SugarMystiko

I've got a sweet tooth, what can I say? Also got a weakness for the hunks in suits.... NYC

[boyegas-deactivated20181222]

[br0wnsugarandspice]

current shmood

[sugarmystiko]

Weekend trip to Miami?

Trying to get my ex SD -> soon to be SD again, to take me on a weekend trip to Miami. I've been dying to go there and he's always traveling so it only makes sense. I work full time in a very stressful environment so a weekend away would be a gift from heaven. Currently working on it but my main focus is to meet up with him when he returns and get my allowance + a possible shopping trip because it's time for a new handbag. That's it for my Monday, xo

[sugarmystiko]

POT date with Champ

Today I had my first date with a POT from SA. Originally, our plan was to meet up at my favorite lunch spot in Soho. I had about 20 minutes to kill and decided to head to the Ricky's which was on the same street. I told Champ that I was browsing in there while I waited his arrival. I got some morphe palettes and brushes from there which he paid for when he met up with me. Afterwards, we had lunch and we had a nice flowing conversations, never an awkward moment (bless). During the date, he handed me an envelope and said to think of it as a gift. The shopping money he'd promised me early + cab money was in there, $240 total. We proceeded to walk around and look at stores but I went to VS because of their semi annual sale. Spent about an hour in there choosing stuff alongside him. When we went up to pay, the total came up to $646 which he didn't expect (you could tell by the look on his face). He took out his credit card and then asked me to take the cash from the envelope and hand it to him so he could use that towards the purchase. That got me a little frustrated because I really didn't want to let that cash go. I understand he was being generous as it was but maybe I'm too spoiled? Somewhere in between our walk to this sunglasses store he said something about finding a room and having some fun. Mind you, I told him not to expect anything and that I would do anything until I was comfortable. That pissed me off, and I just looked at him and said "I've already talked about this, nothing is happening until I'm comfortable and have my allowance. All in all -- while I did get to buy some nice things and he was an overall nice person, he doesn't seem to be SD material. We've been texting but I want to find out what his budget is compared to mine to see if this can even work. Ugh, the struggle.

[sugarmystiko]

Successful first POT date with Champ. Picked up a bunch a things from Victoria's Secret, especially bikinis! They’re no longer doing them after this season so stock up. Got to pick up some matching lingerie sets and gym wear as well.

I would’ve definitely preferred getting the $646.34 in cash and stash it away for savings but he insisted on flashing his Amex 🙄

I’ll make a post about our actual date in a few.

Xo

[sugarmystiko]

POT date, help?

I still have my POT date with Champ tomorrow. Can't say I'm looking forward to it because I have the biggest tooth ache (wisdom teeth) and can barely talk. I have no idea as to how I'm pulling that off but I plan on making it a quick lunch so he can take me shopping right after. I've been taking pain medications but it can only do so much, and I can't see a dentist until Tuesday. Ugh. Originally, he said he would give me $200 to go shopping. While I'm thankful for that, it's NYC were talking about and that won't really do much. I'm sure once I have him with me and I'm picking out everything I want he won't have an issue paying extra. I've also got to make it back home in time for a family event so I have around 2-3 hours to do everything...I really just want to ask him to give me cash so I can shop on my own time but I don't know how to bring that up especially since he's so eager to accompany me and I want more cash 😩. What should I do?!?

[sugarmystiko]

While having a conversation with my previous SD, I slipped in the subject of me wanting something I saw on Amazon. After I told him what I wanted, a few minutes later he replies "check your email". Mind you, he's currently out of the country on business and still pulled this off. He's the real deal, distance just tore us apart but now that I'm back 💁🏼... He's returning from his trip in a week, and I can't wait to finally see him again. He already knows that if we give it another shot, the same rules about my allowance apply. Hopefully, I can make him my SD again and freestyle on the side. The only reason I wouldn't be fully exclusive is because if I can make double or triple the bank without issues, I'm going for it. Have a sugar filled weekend xo

[sugarmystiko]

Balancing several POT's.

The sugar game isn’t a joke…

I think I’m managing about 7-8 POT’s right now and maybe 2 of them are actually SD material. It’s just so time consuming and stressful talking to these men and making plans to meet up, without having a guarantee as to whether it’ll work out.

It’s summer though, hustle and grind!

[56blogsstillcrazy]

don’t know them but congratulations y'all no one should ever have to be alone during graduation

[fohmarmar]

This breaks my heart man. Whether it’s true or not. The thought that this even happens is messed up.

[blackwhitelotus]

Oh no

[25th-hokage-deactivated20180619]

Shout out to them because the FUCKING MADE IT ABD IM PROUD👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[sugarysweetqueenb]

NYC BABIES

…Does anyone want to go to This SA party with me? Seems like it’ll be fun

[sugarmystiko]

🙋🏼 when is it?

[sucrose-engineer]

I’m feeling bitchy

But really come on

[sugarmystiko]

Oh, the sass. I love it!

[thesugarchateau-deactivated2020]

I went for a run today, reading also, relaxing mainly! So perhaps I should dance a little 🤔

[sugarmystiko]

Yes girl, just have a little bit of drinks and you'll be dancing the night away and forget about the fact you don't like the club 💁🏼

[sugarmystiko]

POT dates...

After getting back in the bowl, I've acquired a few dates for the weekend. All of them are lunch dates since that's when I'm normally free and it's usually quick and you get a meal! Saturday - I've got a POT date with "Sporty", whose in the sports field. We're meeting up at one of my favorite spots (food wise) to grab lunch. He's pretty handsome so I'm sure it'll be a fun and interesting lunch date. Sunday - I've got two dates, spanned within a few hours. 1st date -- I've got the date with "Champ" who is very interested in being my SD and wants to see how our dates ago to see if we have "chemistry". He did tell me he's bringing me some shopping money so that's exciting. 2nd date -- Is a date with "Engineer" who, you guessed it, is an engineer. It's a lunch date and it's right after my date with "Champ". I have like an hour in between to retouch my makeup and walk around. We've been texting and haven't had an actual conversation regarding an arrangement so maybe he'll bring it up or if not depending on how the date goes, I'll text him afterwards. Sometime next week - there's another POT with "Ivy", were still picking the day but it's another lunch date. He's young (30's), handsome, and intelligent. That's all I have for now, and I'm going free styling Saturday night with one of my friends in the city. We'll probably be bar hopping depending on how the night goes. Xoxo

[sugarmystiko]

I have a POT date with this man, let’s call him “Champ”, on Sunday. I mentioned how I was going to go shopping today and he told me to wait until Sunday so he could give me some cash to use. While it our first date and he seems promising, $200 for lunch isn’t a bad deal.

I’m hoping he’ll give me a little extra since there’s a couple things I want and shopping in Manhattan isn’t cheap. Keeping my fingers crossed.

I do have a few other POT dates lined up for the next few days that I’ll discuss with you babes.

Xoxo

[boujiebabygirl]

Freestyling chronicles part 2

I have been Freestyling for the last two days and it’s basically my new favorite hobby. You can freestyle ANYTIME , ANYWHERE! And the coolest thing about it is if you don’t necessarily find a SD or POT , you will most likely have networked with someone important. Especially in the areas that I have been free styling in. I actually wanna put some money together and fly out to other states and freestyle ( Washington, D.C., New York , Miami ) if any sugar babies in these areas were willing to link up and freestyle when I came out definitely message me and let me know.

[sugarmystiko]

New York, message me and when can plan something for when you're around :). We can hit up the high end bars 💸

[weloveshortvideos]

when “bae” try to show off for their friends but you know the truth

[letskedditt-deactivated20190125]

This is fire

[cap-kira]

I felt this in my soul

[moodyspacebabe-deactivated20180]

Yes boo

[profoundsavage]

LITERALLY ME LOLOLOL

[goldnpoc]

Tru

[exxoticsugar-xo-deactivated2025]

brief update.

if you haven’t noticed, I haven’t blogged about my experiences in a while. 

I have had my downs & I have certainly had my major ups as well. 

but what I realized in the whole process is that I am definitely a diamond.

I’m confident, I am elegant, I am smart, I am mature, I can hold a meaning conversation, I’m tall - black - dark skinned - and basically fucking beautiful.

I’M NOT SAYING THIS TO SOUND ARROGANT, BUT I AM CONFIDENT.

for the longest time I was told that being the way I looked is not “ideal” and men that are wealthy and white go for tall white blue eyed blondes. WRONG!

but back to my point, I will no longer be going on POT dates. I will no longer go on the “introductory phase” with men. And I will no longer go free styling.  

I refuse to pursue a man and try to impress him when it should be the opposite. I am at a point in my life where I want to get married, fall in love, and marry wealthy. No point in the games. I have enough shoes, enough bags, enough designer items in an expensive high rise in the middle of downtown DC. I could give a flying fuck about another Chanel bag!

so basically, I feel as though I would lower myself wasting precious time with lame men and when the time is right, if it is I’m going to land the whale of my dreams.

in the mean time, im going to worry about me. travel, eat, party, exfoliate my skin, and enjoy my fucking life. 

[sugarmystiko]

Hey girly, I'm based in NYC, so if you're ever here we should meet up and go out one night. Feel free to message me :)

[sugarmystiko]

Unexpected hiatus...

So, I took a little hiatus from sugaring. I just needed some time for myself and to sort out some stuff regarding my career field. I was actually quite content during my free time. Then this past weekend, I was in the city celebrating with some girlfriends and I kept noticing SD/SB couples and girls free styling at bars and I just started missing the lifestyle. I do have a full time job now so I don't have as much time to sugar as I used to have previously. After that wave of reminiscence, I texted my old SD asking him how he was doing and that good stuff, he quickly replied and we had a good conversation. Basically, he misses me and wants to take me out to dinner when he gets back from his business trip. Our arrangement didn't work because I ended up moving away for a while but now that I'm back, I'm sure we can pick things up. I'll still be looking for others POT's though! I started up my SA account and there's a few men that I'm testing. However, I think I'm more into free-styling now. I want to be a spoiled girlfriend, that's my ultimate goal. So, if any of you girls are in NYC or visiting, and want to come free styling with me, message me! I'm always looking for friends to come with me since my actual friends don't know about my lifestyle. Xo