Sugaring, or Escorting?

My adventures into the secret world trying to be a sugar baby and an escort. Oh how often those lines blurr....

[sugaringorescorting]

Is it good to ask a man to do part deposit before meeting

If you can get it by all means ask

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Have you ever had a client force you to do something you previously told him you wouldn't do when you guys finally got into it? For example, he asks for anal and you say no but while you were having sex he went for it anyways against your will... If not, how would you handle that situation?

I’m so sorry. I’ve had guys bite or be a little rough when I said gentle. I’ve had a few claim they accidentally came in my mouth when I said no. But forced Greek is rape. I would have to stop someone or scream honestly. It’s painful and not ok to force that on someone without them being physically or mentally prepped. I’d be tempted to throw the client out of they pulled that. It is rape

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Hi, I came across your page and I'm so happy I found you. I've been escorting for a while here in Vancouver and the money isn't so bad here but I have issues getting through depression, feeling lonely, self worth? How did you get passed it in order to keep going? Further, I'd love to make more than 10k a week if u could, but I feel like you have to look a certain way to earn those types of clients. Is that true? Or is it all about finessing? Would LOVE to hear back!

I’ve never made $10k a week. That’s about in a month if it’s good. Sorry to hear about your depression and loneliness. There’s a few really nice independent escorts in Vancouver. Try friending some on twitter or perb.cc sure some of the higher paid ladies might be really prettt or skinny but if they had a bad attitude bad service or were unprofessional no looks could keep the money coming in regularly. Just try and eat healthy and exercise and be clean and put together

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I had the worst experience with a so call agency the guy made me have sex with him twice he was fat and disgusting his dick was big but it didn't turn me on it would not go in because I wasn't aroused I went home and cried I've never felt so disgusted with myself,he claimed it was part of the interview, I don't think I will ever feel the same about sex I'm disgusted just thinking about sex 😔

Wow I’m so sorry! This is not ok and not normal. Do not ever let anyone tell you it is. So many male owners are creeps and I would refuse to work with them. I’m so so sorry this happened to you. With clients I don’t see anyone who’s rude or Creepy. If they are gross ugly fat old etc yes but because they’re paying I can go through with it. I’m never turned on of course and it’s a job and they want to leave happy. I had an awful hotel manager find out and basically do that to me and threw money on the floor and left without paying my full rate. It was the saddest thing I encountered.

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I wanted to tell you that I love your blog so much! You the real mvp :) 😘

Thank you

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Hi! I've been researching a lot about sugar daddies but today, I didn't realize there's sugar mommies. I still need to do research, but if I do become a sugar baby, I would want to have a sugar mommy who's likes both genders. Is that bad that because I'm bisexual and I'm attracted to both genders, but mainly girls.

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So wait do you like have a real normal life or does this completely take over?? Is it like a Hannah Montana u got a best of both worlds deal lol

It’s how I pay my bills full time. I have a somewhat normal life and do normal stuff but with my escort friends. Having civilian friends is hard as they’d ask too many questions.

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Do you have to be good looking to be an escort? I am a student and I'm struggling to afford things. I want to afford basic things like makeup and food. I'm also interested in the sexual side of things to do with escorting. But I wanted to know if being pretty is important? I wouldn't say I'm "ugly" but I'm not beautiful like a model would be.. I still have imperfections. x

There’s a market for everyone. Being out together clean and well spoken and taking as many flattering photos of yourself as you can helps. But you also have to have an appropriate rate and expectations. Most girls aren’t drop dead gorgeous. Many are girl next door types who look cute or average but are put together smart and sweet.

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I still dont understand the difference between an escort and a sugar baby... Whats the best option if you dont want to have sex?

Please don’t do this if you aren’t comfortable having sex. There’s so few guys that would ever pay for platonic friendships. It’s not something you get into if it’s being platonic or nothing. Your time and expenses going into yourself and trying to find someone are a lot as it is when guys expect to have intimacy.

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how do you think escorts like Staci doll and persianbaddie are making 12k a day and things like that?

I have no idea. I doubt that’s average and very few make that kind of money. Most don’t even make that much a month. Some do. You need lots of regulars or a very rich sugar daddy to even make that much a month

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hey you're pretty fuckin cool babe lmao - aspiring sb but doesn't have the courage rly

Thank you

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Sugardaddy or escorting can't decide or shud I have both, when it comes to charging for out calls what's the amount , I live in the UK and not sure best way to go about things

Check out rates of similar ladies on adultwork.com

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girlll where do you live in Canada? I'm also a sugar baby and I live in Toronto! I need some sugar baby friends to hoe & finesse with

Near there yes

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Is $500 for a half hour and $800 an hour outrageous as an escort's rate?

Depends where you are. That wouldn’t fly in my market. But if you’re in the USA and in an expensive city maybe

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Hi, do you have an agency for when you escort?

No I worked independent

[h8thestr8s]

Now accepting applications for a sugar daddy because I’m broke and I like nice things

[eastcoastsugarlife]

It’s actually disappointing how my clients who are older married men treat me with more respect than the majority of vanilla guys my age that I’ve dated. Now I know they are just being polite because it’s business, but at least they PRETEND to care!

I was supposed to have a vanilla guy over last night and he kept me waiting two hours!!! So finally I texted and told him not to bother coming that I was going to bed. And he had the audacity to say ‘you better answer when I knock on the door’. Like what the fuck bruh???

This afternoon I had a client come to see me. He was a business man in his late thirties and was attractive looking and impeccably groomed. He handed me my money in a very business like manner done up in an envelope. We fucked and he actually put in a great deal of effort to make me cum (something no vanilla guy has ever done), and the whole time was telling me how beautiful I was and complimenting me on every feature of my body and face. He made me feel so good! Even after we were finished he didn’t run out the door right away. He made small talk and was actually interested in the details of my life. My daughter, school, etc.

I wish I could find a vanilla guy to treat me that way. Until then, escorting/sugaring is probably the best decision I’ve ever made. But I stay humble. In the back of my mind my subconscious always reminds me how just a few months ago I could barely afford to buy my child a diaper.

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This.... Seriously young guys have no clue and so many are entitled and lazy. I would call the cops honestly if that dude demanded you open the door when you said not to come over now. He has no respect