Salvaging trash: A role model for Minoru?
I theorized whether Mineta would benefit from having a positive male role model. Someone whom he respects enough to learn from how to respect other humans.
Obviously girls' and women's reactions to his actions should be more than enough for Mineta to rethink his behaviour. But just like in real life, unfortunately that's often not the case. ...
Pervy loser as a trope is not funny to me at all, but as long as it's clear that this behaviour is specifically the reason why he’s a loser, and as long as other characters step in to keep the character from doing worse, I'm "ok" with it.
As in, I dislike it, but I’m feeling mostly detached from Mineta’s portrayal. I’ll just fast forward those scenes if they annoy me too much.
Personally, I’m not one for the whole “expel Mineta and substitute him with Shinso” (especially since I don’t find Shinso very likable or interesting himself): I would have appreciated Mineta going through a small arc of self-directed character development regarding his view of girls. Instead, Horikoshi shortcutted that by having Mineta being forced into A Clockwork Orange experience.
That wasn't to be—slightly disappointing but not surprising.
What I’m NOT okay with is the framing of “boys will be boys”:
I fucking hate that Horikoshi had Mandalay remarking on Mineta’s inappropriate behaviour at the camp with something like ~unsurprising, with a class full of teenage boys.~
That kind of behaviour should feel surprising and not be treated as normal.
And it actually wasn't. ...well, it wasn't treated as normal by the kids:
Were most of the boys curious about the other side of the onsen? Likely. But not a single one of them encouraged or participated in Mineta’s peeping attempt. In fact, many different guys in 1-A have verbalized their displeasure with Mineta’s “comedic” perverseness in different instances. Some more, some less, but more than one of them did.
The "boys will be boys" way of thinking really needs to die. Die! DIE!!!
It feels especially insulting since a male author has a female AND grown character reinforce this perspective.
Mineta has shown a caring side:
Expressed his deep affection for Deku during Class 1-A v. Deku.
Cried tears of happiness when Bakugou finally woke up in the hospital after the PLW and tried his best to prevent the latter from getting out of bed and hurting himself in the process.
Felt very remorseful about some of his previous comments after Shouji confides his own experiences with discrimination to the class, and expressed that remorse directly to the person whom he wronged.
Provokes AFO to divert his attention from Tokoyami, and then offers up his own quirk... all in hope that Dark Shadow wouldn’t get taken away from Tokoyami.
What do the recipients of Mineta's care have in common?
My brain: If one cares about a person/group, one would be more inclined to listen to them than if they didn't care about that person/group. However...
Out of the 1-A guys, Iida was probably the most vocal about his disapproval of Mineta's inappropriate behaviour towards girls and has tried to lecture Mineta into being a better person on multiple occasions.
Other characters that I remember as having interfered more intensely are Kirishima and Sero. But none of them were successful in discouraging Mineta from harassing others in the long term.
It's not a matter of general respect either.
Shouji and Deku, two of the guys Mineta does respect and cares about, have told the latter to knock it off to no avail. Admittedly, their attempts (especially Deku's) were more mild-mannered compared to e.g., Iida.
My second theory is that while Mineta cares about Deku and Shouji in general, he might not put much stock into their opinion about how to treat girls.
My third theory is that those interferences were, in fact, probably not intense enough for Mineta.
Putting this all together, for a role model to have an effect on Mineta, they must:
Have his overall respect.
Make their disapproval of sexual harassment very clear, sternly, and repeatedly.
Ideally be someone who is "good with girls."
... so probably no guy from 1-A.
E.g., while Todoroki is considered a bishonen in-universe, he's coasting entirely on his outward appearance here. Character-wise, he's more of an awkward duck. He's also not among those who have ever voiced displeasure at Mineta's antics.
Would Mirio work as a role model on Mineta’s hypothetical goal of how to become a better human being?
Honestly, I feel like a direct but less wordy type than Iida might work. For example...
Yes, the no-nonsense kid who destroyed Mineta with just one sentence might work...
If only Kota were an older hero course student.