I was going to a fashion show because I was wearing jeans and a sweater and CONVERSE SNEAKERS.  It takes the exact same amount of time for me to put on jeans as it does for anyone else to put on sweatpants, I don’t find them uncomfortable at all, why do you need to call me out? I’m here in class just like anyone else, is the implication that I’m less serious because I wore real people clothes and not pajamas??? You’re gonna pause your lecture for this, really?

No wonder I, and women in general really, have constant anxiety about my/our appearance/s - people really are always noticing and judging it!  

[sucrose-engineer]

90+ degree heat this pot better appreciate the effort it's gonna take for me to redo this fishtail braid before I leave work because my commute fucked it up so bad. Just glad I didn't spend time blow drying it last night just to have the back drenched in sweat.

[mxnrique]

LMFAO THE TRUTH FINALLY COMES OUT!!!

[tarynel]

YAAAS

[smilesnlove21-deactivated201608]

I always knew he was trash

[lotsofl0ve]

from here on if you still support Future you are officially trash

[youngharlemnigga]

I’m listening to march madness rn

[thebodegabandit]

Still bumping DS2 till this day

[blankstareho-deactivated2026051]

we all know niggas aint shit so

[sucrose-engineer]

Don’t forget that he would return the child after visits wearing dirty clothes smelling of urine and smoke.  

But he’s acting like he’s doing this because he cares about his kid and not just to be vindictive to Ciara... yeah ok

[sucrose-engineer]

Hi, so I recently started my SA profile and I was just wondering what kind of pictures you think are okay to have in the private photos? Like, I get that they don't want someone they deem as "slutty", so obviously nothing too revealing, but I also don't want to seem super boring. Please help! Thank you:)

Hi! In my private photos I have a picture that shows my face clearly (some girls don’t do this for totally understandable reasons - it’s up to you but if you choose to make sure it’s not a picture attached to your personal Twitter or Instagram or whatever else), and then one that shows my full body fully clothes with friends cropped out, and then a mirror selfie in a sexier “going-out” dress that shows a little more body but not my face.  I also have one that shows some personality - I alternate between one wearing a hard hat at work and one with my puppy.  I don’t think super revealing photos are required or necessary so long as you show your body type clearly so they know what to expect.  When men ask me for bikini or whatever kind of more revealing pics (as they often do), I direct them back to my private pics where my body type is clearly show in both skinny jeans and a slim fitting blouse and a tight dress.  Hope that helps!

[sugar-popping]

any new york babies run into this guy? i think he’s scammed my sugar baby friend and is in the process of scamming me too… heads up for a potential blacklist i guess. his name is ken.

[sucrose-engineer]

Yeah we were texting a little but nothing ever came of it.  I got the feeling he wasn’t serious about being an SD at all.  How did he scam your friend?

[classykelsea31-deactivated20160]

I wish there was a website where we could submit sugardaddies and our experiences with them. This way we could open a message from a pot and search their info on the site and see if they are a total waste of time or not.

[brownsugarbae]

This is a really good idea. And I’m sure other babies have something like this existed too. Maybe some IT-inclined sugar sisters can make it happen? Lord knows the bowl needs it.

[sucrose-engineer]

It would definitely save a lot of us time dealing with men who lowball or just do first dates with no intention of starting an arrangement, and also keep us from writing off guys who type terribly but are actually high rollers.