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ദ്ദി ≽^⎚˕⎚^≼ .ᐟ

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𑣲2026, Jan 11⋆˚࿔

When our dog Jacques died, I noticed how my mom would often stare blankly at the veranda near where he was buried. Sometimes she would act like she wasn’t affected and didn’t want us to mention that Jacques was already gone. From our topic last saturday, this shows how people cope with grief by using emotional suppression and self-schemas— she tried to see herself as “strong” to function in daily life. It made me realize that not showing emotions doesn’t mean the pain isn’t there; sometimes, people hide their feelings because that’s how they survive loss.

Ate miss you so much my love:(

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❀˖°Running, Rushing, Realizing❀࿐

At first, the activity felt fun and exciting—especially the part where we had to run to the front and spell the correct answers. It brought energy and laughter to the group, making everyone more involved and active. However, beyond the fun, I realized that the activity carried a deeper meaning. It showed how people can sometimes react quickly based on assumptions or pressure, which can lead to prejudice or even aggressive responses without fully thinking things through.

As the activity went on, I started to see how these behaviors connect to real-life situations. In everyday life, people often judge others based on first impressions, stereotypes, or limited information, which can result in unfair treatment or conflict. The competitive nature of the game also showed how aggression can arise, especially when there is pressure to win or perform well. Some reactions, even if unintentional, reflected how easily emotions can influence behavior.

In all, the facilitation was both fun and meaningful. It allowed us to experience the concepts of prejudice and aggression in a simple yet realistic way. It made me realize the importance of being more mindful of our actions, thinking before reacting, and understanding others better instead of making quick judgments. The activity reminded me that even small situations can reflect bigger social issues, and awareness is the first step toward change.✌︎︎

(di ma upload pics huhu💔)

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⋆˚꩜｡Chaos to Harmony⋆. 𐙚 ˚

I really noticed how group dynamics can completely change the experience. There were moments when things didn’t work at all—when we didn’t communicate well, got easily frustrated, or weren’t sure what to do—stress levels shot up, and it felt like we were all high in cortisol just trying to figure things out. It was chaotic and honestly a bit overwhelming at times, especially when we struggled to transfer the ball to the other side or coordinate our moves.

Even with the challenge of passing the ball and making mistakes along the way, the activity felt rewarding, and laughter and teamwork took over the stress.

I realized that harmony, cooperation, and patience can completely transform a group’s energy. When we’re aligned, even difficult tasks feel lighter, and moments that would normally be stressful can actually turn into fun and memorable experiences.

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࣪ ִֶָ☾.Stay calm, Step forward❀˖°

There was something about the activity that really stayed with me, especially the part about helping others during emergencies. It made me realize that in real-life situations, it’s not always easy to step up right away. Sometimes, when something happens to someone—like ma unsa sila or suddenly gets hurt—people tend to freeze or just look around, waiting for someone else to take action. I’ve seen moments like that before, and honestly, I can relate to that feeling of hesitation. That’s when I understood how the bystander effect really happens—not because people don’t care, but because they’re unsure, shocked, or waiting for others to respond first.

Through the demo, I realized how important it is to stay calm but also act quickly. Seeing how they showed simple ways to help, like using the R.I.C.E. method when someone gets sprained, made everything feel more real and practical. It’s not about doing something perfect, but at least doing something helpful in the moment. I learned that being calm allows you to think clearly, and being quick means you can actually make a difference before things get worse.

Personally, this made me reflect on how I would respond if I were in that kind of situation. I want to be someone who doesn’t just stand and watch, but someone who steps forward, even in small ways. Because in emergencies, even the simplest action—like checking on someone, calling for help, or assisting them properly—can mean so much. This experience reminded me that helping others is not just about skills, but also about courage, awareness, and presence of mind.

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𑣲PINK TEAM⋆.𐙚 ̊

Our group facilitation on conformity and obedience honestly felt like a big moment for all of us. At first, we were nervous—there was pressure, paspas ang time, and we weren’t sure how everything would turn out. But seeing everyone step up, help each other, and give their best made everything fall into place. It didn’t feel like just a requirement anymore—it felt real and meaningful. We were genuinely happy and relieved that we were able to pull it off successfully as a team.𐦂𖨆𐀪𖠋

One thing that really stood out was how the participants reacted. Instead of strictly following their assigned leader, many of them chose to rely on their own instincts or followed what others were doing, especially because of the time pressure. It was unexpected, but at the same time, it made our activity even more meaningful because we saw the concept of conformity and obedience naturally happening right in front of us. Because of that, we were able to come up with a clearer and more genuine conclusion.

We also want to sincerely thank Miss Joy and Miss Rica for being our judgesּ♡. Their feedback and observations helped validate that the scenarios we created were on point and realistic. And of course, we are very grateful to Miss Barbie⋆˚, our teacher, for being so hands-on with us from start to finish.

Overall, this experience reminded us that even under pressure, teamwork, trust, and effort can really make something meaningful and successful.˚˖𓍢ִ໋❀

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We lived, We ran, We gasped, We lost😭😭

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

hapit mga umod jud

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My Brain Really Loves Jumping to Conclusions

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Perception feels like walking around with invisible “aesthetic filters” on—parang built-in Instagram story sa brain natin. We don’t just see people; we interpret them. One classmate becomes “maldita” just because she’s quiet, one late reply becomes "naay attitude,” and suddenly our minds are award-winning directors of a drama that might not even be real. It’s kind of silly when you think about it—we react not to reality itself, but to the meaning we attach to it. Social perception reminds me that my brain loves shortcuts, filling in gaps with assumptions wrapped in confidence. But the fruitful part? Realizing this gives me power🫨.

If perception can distort, it can also be softened. I can pause, zoom out, and choose curiosity over conclusion. Maybe she’s not cold🥶—maybe she’s tired🫩. Maybe the silence isn’t rejection🫷🙂‍↔️🫸—maybe it’s just silence🤐. In the end, perception isn’t just how we see others; it’s how we decide what kind of world we’re living in.

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February 12, 2026

Pre-Med Day, yippeeeeeee!! All is well— successs! It was tiring, fun and engaging at the same time. luv eeetttt😆

To my classmates, I’m truly grateful for everyone’s dedication and willingness to step up without hesitation. During the booth preparation, everyone truly came together and nagtinabangay with genuine effort and heart. Each person gave their best—whether through time, creativity, resources, or even small but meaningful acts of help. Thank you, everyone💓

To Miss Barbie<3

We are truly grateful to you for being with us the whole time during our booth😭. It meant so much to see you miss not just guiding us, but actually standing beside us, helping promote and engaging with others as if you are one of us. Murag student pud siya ganina —enthusiastic, supportive, and fully present yes iiiii😆

We deeply appreciate your time, effort, and genuine support🥺. Having a teacher who believes in us and walks with us every step of the way is something we will always be thankful for. Thank you sa libre na water miss na save among vocal cords haha😭💓

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❀˖°A Bond Like No Other༄.°

Friendship feels like harmony,

like different hearts learning the same rhythm.

we don’t try to be the same—

we just choose to stay.

Our hangouts are never grand,

just laughter that comes too easily,

inside jokes that make no sense,

games played for fun, not to win.

There’s peace in being silly together,

in moments where no one is pretending,

where time slows down

because being present is enough.

I learned that friendship is not about perfection, it’s about choosing each other in ordinary days— showing up, laughing, and growing side by side.

It taught me that:

Unity doesn’t erase individuality

Joy multiplies when shared

Feeling safe with people is a quiet blessing

Togetherness can be gentle and loud at the same time

Here's a toast to my real friends,

who make life lighter,

warmer,

and a little more playful.

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⋆𐙚 ̊.私の人生~⋆˚࿔

I’m learning that life doesn’t ask me

to have everything figured out,

it only asks me to move gently through it.

peace, i realized, is not a perfect life— it’s waking up and choosing softness even when the world feels heavy, even when i don’t feel ready.

Peace lives in small, quiet things:

slow mornings, deep breaths,

letting go of what i cannot control,

and forgiving myself for being human.

today, life taught me that peace is allowing myself to rest, to feel, to pause— without guilt.

Peace is a choice, not a destination

Growth doesn’t have to hurt all the time

It’s okay to take life one day at a time

Being gentle with myself is also strength

Life becomes lighter

when i stop fighting it

and start living it with peace.

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⋆. 𐙚 ˚PRIDE AND PREJUDICE⋆˚꩜｡

Rewatching Pride and Prejudice felt like watching prejudice unfold in slow motion. Everyone had a label ready—based on class, manners, or rumors—and those labels shaped how people treated each other before they even spoke. Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy wasn’t just misunderstood; they were filtering each other through class, reputation, and ego.

We judge with incomplete information, then defend those judgments like they’re facts. The movie reminded me that unlearning prejudice doesn’t happen instantly—it takes discomfort, reflection, and the humility to admit we were wrong.

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EVERYBODY'S Gangstars—

until the group chat says “ok lang” and suddenly you also say ok lang 💀

Conformity is realizing you had an opinion… until everyone else didn’t.

Obedience is following instructions not because they make sense, but because someone sounded confident enough.

Lesson learned: free will exists, it’s just shy in social situations.

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࣪ ִֶָ☾.SIMON SAYS, WHA—? ⊹ ࣪ ˖

Funny how Simon says trained us early to freeze, jump, and obey without questioning—now we just do it with deadlines, trends, and group chats. Guess the game never really ended, it just got better outfits and louder voices.

P.s.p.s.p.s. we're gonna find a better idea💡

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۶ৎSATURDAY MEETING.☘︎ ݁˖

It seems almost natural to watch teammates brainstorm with excellent coordination—ideas flow, people pay attention, and nobody tries to dominate the group. It serves as a gentle reminder that cooperation becomes less about talking and more about knowing one another when egos are set aside and trust takes over.

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𑣲MORE THAN YOU COULD EVER KNOWN⋆.𐙚 ̊

More times than I'd care to admit, I've caught myself making snap judgments and then gradually realized how incorrect they were. It's funny how confident we are about stories that are entirely unreal. Making mistakes, learning, and reminding myself that everyone, including myself, is bearing an invisible baggage are all part of being human.

YES I

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𓏲𝄢2026, Jan 08⋆˚.༄

I frequently notice that I alternate between being meek in class, playful with friends, disconnected when I'm exhausted, and lively when I finally feel secure. It's adapting, not being fake. Situational influence is what social psychology refers to, but to me, it's survival—figuring out which aspects of myself match the situation without losing myself as a whole.

Perhaps personality is a reaction rather than a fixed characteristic, formed by situations, context, and the subtle drive to fit in.

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