Disclaimer: I couldnāt find the original poster this came from, but I got this from philanddanxreader, I didnāt come up with this.
A = Announcement.- How do you tell him and the world that youāre expecting?
Tbh it just slips out during a joke of papa coups and you fck up and say thatās going to be a reality and he just stops and stares at you waiting for you to elaborate on wtf you just said.Ā āYeahā¦Iām pregnant.āĀ āthats not funnyā āitās not a joke.ā āfuckā. Announcing it publicly is during a vlive because why not, and with all the members that werenāt told yet so it was entirely a surprise for fans and the boys.Ā
B = Books.- Did he read the books?
S.Coups read a few. Heās sure heās got a pretty good grasp on taking care of people that a book isnāt going to tell him anything he doesnāt already know. The few books he gets will probably be on how to prep for a baby, baby proofing the house and what to get and what to expect so heās fully aware of whatās to come, but physically taking care of a baby? Heās got that in the bag, heās good.
C = Cuddles.- Who cuddles the baby more?Ā
Itās more along the lines of youāre cuddling the baby, and Coups is cuddling you XD itās like a cuddle train.Ā
D = Daddy.- His reaction to being called Daddy and it setting in.Ā
Papa Coups has already been dad for the longest time so merging into actual daddy isnāt hard to come to terms with but itās legit setting in thatĀ āfuck these arent my membersā¦.this is an actual child i helped makeā punches him in the neck and he just sits down and silently cries. Please hug him.
E = Empty.- Who goes to the store when you guys run out of supplies?
S.Coups is pretty helpful when the baby comes, he pulls his weight any way he can to help ease the load for you. So normally heās the one running to the store while you stay with the baby.
F = Feeding time- Who does feeding time?
Normally itās a partnership, feeding the baby. You two switch off whoās actually doing the feeding while the other is tasked with making dumb faces to keep the baby happy and eat.
G = Grumpy baby. - Who is better at dealing with a grumpy baby?Ā
Dealing with with a pouty baby grump is typically a joint effort, you two almost put on a show for the baby together to make the giggles and gummy smiles reappear. But legit fussy, screaming, crying baby grump is more of your job, S.Coups kind of panics when legit tantrums occur and just freaks out when the usualĀ āwhereās daddy! peek-a-boo!ā doesnāt work.Ā
H = How?- how many kids does he want?
After SVT, Iām sure Coups is well equipped with dealing with multiple kids but that same idea, Coups wants a more calm family. Babies are hard to deal with on their own, let alone multiple, so I can see Coups having two or three kids, but only having another after the previous baby is more grown aka entering school age, so itās a lot less stressful for the both of you.
J = Jokes.- best dad joke?Ā
āMy wife is on a tropical foods diet, the house is full of stuff. Itās enough to make a mango crazy.ā
K = Kisses.- His favorite place to kiss the baby.Ā
Coups is such a raspberry on the tummy kind of dad, you canāt fight me on that. Making his mini squirm and giggle so much just lights dadās day up and heāll do them for hours until you yell at him to knock it off.
L = Little.- How he feels when he holds the baby for the first time.
I swear Coups is going to be the most emotional dad ever. Already semi a dad, having this little human he helped make in his arms for the first time after waiting so long and the stress of pregnancy. The nurse hands him the baby all wrapped up in itās warm little blanket and he just freezes and stares at the wiggling baby. Heās just instantly filled with joy and pride and love and heās just standing in the middle of the room, tears streaming and whispering to the baby how long mommy and daddy have been waiting for it, and how much he love it.Ā
M = Mommy.- what does he call you?Ā
Being the fun dad he is, I swear you two will end up betting what the baby says first, so itās become a rule that you only call each other by your parent title around the buddle of joy. His title bestowed on you is cute and short, just so itās easy for the babe to grasp; mama.Ā
N = Nappies.- who deals with the really bad ones?Ā
Youāre a comprise couple, you take things in turns just so no one gets the rough end of parenthood, and hellā¦no one wants to change diapers. Itās a back and forth between you two on who changes the diapers but 9/10 heās helping you anyways, handing you the baby powder and fresh diaper.
O = Onesies- Who likes to dress the baby in ridiculous outfits?Ā
Besides those funny shirts of likeĀ āmommyās boyā orĀ ādaddyās princessā, I donāt think heās going to subject his child to weird outfits for the fck of it. Most of the babyās clothes are just plain old āget it at walmartā kind of stuff aside from likeā¦holiday outfits where you obviously dress up a bit more. But on the norm, itās just regular baby clothes.
P = Pet names- names he calls the baby.Ā
S.Coups takes massive pride in being a dad, so I see him being that dad that always refers to their child as my princess/prince. Plus he prob spils tf out of his kids, so the titles pretty fitting.Ā
Q = Questions.- How many questions does he ask the nurse?Ā
Between the two of you, heās pretty sure you can handle it. Aside from regular things like check ups and what to expect the first few months/year of having a new born, Coups didnāt ask many questions.Ā
R = Rely- what is the biggest thing you rely on each other for?Ā
Affection is the most relied on thing between you two. A baby does take up a lot of time and emotional strength, and it does drain you. Even with your partner, itās tough as can be. So that few moments where you can just stand with your arms around each other, remember you love each other, and that you can do this together, is enough to recharge your spirits for a while.
S = Sleep duty. - who gets up when itās really late at night?Ā
Seeing as heās not the one whoā¦idk pushed a kid out of their crawl space? Heās more inclined to wake up at night when the babyās fussing. Coups tries his best to not let you wake up, knowing you probably need way more rest than him, so a fussy baby at night is not skin off his nose.Ā
T = Trepidation.- fears as a new parent.Ā
Really any parents fear is justā¦messing up. Is he bonding with the baby enough, is he feeding it right, was he putting the right educational cartoons on for the baby to watch, what can and canāt be in the crib. His biggest fear is that he somehow is going to be responsible for a stunt in development when really thereās nothing to worry about. Might wanna give Papa Coups a hug, he needs it.Ā
U = Ultra sounds.- His reactions to the ultrasounds.
Honestly you couldnāt find a situation where Coups smiled more than when he saw the ultrasound. He was instantly out the chair and right up on the monitor, giddy as can be and just excitedly chatteringĀ āthere it is! thatās our baby! holy shā¦thatās inside of youā¦weāre having a kid, oh my god.ā. Annoyed the hell out of the doctor, getting in the way, but eh, heās a new dad, let him be excited.Ā
V = Values.- what is the most important value he wants to teach your child.
The base of anything is to just love yourself, be confident in yourself, thatās what Coups hopes to pass to his kids. Things are tough, you have to work really hard for things, and being taught that yes, you can do anything you set your mind to, is a good value to teach in his mind.
W = Water.- Who gives the babe the baths?Ā
Usually, itās daddy. Itās his little bonding session with his baby, heās that dad that ends up just making a lot of bubble designs on the babe like a beard or smth for a hour before he actually remembersĀ ācrapā¦i was supposed to be bathing itā¦ā. You might need to remind him that bath time isnāt play time a few timesā¦.
X = X-mas- what do you guys plan for the holidays?Ā
Being Dad and Papa Coups, I imagine holidays are hosted at your home, so itās a bit less stressful that getting you and Coups ready, getting a baby ready, and all that jizz that goes with holidays. Itās far less of a hassle to just have the family and members come to your house for the holidays, and thatās usually what happens. Just dinner, everyone fawns over your baby, and itās just a relaxing get together at the comfort of home.
Y = Yelling.- How many fights do the two of you get in?Ā
I donāt see you two fighting much, most of the mental effort used for fighting is just being used up by taking care of a baby, thereās no time for fight. The little arguments you might have usually just dissolve since Coups wonāt yell back at you, he just mumbles angrily to himself until you both forget what happened and have to feed the baby.
Z = Zoo- How crazy is the house after the birth?
Truthfully, the house is absolute hell most days. One day of the week is set aside to reorganize the house, but on the other six daysā¦bottles are strung around the living room, the only clean dishes are baby plates, tiny socks are littered all through the halls. But hey, thatās what having a kid is like. A giant mess :)
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