Anxious Baker

Just a place for me to vent and share recipes Chicago | 27 | Taurus

[thefeministfa]

Reflections after a decade of dating as an ffa

There are like, 5 (ok 6) universal truths I have learned as an ffa/feedist over the years:

Throw other ppls opinions in the garbage//also no one cares if you date very fat ppl and if they do care they probably don’t deserve to be in your life

There are so many cool hot fat ppl in the world. Don’t settle for that one really hot really fat dude who has shitty politics and hates women. There are lots of really hot fat dudes who have good politics and are committed to unpacking misogyny (don’t let dudes treat you like shit just because they weigh 600 lbs @@@@@@ me all through my 20’s)

Find really good friends who are also feedists because they are the ones who truly know what’s up

Be comfortable being alone and being by yourself. Finding partners who are into this kink and share your interests is really fucking hard and rare but worth it. But in order to get here ya gotta be real good with being by yourself and at peace with yourself

Unlearn anti fat bias but also (!!!) don’t let the mainstream, pearl clutching, morality obsessed fat lib movement make you feel like you are broken for being a feedist

Being a feedist is cool as fuck. It’s even cooler when you live it out in person. Keep going, enjoy the fuckin ride

[bunnyfeedsbear]

[crushed-cutie]

no notes, extremely relatable and great advice. sometimes you gotta experience to learn BUT if you can take any of this to heart pls pls do!

[fiercefitfemme]

More of you

When you’re struggling with yet another shirt that has given up its struggle to contain your thickening middle and I give you a squeeze and say, “There’s just more of you to love,” I mean it. I love watching buttons stretch and strain over your expanding frame, proof you continue to grow. When yet another fastening gives way and your belly surges forward to spread your thighs apart, I’m reminded of how much softer and wider you are now than when we first met. I think of tracing all those bright new stretch marks gently with my nails, my fingers finding their way around folds of flesh that weren’t there last month. The jeans you wore on our first date don’t fit anymore. You can’t even pull them up over your widening thighs although the last time you tried, I couldn’t help but grab your ass and sigh as my hands sunk deep into all that new fat. You eat more now - more often, more plates, more calories - and then there’s even more of you to love. More weight to press down on me.  More flab to fondle. More soft, sweet dough to nibble and knead. My thighs have to spread even wider to straddle the expanse of you and your belly rises up brush against me even when you’re flat on your back. More cushion for the ride, at they say. The best part is, we both know there will be even more of you soon.

[susie97]

Sometimes I just want a cute little make out session. Is that too much to ask??

[lucifuck]

[iwritebigbellies-blog]

The very best boys are the ones who work so hard every day to be strong, assertive, confident, outgoing; they do what they should and carry their loads, help and protect and act.

But when they get home, they put it down, leave it entirely on the doorstep. They melt into your arms and bury their heads in your care. They want nothing but to be coddled and fed and loved. They can be silly and vacant and indulged, and they are astonished every moment of their lives that you let them be this. They give themselves over to you in complete trust.

At the end of the night, when they've been kissed and praised, fed to bursting, and pleasured to exhaustion, they will just look up at you with adoration. They have to be everything when they are in the world, but with you, they only have to be yours. Nothing else matters.

[susie97]

It is weird being a feeder and none of your friends knowing. I just got back from the movies with one of my friends who has one of the sexiest bellies I’ve encountered irl. Some of his unconscious mannerisms were really turning me on.

[susie97]

One of my favorite seasons has just begun! 😊

I love seeing the comparison photos from the beginning of the year until now! I can’t wait to the how much growth everyone’s had

[femfatadmirer]

Oh, to be dry humping and gently rubbing a big belly while kissing tenderly…

[feedernurse]

God, recently the only thing I've been craving is to take a feedee and viciously stuff and use them for a month straight. No outside, no other people. They are stuck inside with only me and the food I bring them. Relentlessly stuff them all day. Wake them every 4ish hours throughout the night. Leave them an overstuffed mess and helpless plaything in a constant state of being too stuffed to move or breath comfortably. Humiliate them at every turn as I watch them struggle to even walk to the couch. I really want to know how much weight I can force onto someone in a constant month of this so bad...

[asoftgoth]

I need this SO BAD IM GONNA SCREAMMM

[susie97]

I am feeling a very strong urge to stuff someone tonight.

[thatweirdffa]

Okay, maybe this needs to be said:

As FFAs, we don't OWE you anything!!

Just because you're a fat guy, that doesn't mean we need to engage in any kind of conversation with you. As a woman (and human) I can simply choose to NOT TO!! That doesn't mean I'm an awful bitch or someone that's used to ghosting people. I'm sorry but, probably, you're not as interesting as you think you are.

Toxic behaviour is toxic even if it comes from minorities, you're not allowed to say whatever you want and act however you like just because you're fat, or gay, or anything that doesn't fall under the "white cis male" category.

Please be AN ADULT about it and understand that WE DONT OWE YOU SHIT!!

[susie97]

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[girlpenis-redux]

sorry i got distracted while you were talking your shirt rode up a little bit and i saw a bit of your tummy and got so horny half of my brain shut down. what were we talking about

[auroralovexx]

One of my favorite things about someone getting fatter is having to adjust how you fuck them.

Sure a 100 pounds ago hell maybe even just 50 pounds they could still hold up their own legs while you fucked them, but now it’s near impossible for them since each leg weighs almost as much as a average built person.

When giving them head you used to be able to reach more of them but with how fat they’ve gotten you find yourself burying your face even deeper into them suffocating yourself against them just in any attempt to get even the slightest taste of them.

Them riding on top is a workout all on its own, once they get on top the way you can already feel their heavy breathing just feeling the way their belly heaves up and down against your chest, you know that even when you’re pinned underneath them like this they don’t have the stamina to fuck themselves like they used to, so try as you will you somehow still have to thrust up into them.

It’s so hot that they’ve become so fat that one of the few things they can still do which is be fucked has even now become a struggle for them, but even with the struggle you and I both know they wouldn’t change a single thing about it, as long as they’re still getting fucked like the fat fleshlight they are they’re going to enjoy every second of it.

[susie97]

I love watching people out grow their clothes. It’s the sexiest thing someone can do. Watching them gorge themselves until their shirts can no longer cover their growing belly and who knows the last time those pants were actually buttoned. Just eating and enjoying the fruits of their labor.

[heavy--feels]

Experimental: weight gain drive

Well, we'll see how it goes... Looking to break my 205 lbs plateau!

So, the rules are simple. Interact with this post!

1 like = 10 calories 1 reblog = 50 calories 1 comment = 100 calories 1 follow = 250 calories

I will count these until Thursday, July 10th, 12pm. And then I'll eat the worth of calories calculated over the upcoming weekend and post the results <3

Let's fatten me up :)

[lovely-ari]

No shade but I feel like some of yall be treating these feedees/gainers as only gooning material or p0rn and it's so weird. Like some of yall forget these are real people with JOBS and other things going on in life other than being fat...and with that you're no better than the people that hate them for BEING fat-

Some of yall act so entitled if these people aren't posting constantly or responding/engaging when you want it...and then get mad af when they deactivate their account or leave the space entirely-

Treat these people with respect and know they dont have post or share shit with yall at all...especially for free-

[they-them-feedist]

You know you're a hopeless (feedist) romantic when you're regularly checking Feabie despite there never being any signs of life there.