Just understand... that before you recieved those nudes; She took about a million before hand to try and get the right lighting, angle and position of her body.
She wanted to minimize her belly, her rolls and her stretch marks. She didn't want you to see her double chin, so she tilted the camera above her face; but then you wouldn't see her breasts at the right angle so she had to sit herself in a different position. M-maybe the front facing camera isn't a good option? She tried to take a nude infront of her mirror, but somehow her belly looked more pronounced and the lighting reflected on her stretch marks making them look darker than they really were. She gets back up in her bed and she flips the camera to take another selfie nude, the best position is on her back, so her belly looks flatter, chest puffed up, arms holding her breasts in place because if she didn't they would just sag to either side of her body. She arches her back to try and show that she has what you would call a "thicc ass"... but if she does that she risks exposing her her belly more. And we all know the camera adds 10 lbs!
Just know that before she sent them... she sat infront of the mirror crying, comparing herself to the Michelin Man and the Pillsbury Dough Boy. Poking and prodding at her belly, jiggling her thighs, running her hands over her flat ass, and lifting her sagging boobs. She hits send... and puts her phone on Do Not Disturb so that she doesn't know when you answer, she tosses her phone on her bed and begins to get changed. She pulls highwaisyed tights over her belly, it holds in all the fat and the rolls, makes her look slim... it also makes her butt look round and firm. She puts on her favorite bra and a hoodie twice as big as it really needs to be. Because it hides her large arms and any other imperfections. She throws her hair in a bun, wipes off her make up, puts on her glasses and goes to the kitchen. She hasn't eaten today because if she had, she would have looked fatter in those photos. Instead she chugs two glasses of water. She feels sick.
She then wanders back in her room and climbs into bed. Hating the fact that she is all alone. She lays in silence... afraid to open her phone and see your response.
It takes her 10 minutes of deep breathing and knots in her stomach to finally open your response: "😍🔥" is all she gets... after HOURS of taking the perfect photos for you. After that many tears... after that much anxiety. All she gets is two emojis and a shitty dick pic at an unflattering angle?!
Come the fuck on!!! SHE DESERVES BETTER THAN THAT! If you're not attracted to her... then fine. But slowly and softly let her know.
But if you really are attracted to her. MAKE HER FEEL LIKE A FUCKING QUEEN! No woman ever deserves to feel that much pain and heartache, anxiety and fear from sending a "man" a picture of her body. If anything you should be wanting real and raw photos. Not the super set up ones. Give her something... dear god... give her something.
As someone who has been this girl time and time again, let me tell you... I appreciate people like that! Because EVERY time I take a nude... I instantly regret it, begin to panic because I know I'm not skinny, and then begin to cry. Make sure she knows how you REAALLY feel. Because we don't wanna waste our time taking amazing pics for fuckers that couldn't care less, or that dont give the nudes the credit they deserve.
Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk. 🙏🏻
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