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not gonna lie. it’s pretty fuckin impressive how jaafar managed to find himself in a nearly decade-long committed relationship despite his tumultuous, traumatic family background. even before maddie, he was dating another high school sweetheart for several years.
I can’t imagine the toll it must’ve had on him growing up to see his dad constantly frolicking around from woman to woman (even to this day), as well as his mom being previously involved with his now-absent uncle. when randy jr said in that canceled show trailer that he and genevieve were the “kids that were supposed to be picked up but weren’t”, my heart sank for them. jaafar grew up experiencing and witnessing abandonment and instability all around him. even before he was born, his dad left behind a trail of half-siblings who also experienced the brunt of his wandering eye. that means that at some point during his upbringing, he definitely felt awkward meeting up with the folks of his dad’s past. he must’ve encountered situations where he was forced to confront his family’s rocky past.
despite it all, he’s so calm and composed. almost….normal……
i wonder if him reluctantly staying with maddie after all these years has anything to do with his generational trauma. i wonder if he’s afraid of being seen as repeating what his dad and grandpa did. maybe he doesn’t want to replay what his family’s prior generations went through. perhaps he realized early in life that he desires stability and was precocious enough to not follow the same path as his dad and grandad.
I actually think this is an interesting point because I can see the argument that growing up around that much instability could make someone really value having one consistent person in their life. Personally, I’m somewhat the same. Like if you spend your childhood watching relationships constantly fall apart, people leave, family dynamics get messy, etc. I can definitely see why you’d grow up thinking yeahhhh I don’t want that shit for myself LMAO.
At the same time, I think there’s an interesting distinction between wanting stability and actually having a healthy relationship with stability. Sometimes people who grow up around chaos can become attached to whatever feels familiar simply because it’s familiar. Even if it’s not necessarily good for them. Sooo the fact that he’s maintained a relationship for this long is pretty impressive considering his background lol but I don’t necessarily think longevity by itself proves he’s broken the cycle idk maybe that’s just me 🤷♀️
Now on the topic of his relationship, ten years is a 100% a long time, especially when you consider everything surrounding his family history. It makes you wonder if he was consciously trying to build the exact kind of relationship he never saw growing up. Maybe he just happened to find someone early and decided to stay with her? Or perhaps, idk, did the relationship itself become part of his idea of what “stability” is supposed to look like? Mannnyyy possibilities to analyze here 😂
Anyway, I also wouldn’t want to automatically take him staying as meaning everything is perfect or that he’s completely happy. Staying in a relationship can come from a lot of things like love, commitment, comfort, habit, or even fear of repeating your parents’ mistakes. That’s why the generational trauma angle is so interesting. Maybe his biggest fear isn’t cheating or switching relationships like his father but actually repeating the same emotional abandonment patterns in a different way. So he might be very focused on not recreating that kind of family situation, even if he still carries some of those deeper patterns with him. Which makes me wonder if his idea of commitment is more about not wanting to become the older men in his family (some… dont come for me) rather than oh this is the perfect relationship for me! And wellll those are definitely not the same thing, obviously
I heard jaafar has a new role to play in an upcoming thriller movie which sure isn’t shocking, seeing as that’s something he said he wanted to take part in. but what’s interesting is that i kinda predicted this!! you can look at this post where i delve into his career using astrology in a little segment. butttt anywayyy, im a little happy to learn some of this is coming true! so I thought I’d share. Also new posts coming up, sorry for the delay everyone ;; moving sucks.
i’m not sure if you’re still comfortable or not still reading for jaafar jackson, so feel free not to if you don’t want to. but there is a small rumor circulating online (that supposedly it is false and not true and someone just made it up for shits and giggles, but at the end of the day there is still no confirmation) that he and #she will be tying the knot either in september or by the end of the year. of course take it with a grain of salt, since some fans have a discourse on whether that is in fact happening or not.
it’s also up to jaafar that if they were to take that next step, would he want to wait before or after wrapping the sequel to the michael movie to do so.
a part of me does see that they will go their separate ways, whether that means they break off their engagement, or if they did in fact get married it would not work in the long run. cause no shade, but jermaine may not be the best role model when it comes to that department if you feel my vibe no offense lol. but also in the sense that if jaafar feels he should be able to explore life ~single~ outside of 10 year relationship, to see who he wants to be….or again he may just choose her and only her, who knows.
since the michael movie came out, there have been a good amount of other tarot videos on them on youtube and i would say majority if not all say they will split, but it’s up to HIM to realize that and to put in the work to figure it all out accordingly. #she has no intention to end their relationship (allegedly). there was also a separate alleged leak irl…that according to some family friends, they are dealing with some internal issues or conflicts since his new found fame.
can you pull any cards to see if that initial rumor/s are true or not? or any other insight you might catch? ty very much appreciated!
hey! so i was looming over whether i should continue readings about jaafar and such but i honestly dont mind it. im kind knee deep into it lmao. so heres the reading check those rumors! so anyone feel free to send in anymore asks about jaafar or #her and ill try my best to respond. also! im using lenormand cards as well just to try my hand at it so thatll be a little bonus near the end.
cards pulled: 5 of pentacles, 6 of pentacles, 3 of pentacles, King of pentacles, Page of cups, The high priestess
5 of pentacles makes me wonder if there’s something they’re still trying to work through before making such a permanent commitment. It feels like one person (perhaps jaafar) may not feel entirely secure, whether that’s emotionally, privately or even because of outside pressure. Since this has been such a public relationship lately, it almost gives me the impression that not everything behind the scenes feels as solid as people assume. There’s a slight feeling that something is still missing before moving forward.
6 of pentacles shifts the energy quite a bit because now it feels like an attempt to restore balance. I almost wonder if there’s been conversations about compromise or making sure each person feels they’re getting what they need. It doesn’t necessarily read as romantic to me but rather it feels more like trying to get back onto equal footing. If there has been distance recently, this card looks like an effort to smooth things over rather than continue drifting apart.
3 of pentacles catches my attention because it focuses on teamwork. Instead of romance being the main theme, I keep noticing cooperation. It’s almost like they’re figuring out how to function together under current circumstances. This could absolutely point toward discussing future plans for a wedding but it feels like those plans are being built piece by piece instead of happening overnight. It also makes me think other people or outside obligations like the movie sequel are influencing the relationship more than usual.
King of pentacles definitely gives me the vibe of a long term partner. If I’m looking at one person here, it feels like someone who wants stability and permanence. This is honestly one of the stronger cards if you’re asking whether marriage is on the table eventually. The thing is, it feels more like the mindset of commitment than an immediate ceremony. It’s someone thinking in terms of longevity rather than urgency so id almost imagine this is talking about jaafar as well.
Page of cups is where I slow down a bit when it comes to solidifying a yes to the rumor because this doesn’t have the weight I’d expect if the spread were strongly pointing toward wedding bells happening very soon. It almost feels like emotions are still unfolding naturally. There may be sweet conversations, hopeful moments or renewed affection but it has a softer, almost tentative quality. They’re, I suppose, still building their relationship rather than honing in on marriage.
The high priestess is probably what stands out to me the most. It leaves the reading feeling unfinished. Rather than giving a clear yes or no, it almost says there are factors that simply aren’t visible yet. It makes me wonder if there’s information behind closed doors that would completely change how this timeline is viewed. It also gives me the impression that not everything surrounding their future plans is meant to be public right now.
Sooo, I don’t think this is a particularly strong yes. Ironically, for a marriage question, there aren’t many cards that feel celebratory or conclusive. Instead, I see people trying to regain balance, work together, think long-term and quietly navigate whatever is happening behind the scenes. The marriage itself doesn’t feel impossible ngl. In fact, the king of pentacles suggests commitment is something that’s taken seriously but this spread doesn’t leave me with the impression that the wedding is necessarily imminent. It feels more like they’re still building toward whatever comes next rather than already standing at the altar.
Now for lenormand! It’s line tarot but much more straightforward. I pulled: house, man and tree.
house is about stability, putting importance to security. I imagine this is jaafar wanting to focus on stabilizing himself and the relationship before going forward. how can you build a home when you’re lacking on foundation? i also imagine this talks about how their currently still in that building stage of their relationship, still working up toward something like marriage. so this is not really setting the nail in the coffin.
man is well, about a man. this could be about jaafar but i actually got the vibe that is more set on someone else that jaafar may talk to. so perhaps he’s communicating with a man and trying to make him stabilize himself or being a voice of a reason to him. it could potentially be his brothers but it can be anyone else that anchors him. they can influence the way he sees the relationship or how he should proceed.
tree talks about growth and the long term. I think this whole reading talks about how there needs to be healing in the long term before even stepping foot at the altar. tree can even talk about ancestors and connecting with family. I think this time is crucial for jaafar because he needs to make a very serious decision and he needs people to somewhere advise him in these moments. also this can generally talk about needing to focus on one’s health in general.
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Before we get into today’s reading, I want to make one thing very clear. This is a tarot reading for entertainment purposes only. Tarot doesn’t provide objective proof of real events and it isn’t a tool for confirming rumors or exposing anyone’s private life. What we’re exploring today is the energy surrounding a connection, not factual evidence or hidden truths.
Today we’re looking at Gerard Way and Frank Iero and specifically focusing on their years together in the band (from 2002 to 2012) a period where fans often speculated there might have been something more than friendship between them.
Now, when I say “something more,” I’m not going into this reading assuming romance, nor am I going to try to debunk it. I’m leaving that at the door for you guys to interpret. We’re going to let the cards describe the relationship in their own language.
So as always, keep an open mind, let the cards tell their story!
9 of Pentacles
The first thing that catches my attention is that neither of them enters this connection looking to be completed by the other. They both come across as independent, almost protective of their own identities. That’s actually why the rumors surrounding them are so interesting, because whatever existed between them wasn’t born out of loneliness. If there was affection here, it developed between two people who already had lives, ambitions and a strong sense of self. There’s also a subtle layer of admiration. I don’t necessarily think this is romantic on its own but I do think they appreciated qualities in each other that they didn’t easily find elsewhere.
6 of Cups
There’s genuine fondness here, like the kind that makes you laugh at inside jokes from years ago, finish each other’s words and know how the other person thinks. Whether people interpreted that closeness romantically or not, I’d completely understand why they would. This isn’t some cold professional partnership (obviously) but rather a relationship built on years of shared experiences from long drives, hotel rooms, rehearsals and growing up together under unusual circumstances.
Knight of Pentacles Reversed
Whatever this relationship was, it doesn’t feel like it was trying to evolve into something else. If there were moments where emotions became complicated, one or both of them simply…didn’t move. Things stayed where they were so it’s also possible they prioritized the band’s stability over exploring anything that might complicate it. This feels like choosing familiarity over risk if I make sense.
10 of Pentacles Reversed
People often assume closeness automatically means there was some sort of secret romance but this card feels more like the opposite problem: reality getting in the way. So imagine long term partners, marriage, expectations, family, careers etc. There are too many established structures surrounding both of them. Even if confusing feelings ever surfaced, there were already entire lives being built elsewhere. It makes the connection feel…limited by circumstance.
8 of Swords Reversed
Someone becomes aware of their own thoughts and starts breaking out of a mental loop. I don’t know that this necessarily means that someone confessed their love. It feels more like finally understanding what this relationship actually is instead of projecting possibilities onto it. If there was confusion, this card suggests it eventually settled into clarity.
4 of Wands
This is probably why the public latched onto them so intensely. They genuinely looked happy together, like two people who genuinely enjoyed sharing a stage and a life on the road. There’s a celebratory quality here that makes me think they brought out the best in each other creatively.
Temperance
Whatever this relationship was, it found a balance that somehow worked for years. They understood each other’s personalities. One may have been more impulsive while the other naturally balanced things out. There was compromise, patience and mutual respect. Honestly, this is making me lean more toward emotional compatibility than hidden romance. Some relationships are simply profound without fitting neatly into romantic labels.
The Magician Reversed
This is the card that makes me question perception in general. So, were people just projecting onto them? Were the two of them intentionally playing into the chemistry because they knew audiences loved it? Orrr were they simply two naturally charismatic performers whose closeness became exaggerated by everyone watching? I don’t think this card is saying there was deception. I think it says appearances deserve a good second look.
8 of Pentacles Reversed
I don’t actually think this points toward romance falling apart. It’s more like periods where they stopped investing in the relationship outside of work. Touring, recording, personal lives, marriages- allll of it demands time. There are moments where maintaining even close friendships becomes difficult. This feels like two people whose connection occasionally suffered simply because life became overwhelming.
10 of Cups
I feel like people wonder what they both had was transactional (if you know what im hinting at) and I don’t think this is saying that. Whether they were just best friends, brothers in everything but blood or even briefly wandered into a situationship lmao, there is real affection underneath this card. It’s almost wholesome. There’s a sense of emotional fulfillment that doesn’t require romance to be meaningful. I actually think this is one of the reasons people around them might have wondered if something more existed.
King of Swords
This card makes me think someone is making a conscious decision. By the end of the band era, emotion gives way to logic- so reality wins. Their lives continue (marriage, children, priorities etc). If there were ever unanswered questions between them, I actually think they stayed unanswered because someone chose clarity over possibility. That doesn’t necessarily mean there was a hidden love story but rather it means there was enough maturity to understand that not every meaningful connection needs to become a romance.
General consensus:
I honestly don’t think there was a secret relationship hidden from us. I do, however, think there was an unusually deep bond that blurred lines for the people watching from the outside. They spent years creating, traveling, succeeding, failing and growing up together. That’s definitely fertile ground for speculation, especially when two people genuinely enjoy each other’s company and aren’t afraid to show it (yes even if it means kissing on stage). The cards don’t convince me they were simply coworkers, either. Whatever they shared mattered. Whether you call it brotherhood, soulmates, or a situationship- it left an imprint on both of them. Perhaps that’s why people kept asking if there was something more because sometimes the strongest relationships are the ones that refuse to fit neatly into a single category :p
So… how did they individually feel about each other? In this section, we’ll take a look into how the other had thought/felt about the other. First, we’ll be looking at Gerard’s mind. Keep in mind, this is all just for entertainment purposes and I'm not guaranteeing the truth in this. We’re just having fun!
How did Gerard feel about Frank?
8 of Pentacles
I don’t think Gerard took the connection lightly. It’s like he invested all his funds (not literally) into it lmao. So whether that was through songwriting, rehearsals, or simply learning how the other person worked, there was genuine effort here. This doesn’t seem like Frank was someone who he merely tolerated as a bandmate. He actively wanted to build something that functioned well between them, and I think he respected Frank's talent enough to keep showing up and putting in that work.
10 of Wands Reversed
This is where the relationship became a place to breathe. The spotlight can be exhausting. Being the frontman means constantly carrying a lot of expectations but being around Frank felt like some of that weight could be set down. I almost get the sense that he didn’t always have to perform around him.
4 of Cups Reversed
Something about Frank kept pulling his attention back. There’s curiosity and a willingness to engage. Every time the connection could have settled into routine, something about it remained interesting enough that he kept emotionally leaning back in.
6 of Swords
This feels like trust. Whenever things became chaotic, whether creatively or personally, Frank was someone he could move through it with. This card has a calming quality to it. It’s like Frank was sometimes the person helping steer the boat once they were already in the middle of the storm, an odd description for someone who seems so chaotic but he has his groundedness!
Page of Wands
There’s excitement here, like Gerard genuinely enjoyed being around him! Ideas bounced back and forth and they probably encouraged each other’s creativity more than either realized at the time. This is the card that makes me think there was a lot of laughing and moments where one ridiculous idea somehow turned into an actual song… which I'm sure there’s some piece of media that proves me right. Maybe.
The Lovers
Now…I know everyone immediately freezes when this card shows up. But I want you to notice something- The Lovers isn’t automatically saying that they were secretly together. What it is saying is that this relationship held tremendous emotional significance. This is the kind of connection that changes how someone sees themselves. There’s mutual influence here. Choices are made with the other person in mind. Their bond became part of Gerard’s identity during those years. Could there have been moments where emotions blurred into something difficult to define? Absolutely, this card leaves that possibility on the table. Could it simply represent one of the most important relationships of his adult life without becoming romantic? It absolutely could be. That’s why I wouldn’t rush with this card. It’s asking us to appreciate the depth before we try to label it 🙂↕️
9 of Wands Reversed
Gerard is a guy who sometimes keeps himself guarded. That sort of feeling stops whenever he’s around Frank. The tension that usually comes with being guarded starts to soften and that’s important because the 9 of Wands reversed often shows someone who is tired of bracing for impact. It can point to exhaustion after holding everything together for too long and I think that fits here. Around Frank, he may have finally felt safe enough to lower the defenses he normally kept up with everyone else. There’s vulnerability here, whether he ever consciously acknowledged it or not. It can also suggest a kind of emotional surrender like letting someone see the worn down parts of themselves. That doesn’t mean he became completely open overnight, of course, but it does suggest that Frank had a way of getting past the usual armor.
8 of Wands Reversed
And thennn everything slows. Life just happens 🤷♀️ Relationships outside the band become more serious and priorities shift. What’s interesting is that this doesn’t feel like a painful ending. It’s more like a conversation that was never really finished if that makes sense. The 8 of Wands reversed can show delays, crossed signals, or momentum that gets interrupted before it has a chance to fully land. So instead of a clean, decisive break, I get the sense of timing getting in the way. Interpret that as you will. There’s also a feeling here of communication becoming less immediate like fewer spontaneous exchanges, less chances to keep that same spark alive in real time. I think it’s because circumstances made it harder for it to keep flowing naturally. It’s the kind of card that can leave you with unfinished emotional business, where the bond doesn’t disappear so much as lose its forward motion.
GC: Looking at the spread as a whole, I think Gerard cared about Frank far more deeply than the average person lol. The question isn’t whether affection existed because it clearly did. The question is what kind of affection it was. The Lovers makes that intentionally difficult to answer because some people enter our lives and become emotionally foundational without fitting neatly into friend or lover. I think Gerard admired him, trusted him, felt lighter around him and genuinely looked forward to sharing life with him during those years. Whether those feelings ever crossed into romance is something the cards leave intriguingly open.
How did Frank feel about Gerard?
Ace of Wands Reversed
Interestingly, he doesn’t seem to approach this relationship as something he’s trying to chase or ignite. If anything, the energy starts with restraint. Any spark that existed wasn’t immediately acted upon or even fully understood. It almost feels like he naturally redirected his attention back toward the band, the work or simply keeping life moving instead of asking too many questions about where certain feelings or the intensity of the connection came from.
The Hierophant
This card immediately tells me he valued what this relationship represented. There’s loyalty here. Again, it’s not necessarily romantic commitment, but the type where you genuinely believe you’re in something together. Bands almost become families after enough years and this card really encapsulates that. He seems to have taken the partnership itself seriously. There was pride in building something lasting rather than chasing whatever emotion happened to appear in the moment.
4 of Wands
Once again, we have another card of comfort. I keep getting the feeling that Gerard became someone he associated with celebration rather than stress. Touring is chaotic, recording can be exhausting and fame complicates everything. Yet this card feels like someone who genuinely enjoyed coming home to the familiarity of another person, even if home happened to be a backstage dressing room or a recording studio.
The Star
I think this is kind of beautiful because Gerard seems to have represented hope in some way. And no, I don’t mean Gerard was someone who was “saving” him nor putting him on a pedestal. It’s like reminding him why he loved making music in the first place. Sometimes one person becomes the reason another keeps believing in the dream when everything else feels uncertain. The Star often points toward inspiration, healing and faith and I honestly think that’s what Gerard embodied for him during these years.
Page of Cups Reversed
This card feels shy lol. Whatever emotionality existed here, it wasn’t expressed very easily. He may have brushed serious moments aside with humor or changed the subject. There’s affection here that struggles to find the right words lmaooo.
2 of Cups
This is so fascinating after seeing The Lovers in Gerard’s spread. Again, I don’t immediately jump to a secret relationship. The Two of Cups is about mutuality like mutual respect or understanding. It’s the feeling of meeting someone and realizing communication flows naturally, collaboration feels effortless and somehow you’re always on the same wavelength. If Gerard's spread suggested that the relationship changed him, then this card says that Frank felt that connection too.
4 of Cups
But then…There’s hesitation. I don’t think it’s dissatisfaction with Gerard, it’s like uncertainty about what to do with a connection this meaningful. Sometimes the Four of Cups appears when someone overlooks an emotional opportunity simply because they don’t know how to approach it. Other times it’s choosing not to disturb something that’s already working. Honestly, I lean toward the second interpretation here. Why risk changing something that already means so much :/?
King of Wands
I think when he looks at Gerard, he sees someone who can be confident and charismatic. But I also think there’s admiration as well. The King of Wands isn’t just attractive because he can inspire action. He motivates people and has a presence. I think the Scorpio genuinely respected the Aries as both a performer and a person and that respect remained steady throughout their years together.
GC: What strikes me is that there isn’t hidden romance nearly as much as emotional symmetry. Gerard’s spread received The Lovers, while Frank’s received the Two of Cups. Both cards describe relationships that matter deeply, but neither one forces a romantic conclusion. Instead, they paint a picture of two people who profoundly influenced each other’s lives. They trusted one another, inspired one another creatively, found comfort in each other’s presence and built something that became part of who they were. If there were moments where outsiders wondered whether the line between friendship and something more had blurred, I completely understand why. The cards certainly don’t dismiss that possibility. But what they emphasize far more strongly is the rarity of the connection itself. Some partnerships become legendary not because they’re romantic but because they’re emotionally significant enough that people spend years trying to figure out what, exactly, made them so special.
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I’ve been staring at these two spreads for a while now because I think they’re asking us to sit with this mystery. People are going to see The Lovers and Two of Cups and immediately go, “So they were secretly together?” But if that were the whole story, I honestly think the rest of the spread would’ve leaned into secrecy, longing, deception, or hidden passion. Instead…it doesn’t. What I keep coming back to is that these cards describe two people who became emotionally significant in each other’s lives in a way that most friendships simply don’t. I get there’s the feeling that they are each other's first person they want to tell something to when something happens. Does that make sense? Lol, im not sure. Anyway, that’s exactly why I understand why people would’ve looked at them and wondered.
Because from the outside, some relationships are so emotionally intimate that our brains immediately start searching for a romantic explanation. What fascinates me is that neither spread is yelling for the hills that this is unrequited love. It’s more so saying that they mattered to each other more than they knew how to explain.
I almost think that’s scarier because I hate leaving things unlabeled. Because if someone asked either of them during those years, “What are you two?” …I don’t know that either of them would’ve had a satisfying answer.
Now…could there have been moments where the line blurred? Honestly? I think so. Not because I have one card proving they secretly fell in love. I think it’s because when people become this emotionally close, it’s human to occasionally stop and wonder what exactly you’re feeling. I think this was one of those once-in-a-lifetime connections that people spend years trying to categorize because it refuses to sit comfortably inside one box.
hii, omg i made that statement dejectedly not because i thought your readings based on tarot and astrology aren't true at all! oh, it definitely is because your analysis always hit the nail on the end. i don't like maddie one bit! absolutely nothing i've heard about her made me change my initial opinion, being a zionist the main reason as well as that icky energy she gives off.
it's just that, they're lowkey gonna be that couple that got engaged to tick things off their list, ‘yeah we got engaged, now we gotta make it to the altar next’. unless something blows off for them which ends up being their last straw, i doubt things are gonna change.
i'm side-eying jaafar as well because how can you be with someone for 10 years and not know their political stance, unless you agree with it, or you just tolerate because its the love of your life? that's so telling of his character in a way.
things have been quiet for them, i don't think there have been any sightings of them publicly with how much pressure jaafar has been doing. but who knows maybe it's the calm before the storm?
No worries!! I didn’t take it that way at all, I was just curious what made you feel they’d still end up together
I can definitely see where you’re coming from. Sometimes long term couples do end up following that next milestone path simply because they’ve already invested so much time together. That said, I also don’t think the length of a relationship guarantees the outcome either. It’s unfortunate, but I’ve seen couples that had been together for 5+ years and never end up marrying. But who knows? It could be them or not but I still see where you come from!
Anyway, I don’t think it’s unreasonable for people to look at their relationship and wonder what level of awareness or acceptance exists there. After 10 years together, it’s hard for me personally to believe that they wouldn’t have some understanding of each other’s values or at least be aware of public positions that have caused controversy. That said, I also don’t want to claim I know exactly what he believes because I simply don’t. I can only go off what’s publicly visible. For me, though, staying with someone whose public actions and associations have raised serious concerns has definitely changed how I view him. Whether that’s because he agrees, tolerates it or sees it differently behind closed doors isn’t something I can know.
It’s honestly one of the reasons I’ve stepped back from doing as many readings or answering asks about him. It doesn’t feel as enjoyable anymore because my interest has shifted. If I do a reading now, it’s usually just out of curiosity about the situation rather than because I’m particularly invested in him as a person.
Sorry if this didn’t make much sense, it’s pretty late as I’m typing this lmao. But don’t take this as a sign to send in asks, I’ll likely still answer them but it just takes me a while now ;;;
it’s kind of a known thing now that Maddie is buying bots or spam accounts to defend and support her in the comments of social media posts in general….
I’ve heard that rumor too but I honestly can’t verify it, unless someone has kind of proof? I’d like to see it myself because sometimes people can buy bots to defend their favorite (which seriously…?)
girl ... it lowkey feels like maddie will be his endgame
Wait… explain 😭 what makes you say that? Personally, I could be completely wrong because tarot isn’t 100% guaranteed but based on the readings I’ve done so far, I’d honestly be pretty surprised if they actually make it to marriage. Of course that’s just my interpretation of the cards, not a fact… but I suppose only time will tell.
hey guys! if you want a free private reading, DM me! I’m doing them all day since it’s my sisters birthday and figured why not- just send in a “happy birthday” when you do msg me so I’ll know ^^
update: closed! tysm to everyone that showed up <3
DISCLAIMER: This is for entertainment and educational purposes only. All interpretations, analyses, and opinions shared here are speculative and should not be taken as factual statements about any individual or yourself.
Off the Wall
Three of Swords
Your creativity is meant to come from emotion, not perfection. You have the ability to take feelings that are difficult to explain and turn them into something other people can see, hear, or experience. Because of that, artistic outlets that let you tell stories or express vulnerability feel especially significant. Writing, songwriting, poetry, painting emotionally driven pieces, photography with symbolic themes, or even composing music all fit this energy beautifully. You’re someone whose art has the potential to make people feel understood because you’re not afraid to explore emotions that many people keep hidden.
Page of Pentacles (Reversed)
One thing holding you back is believing you have to already be skilled before you begin. This card suggests you may have interests you’ve never fully committed to because you worry you’re inexperienced or you’ll never be good enough. Your future artistic path isn’t asking for perfection; it’s asking for practice. Learning an instrument, taking vocal lessons, picking up digital art, pottery, animation, or any craft that requires building skill over time would actually be incredibly beneficial for you. The lesson isn’t finding what you’re instantly talented at; it’s allowing yourself to become talented through consistency.
Seven of Wands (Reversed)
You naturally create your best work when you stop worrying about how it’s going to be received. Right now, there may be too much focus on comparison, criticism, or wondering if people will like what you make before you’ve even made it. That fear softens your creativity before it has a chance to exist. Artistic paths where experimentation is encouraged would help you break out of that mindset. Sketching for yourself, journaling creatively, abstract painting, improvisational dance, collage work, or simply making art that never has to be shared can reconnect you with why you wanted to create in the first place.
Two of Wands (Reversed)
There are probably several creative interests you’ve thought about trying, but they keep staying as ideas instead of becoming reality. You might spend a lot of time imagining yourself creating instead of actually creating. This card encourages you to choose one medium and commit to exploring it rather than waiting until you’re certain it’s the perfect fit. Whether that’s writing your first chapter, buying that sketchbook, downloading music production software, learning guitar, taking acting classes, or finally opening the notes app to draft your poetry, your artistic growth begins the moment you stop planning and start making.
The Star (Reversed)
Your biggest creative block isn’t a lack of talent, it’s a lack of belief in your own artistic voice. Somewhere along the way, you may have convinced yourself that your ideas weren’t original enough, beautiful enough, or meaningful enough to matter. But your highest creative potential comes from creating things that feel authentic to you rather than trying to impress everyone else. There’s a dreamy, introspective quality surrounding your energy, making you especially suited for emotionally expressive art like songwriting, lyric writing, novels, watercolor, filmmaking, cinematic photography, ambient music production, or illustration with symbolic storytelling. Your creativity becomes magnetic the moment you stop trying to create what you think people want and start creating what only you could make.
!!! Stop overthinking and start writing. Your gift is turning difficult emotions into stories that make other people feel understood
Thriller
Three of Wands
Your creativity isn’t meant to stay small. You’re someone who naturally thinks beyond your current environment, which is why artistic paths that allow you to build, expand, and eventually share your work with a wider audience fit your energy so well. This doesn’t feel like someone who creates only for themselves. It feels like someone who has the potential to publish, perform, exhibit, or develop something that reaches other people. Whether that’s music, filmmaking, content creation, fashion design, photography, or writing, your art wants room to grow instead of staying hidden.
Death
You’re drawn toward art that transforms people. Your work isn’t meant to stay on the surface or simply look pretty. It carries themes of change, identity, endings, healing, and rebirth. You may naturally gravitate toward darker aesthetics, emotional storytelling, surrealism, psychological themes, horror, alternative fashion, conceptual photography, or music that explores life’s more complicated emotions. You’re someone who can take difficult experiences and turn them into something beautiful, making people feel seen during periods of transition in their own lives.
King of Wands
There’s an undeniable performer hidden in your energy. Even if you’re naturally quiet, your creativity wants to be expressed with confidence and passion. This points strongly toward artistic pursuits where your personality becomes part of the art itself. Singing, acting, directing, producing music, leading a creative team, performing with an instrument, streaming creative projects, or building your own artistic brand all fit this card. You have the ability to inspire people simply by fully committing to your vision, and that confidence becomes part of what makes your work memorable.
The Emperor
You thrive when creativity has structure behind it. While some artists prefer complete spontaneity, your greatest work comes from discipline, routine, and mastering your craft over time. This card leans toward artistic fields that require technical skill and long-term dedication. Music production, architecture, graphic design, animation, orchestral instruments, directing films, game development, screenwriting, sculpture, or any medium where you slowly build something complex would suit you exceptionally well. You have the ability to create work that lasts because you naturally think in terms of foundations rather than quick results.
Six of Swords (Reversed)
The biggest thing keeping you from fully stepping into your artistic potential is that part of you is still looking backward. You may compare yourself to older versions of your work, hold onto creative disappointments, or struggle to let go of the belief that you missed your chance. This card says your creativity can’t evolve if you keep trying to recreate who you used to be. Your highest artistic self is waiting on the other side of that attachment. The moment you give yourself permission to experiment, reinvent your style, and leave behind old expectations, your creativity begins moving in a completely new direction.
!!! Stop consuming and start creating. Pick one medium that lets you tell stories like film, music, acting or writing and commit to it!
Bad
Ten of Wands
Your creativity feels heavy because you’re carrying too much of it at once. There’s pressure here, like you’re trying to be good at everything or prove something through your art instead of actually enjoying it. You might be overloading yourself with expectations, unfinished ideas, or the feeling that your work has to mean something big right away. This creates burnout before your creativity even gets a fair chance to breathe. Your artistic energy isn’t weak; it’s just overburdened.
Ten of Cups (Reversed)
There’s a disconnect between what you imagine your creative life should feel like and what it actually feels like right now. You may be chasing a version of fulfillment that looks perfect, harmonious, or complete, but the reality feels less satisfying or more uncertain. This gap can make you feel discouraged, like your creative path isn’t leading anywhere emotionally fulfilling. But what’s actually happening is that your expectations are clashing with your current reality, making it harder to appreciate small progress or imperfect beginnings.
Two of Swords
Indecision is one of your biggest creative blocks. You’re stuck between directions, ideas, or mediums, and instead of choosing one path to explore deeply, you’re freezing in the middle. This creates a loop where nothing moves forward because everything feels equally possible and equally uncertain. Your creativity needs commitment, not constant weighing of options. The longer you stay in this mental standoff, the more disconnected you feel from your own artistic drive.
Knight of Pentacles (Reversed)
There’s an inconsistency in how you approach your creative practice. You may start things with intention, but struggle to maintain routine or long-term discipline. This can also show up as waiting for the perfect mood, inspiration, or circumstances before you create, which keeps you stuck in inaction. Your artistic growth is being delayed not by lack of talent, but by lack of steady practice. Creativity here needs repetition, even when it feels boring or slow.
The Tower (Reversed)
You’re avoiding a necessary creative reset. Something about your current approach, mindset, or expectations around art needs to break down so something more authentic can be built in its place. But instead of allowing that shift to happen fully, you may be resisting change or holding onto old ideas of how your creativity should look. This resistance is keeping you in a stagnant loop where nothing truly evolves. Real growth requires letting go of control over how the transition feels.
!!! Stop trying to be good at everything, pick one creative path and try sticking with it for 30 days. I promise you won’t feel as blocked!
Dangerous
Six of Cups
Your creativity is deeply tied to nostalgia, imagination, and the things that made you feel alive when you were younger. There’s a childlike quality to your artistic voice that shouldn’t be dismissed as being too simple because it’s actually where your originality lives. You’re naturally drawn toward creating work that evokes emotion, comfort, or memories. Illustration, children’s book writing, animation, character design, watercolor, cozy photography, storytelling, songwriting, piano, acoustic instruments, or anything that captures innocence and wonder feels incredibly aligned. Your art has the ability to remind people of feelings they thought they’d forgotten.
Seven of Wands
You’re someone whose creative vision isn’t meant to blend in with everyone else’s. Your ideas may be unconventional, deeply personal, or different enough that you’ve questioned whether people would understand them. But that’s exactly where your artistic strength lies. Instead of following trends, you’re meant to develop a style that’s unmistakably your own. This card encourages artistic paths where individuality is celebrated. Fashion design, mixed media, alternative music, experimental filmmaking, conceptual painting, graphic novels, or any creative field that rewards originality would allow you to thrive because your greatest work comes from refusing to water yourself down.
Knight of Pentacles (Reversed)
One thing that may be slowing your creative growth is falling into the cycle of waiting until you’re perfectly prepared before committing to your craft. You might start hobbies with excitement only to lose momentum once progress feels slow, or convince yourself you need more experience before taking yourself seriously. The irony is that your artistic potential grows the most through repetition. Learning an instrument, practicing figure drawing, refining digital art, improving your singing technique, or writing consistently would benefit you immensely, but only if you allow yourself to be a beginner without expecting immediate mastery.
Six of Wands (Reversed)
At the same time, your creativity isn’t meant to stay trapped in the past. While nostalgia is one of your greatest strengths, this card reminds you not to become confined by it. You may find yourself recreating familiar aesthetics, returning to the same ideas, or wishing you could make art the way you once did. Your highest artistic self isn’t asking you to abandon your roots, it’s asking you to evolve them. The styles, stories, and inspirations that shaped you are meant to become a foundation, not a destination. Some of your best work will come from combining what once inspired you with the person you’re becoming now.
Strength (Reversed)
More than anything, your biggest creative obstacle is confidence. There may be a quiet voice telling you that your work isn’t interesting enough, that someone else has already done it better, or that you’re simply not talented enough to pursue your artistic interests seriously. None of those thoughts reflect your actual potential. Your creativity asks for gentleness rather than perfection. You’re someone who could flourish in emotionally expressive fields like painting, creative writing, singing, ceramics, photography, illustration, or dance because your greatest gift isn’t technical perfection, it’s sincerity. The moment you stop measuring your creativity against everyone else’s, your artistic voice begins to emerge in a way that no one else can replicate.
!!! Stop consuming nostalgic art and start creating nostalgic art
HIStory
Three of Swords (Reversed)
Your creativity has the power to heal, both for yourself and for other people. Rather than creating from the middle of pain, you’re someone who naturally creates from the process of recovery, reflection, and understanding. Your work has the potential to make people feel less alone after difficult experiences because it carries hope without pretending hardship never existed. This energy fits artistic paths like songwriting, memoir writing, poetry, filmmaking, photography, painting, or illustration that explores emotional healing, resilience, and personal growth. You’re able to transform difficult experiences into something gentle, meaningful, and deeply relatable.
Six of Pentacles
Your artistic gifts are meant to be shared. There is a generosity in your creativity that shines when you’re teaching, collaborating, encouraging others, or creating work that benefits a community rather than existing purely for yourself. This could point toward becoming an art teacher, music instructor, workshop leader, collaborative musician, community performer, or even someone who shares tutorials and creative knowledge online. You naturally create environments where people feel welcomed, and that quality becomes just as important as the art itself.
Temperance
You thrive in artistic spaces where different ideas, styles, or mediums come together into something unique. You’re not someone who has to limit yourself to one form of expression. In fact, your creativity becomes strongest when you allow different interests to blend naturally. You may enjoy combining traditional art with digital techniques, mixing music genres, writing while illustrating your stories, creating films with original soundtracks, or exploring multimedia projects that refuse to fit into one category. Your artistic voice is built through balance, experimentation, and patience rather than choosing only one path.
Two of Cups (Reversed)
One thing to be mindful of is relying too heavily on external validation before believing in your own work. You may wait for someone to encourage you, collaborate with you, or tell you that you’re talented enough before fully committing to your creativity. This card suggests that your artistic journey becomes much stronger once you stop measuring your work through other people’s approval. Some of your most authentic creations will happen when you’re making something simply because it feels true to you, not because you’re hoping someone else will understand it immediately.
The Star
There is an unmistakably artistic energy surrounding this pile. Your imagination, vision, and ability to inspire others are some of your greatest strengths. You’re naturally suited to creative paths that evoke emotion, beauty, and hope. Music, singing, songwriting, painting, digital illustration, filmmaking, photography, dance, creative writing, fashion, or even creating aesthetically driven online content all resonate with this energy. Your work has the potential to become something people return to whenever they need comfort or inspiration. More than anything, your creativity is meant to remind others that beauty can exist alongside vulnerability, and that’s what makes your artistic voice so memorable.
!!! Stop waiting for someone to believe in your creativity before you believe in it yourself. Create with other people if you want, but don’t depend on them to start.
Invincible
Two of Pentacles (Reversed)
Your creativity is being suffocated by trying to juggle too many things at once. You probably have a dozen ideas, dozens of hobbies you want to try, countless Pinterest boards, playlists, or saved inspirations, but very little of it becomes a finished piece of work. Your artistic energy is scattered instead of focused. Every time you get excited about one medium, another catches your attention before you’ve had the chance to improve. The problem isn’t that you’re untalented; it’s that your attention keeps splitting in different directions. Mastery requires repetition, and repetition becomes impossible when you’re constantly switching lanes.
Six of Swords (Reversed)
There’s also a strong attachment to the past that’s influencing your creative journey. You may keep comparing yourself to artists you admire, wishing you had started years ago, mourning projects you abandoned, or feeling stuck in an old version of your creativity that no longer represents who you are. Instead of allowing yourself to evolve, you keep mentally returning to what could have been. Your artistic voice cannot grow if you’re always looking over your shoulder. Every great artist reinvents themselves multiple times. You’re trying to move forward while carrying everything you’ve never finished, and it’s making every new beginning feel heavier than it needs to be.
Queen of Wands (Reversed)
Confidence is one of your biggest creative blocks. You might hesitate to post your work, show people what you’ve made, sing where someone might hear you, or even admit what kind of artist you want to become because you’re afraid of being judged. You may convince yourself that other people are naturally more gifted, more creative, or more deserving of recognition. In reality, comparison is stealing more opportunities from you than a lack of talent ever could. Your artistic identity is waiting for you to claim it, but you’re spending too much energy questioning whether you’ve earned the right to call yourself an artist.
Ace of Swords
Your strongest artistic gift lies in communication. You’re meant to create work that expresses ideas, tells stories, asks questions, or makes people think differently. This card strongly points toward writing in all its forms, whether that’s novels, poetry, scripts, essays, journalism, lyric writing, or even creating compelling online content. It can also point toward filmmaking, screenwriting, podcasting, public speaking, spoken word poetry, or storytelling through comics and graphic novels. Your creativity shines brightest when you’re translating thoughts into something other people can understand and connect with. Your voice is your greatest artistic instrument.
Justice
There’s precision in your creative energy. You naturally notice details, structure, balance, and meaning, making you especially suited for artistic fields that combine creativity with careful craftsmanship. Graphic design, architecture, editing, typography, fashion design, photography, filmmaking, animation, comic creation, and even music production all benefit from someone who understands both artistry and technical skill. You’re capable of creating work that isn’t just beautiful, but intentional. Every choice has purpose, every detail contributes to the whole, and that’s where your artistic strength truly stands out.
!!! Stop consuming and start your creative process. Pick one storytelling medium and commit to it for the next six months. You’ll never discover how powerful your voice is if you keep jumping between hobbies or waiting until you feel confident enough.
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over the past week or so, Jaafar has been traveling solo/with his team and family friends. he’s been seen in Milan, Paris for fashion week, now in Portugal, and then he’s heading to the BET awards in LA on Sunday to present.
can you ask tarot if maybe he purposely didn’t bring #her with him for this getaway trip and potentially other events in the near future? as in, maybe they needed some time apart after the awkwardness from the Japan premiere? …or does this just seem like a temporary coincidence and things will go back to how they were shortly ? Thank you in advance!
Interesting! Here’s the reading on that and I’ll just get straight into it. Remember this is for entertainment purposes only, not everything I say is to be considered a fact.
So first off, the overall energy of this spread feels much more centered around distance than simply busy schedules. Whether that distance is emotional, practical, intentional, or temporary is where the rest of the cards come in.
To start off, the 8 of pentacles makes me think his primary focus right now is work. The emphasis here doesn’t feel romantic at all. It feels like someone putting their head down, concentrating on their craft, obligations and appearances. If I had to describe the energy, I’d say he’s in a work first mindset.
The moon reversed makes me wonder if something that was previously sitting beneath the surface has become harder to ignore. It doesn’t necessarily mean there’s been a dramatic revelation but it does suggest greater awareness. If there had been lingering discomfort, awkwardness, or unresolved feelings, this card can point toward those things becoming much more obvious instead of remaining unspoken.
Then we move into the 8 of wands and how life speeds up considerably. His schedule (to me) feels packed. Things seem to be happening one after another with very little downtime. I suppose this supports the idea that work is genuinely taking over a large portion of his attention right now.
The 5 of pentacles is something I don’t love seeing this in the context of a relationship question because it often reflects emotional distance, feeling left out, or two people not quite standing on the same page. It doesn’t automatically mean a breakup but it does suggest one person, or perhaps both, may be experiencing some degree of separation or isolation.
The 2 of cups reversed reinforces that feeling. Rather than showing two people naturally moving together, it suggests a disconnect. Communication, priorities, timing or emotional alignment all feel a little off here. It doesn’t necessarily look permanent but it does make me think this isn’t simply a case of oh we’re fine, nothing’s changed…
The knight of pentacles reversed also caught my attention because it kinda breaks routines. Looking at the question itself, it makes me wonder if the way they’ve normally operated together isn’t quite functioning the same right now. Whether that’s intentional or simply a byproduct of everything happening around them is harder to pin down but something feels different from the usual rhythm.
The 6 of cups introduces some kind of familiarity again. Despite the distance shown earlier in the spread, this card reminds me there is still history here. It’s almost like the connection itself hasn’t disappeared but the current circumstances are preventing things from flowing as comfortably as they once did. It also makes me think there may be attempts to return to what’s familiar once things settle down.
Finally, the 2 of pentacles reversed can mean someone appears to be juggling too much (like him) and something has to be given up (? I kinda channeled this) It feels like maintaining every aspect of life exactly as before simply isn’t realistic right now.
So what I gathered, I don’t actually think this spread says he is deliberately excluding her from every event. It feels more nuanced than that. What I do think it suggests is that work has become the dominant priority, there appears to be some genuine distance or disconnect between them at the moment and the relationship doesn’t seem to be moving with the same ease it once did. Whether that’s because they intentionally wanted space, circumstances naturally created that space, or because both are true is difficult to say with certainty from these cards alone. One thing I will say though is that this doesn’t read like a simple coincidence where absolutely nothing has shifted. The repeated themes of disruptions, imbalances and distance show up too consistently for me to ignore. Whether those issues are temporary or develop into something larger is a different question entirely but based on this spread alone, I’d say the current dynamic feels noticeably different from the status quo.
I suppose we can add another reading to get more specific- we’ll read on if things in the relationship have shifted or will they go back to normal.
So with the queen of swords reversed, it feels like the current atmosphere is a bit clouded by misread signals or emotional filtering on both ends. It gives me the impression that communication isn’t landing cleanly right now like something is being interpreted through frustration or assumption rather than direct clarity. There can be moments where words don’t match intent, which already makes the situation feel less stable than a straightforward temporary schedule shift y’know?
The ten of swords reversed reads like something that already felt like it hit a low point but hasn’t fully resolved yet. It’s not the energy of a clean reset, more like recovery that’s still in progress. So even if things aren’t at their worst, there’s an undercurrent of lingering strain that hasn’t fully cleared out, which makes a return to how it was before feel less immediate.
Oooh and death shows up as the clearest marker of transition here but it doesn’t automatically mean an ending- it’s more about structural change in how things operate between them. Something about their rhythm has already shifted, even if it’s subtle or not fully acknowledged. This card sitting in the middle of the spread makes it feel like the relationship dynamic is actively transforming rather than just pausing.
The queen of cups softens that a bit though. There’s still emotional care and a kind of ongoing attachment that hasn’t dissolved. This doesn’t read like emotional detachment on a core level but it rather feels more like feelings still exist but they’re being held internally rather than expressed in a very visible or coordinated way right now.
The hanged man reversed is interesting because it suggests resistance to staying in this paused or unclear phase for too long. Something wants movement again, or at least resolution of the uncertainty but it’s not being approached in a patient or fully surrendered way. That creates tension like the situation isn’t comfortably stagnant but also isn’t resolving yet.
The king of swords makes me think choices are being made based on logic, work, or external responsibility rather than emotional pacing. It can also reflect distance maintained deliberately for focus and its not necessarily rejection but prioritization of order and direction.
The three of cups talks about social/public layers so it can bring things like normalizing in appearance and re-engaging with events. This is an indication that life resumes “outwardly” if that makes sense, like publicly. And that’s even if the private dynamic hasn’t fully smoothed itself out at the same speed.
Finallyyyy the king of pentacles reversed shifts things around. This is where stability feels slightly off center- either routines don’t fully lock back into place, or the usual structure of the relationship doesn’t feel as reliably grounded as it once did. It’s not chaos but it’s not fully anchored either. It suggests that even if things resume publicly, something about consistency or shared grounding isn’t entirely steady underneath it.
Sooo this doesn’t really seem like things will go back to normal. It’s more like a transition period where things do resume outwardly like social appearances but the internal structure between them doesn’t return to its exact previous baseline. There’s care still present, but the spread keeps emphasizing shift and slightly uneven stability rather than full restoration of their old dynamic.
Hey guys! I realized that I haven’t talked much about what kind of readings I publicly post so apart from private readings, you can send in asks of stuff you’d like to know! it can be about the world, celebrities etc.
ᯓ★ “How your spouse acts as a partner and what they believe they bring into the relationship”
This placement describes the role your spouse naturally steps into when they are with you and the way they maintain the relationship over time. It reflects what they believe they are consistently contributing and what they feel responsible for within the partnership. While Industria is often associated with work, effort and what comes naturally to us in terms of productivity, when it connects to marriage asteroids like Groom and Briede, it begins to describe the work of love. This is how they show up as a partner and the kind of dynamic they help build and sustain with you.
So this is a sign-by-sign guide ♡
🫧⋆｡˚ Aries Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who keeps the relationship moving forward. They are likely to believe that their role is to initiate, take action, and prevent things from becoming stagnant. There is pride in being decisive, in tackling problems directly, and in making things happen rather than waiting for circumstances to change on their own. They may feel that they are the one pushing the relationship toward its next chapter or encouraging both of you to keep growing. To them, effort looks like action and love is something that must remain alive through momentum and initiative.
🫧⋆｡˚ Taurus Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who creates stability and security. They are likely to feel that their role is to make sure the relationship is grounded, comfortable, and lasting. There is pride in being reliable, in providing consistency, and in building something that can withstand time and hardship. They may feel responsible for creating a strong foundation that both partners can depend on. To them, effort looks like patience and consistency and love is something that is cultivated slowly, protected carefully and maintained over time.
🫧⋆｡˚ Gemini Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who keeps the relationship mentally engaged and connected. They are likely to feel that their role is to communicate, share ideas, solve misunderstandings, and keep things from becoming stagnant. There is pride in being adaptable, curious, and capable of finding new ways to connect. They may feel responsible for keeping the dialogue flowing and ensuring that neither partner becomes disconnected from the other. To them, effort looks like communication and love is something that is maintained through conversation, understanding and shared experiences.
🫧⋆｡˚ Cancer Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who nurtures and protects the relationship. They are likely to feel that their role is to provide emotional safety, comfort, and a sense of belonging. There is pride in being supportive, dependable, and emotionally present during both good times and difficult ones. They may feel responsible for preserving the emotional bond between you and ensuring that neither person feels alone within the relationship. To them, effort looks like care and devotion and love is something that must be protected, nurtured and deeply felt.
🫧⋆｡˚ Leo Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who makes the relationship feel special, valued, and meaningful. They are likely to feel that their role is to bring warmth, affection, passion, and celebration into the connection. There is pride in loving openly, expressing appreciation, and ensuring that the relationship never feels ordinary or neglected. They may feel responsible for keeping the romance alive and reminding both partners why the relationship matters. To them, effort looks like expression and appreciation and love is something that should be cherished, admired and celebrated.
🫧⋆｡˚ Virgo Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who works on the relationship behind the scenes. They are likely to feel that their role is to improve, maintain, organize and solve problems before they become larger issues. There is pride in being helpful, attentive and capable of noticing what others overlook. They may feel responsible for ensuring that everything functions smoothly and that the relationship remains healthy over time. Much of their effort may go unnoticed by others but they often see these small acts as expressions of love. To them, effort looks like service and dedication and love is something that is maintained through care, improvement and attention to detail.
🫧⋆｡˚ Libra Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who preserves balance and partnership within the relationship. They are likely to feel that their role is to maintain harmony, fairness, and mutual understanding between both people. There is pride in being diplomatic, considerate and capable of finding common ground during disagreements. They may feel responsible for ensuring that both partners feel equally valued and that the relationship remains cooperative rather than divided. To them, effort looks like compromise and connection, and love is something that thrives through mutual respect, balance and shared investment.
🫧⋆｡˚ Scorpio Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who creates depth, loyalty, and emotional commitment within the relationship. They are likely to feel that their role is to form a bond that can survive challenges, transformation, and periods of uncertainty. There is pride in being unwavering, devoted and fully invested rather than approaching love casually. They may feel responsible for maintaining emotional honesty and helping the relationship grow stronger through adversity. To them, effort looks like commitment and emotional courage, and love is something that must be profound, transformative and completely genuine.
🫧⋆｡˚ Sagittarius Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who brings growth, meaning and possibility into the relationship. They are likely to feel that their role is to encourage expansion, exploration and continuous development rather than allowing the relationship to become limiting or stagnant. There is pride in inspiring optimism, honesty and new experiences. They may feel responsible for helping both partners maintain a sense of purpose and future direction. To them, effort looks like growth and encouragement and love is something that should continue evolving and opening new horizons.
🫧⋆｡˚ Capricorn Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who builds something lasting and meaningful. They are likely to feel that their role is to provide structure, stability, responsibility, and long-term security. There is pride in being dependable, disciplined and willing to carry difficult responsibilities when necessary. They may feel responsible for ensuring that the relationship has a future and continues progressing toward shared goals. To them, effort looks like commitment and perseverance and love is something that is proven through actions, reliability, and time.
🫧⋆｡˚ Aquarius Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who helps the relationship evolve and remain true to itself. They are likely to feel that their role is to encourage individuality, personal freedom, and authenticity within the partnership. There is pride in creating a connection that feels unique rather than restricted by expectations or convention. They may feel responsible for helping both people grow as individuals while still remaining connected as a couple. To them, effort looks like understanding and acceptance and love is something that thrives through freedom, authenticity and mutual respect.
🫧⋆｡˚ Pisces Groom/Briede
Your spouse may see themselves as the one who maintains the emotional and spiritual bond between you. They are likely to feel that their role is to provide compassion, understanding, forgiveness and unconditional support. There is pride in loving deeply, remaining emotionally connected and preserving the relationship through empathy rather than control. They may feel responsible for keeping faith in the relationship even during difficult periods when practical solutions are not immediately available. To them, effort looks like devotion and emotional presence and love is something that transcends logic and connects two people on a deeper level.
Celebrity examples:
For example, Jay-Z has his Briede in Pisces in the 12th house. This does not mean his partner is simply a Pisces- but rather that in the context of partnership, there is a tendency for the relationship to be carried through emotional depth, forgiveness, and something that feels almost private or hidden. There is a sense of enduring through things that are not always visible to others, of maintaining a bond behind the scenes. It reflects a dynamic where emotional and spiritual connection is something that is worked on, even in silence. Now if you look at Beyoncé, her Groom in Sagittarius in the 3rd house shows something very different. Here, the partner role is expressed through growth, communication and meaning. There is effort placed into understanding each other, talking things through and constantly evolving the relationship through shared ideas and perspectives. The relationship is something that is kept alive through conversation and learning, rather than just emotional endurance.
With Priscilla Presley, her Groom in Sagittarius in the 1st house shows a partner dynamic that becomes part of identity itself. The spouse may see themselves as someone who leads, guides, or gives direction and they may feel that their role in the relationship defines who they are. There is effort placed into embodying the partner role fully, almost like becoming the husband as an identity, not just an action. This is even more visible when paired with Elvis Presley, who had his Briede in Leo in the 7th house. Here, the relationship itself becomes something visible, expressive, and central. The partner role is about being seen, being adored, and making the relationship feel significant. There is effort placed into maintaining the relationship as something important and almost performative, something that holds attention and meaning in a very outward way.
Ryan Gosling having his Briede in Aquarius in the 6th house reflects a much quieter dynamic. The relationship is maintained through everyday actions, routines, and consistency but with a sense of individuality and space. The spouse may feel that their role is to keep things functioning while still allowing freedom, creating a bond that is steady but not restrictive. The effort is subtle, integrated into daily life rather than something overly visible. With Blake Lively, her Groom in Taurus in the 2nd house shows a partner dynamic centered around stability, value, and building something tangible. The spouse may see themselves as the one who provides, who grounds the relationship, who ensures that there is comfort and security. There is pride in maintaining something that feels solid and lasting, something that can be relied on over time.
Looking at Hailey Bieber, her Groom in Sagittarius in the 7th house shows a partner who believes their role is to grow within the relationship itself. There is effort placed into keeping the partnership aligned with beliefs, purpose, and direction. The relationship is not just something to maintain, but something to expand through, something that has meaning and intention behind it. Now with Justin Bieber, his Briede in Cancer in the 7th house reflects a partner dynamic rooted in emotional care and protection. The spouse may feel that their role is to nurture the relationship, to create safety, to hold emotional space. There is effort placed into maintaining closeness, into making the relationship feel like a home.
