Not questioning his eccentric charms.
Instead learning to embrace those charms.
Cause there is no one like him, and the world might explode if there was more than one of him.
Remember that time when the two of you were out with his niece and nephew to do some shopping and Jaijin vanished. So you made it a game with the younger children to locate their now missing uncle.
You looked at them and gave them some ideas on how to locate them, but made sure to emphasize that when you see him make a monkey sound. That way you know their uncle has been found.
It took about half an hour but the three of you did find him and having two kids making monkey sounds while chasing their uncle was quite the experience. You also may have filmed it for future teasing. Cause it’s not often that you see everyone just let loose.
Jaijin doesn’t hold things back.
So if he is feeling something or wants to say something he will.
He means well and doesn’t mean to be rude.
Though sometimes it may feel that way.
It’s just his personality and part of his quirky behavior.
One benefit of that personality is the random aegyo that he will pull.
He’s absolutely adorable when acts cute for no apparent reason except that he had the urge to do so.
Also I feel like he is someone that wants to show how much he cares instead of saying it.
He’ll show it by giving you a drawing or painting of something that reminded him of you. He’ll use his talents as an artist to really show how much he cares and is invested in your relationship.
He’ll also end up exchanging phone numbers with you, much to the shock of probably everyone around you. Especially his group mates.
But it’s the true sign of how much he cares.
It’ll be one of those things you don’t realize until a few months later when you have been messaging/calling him without remembering when his number ended up in your phone.
So when you head over to his art studio and inquire about it to him. True to his nature, he’ll nonchalantly mention he put it in there months ago and had created some small conversations so you wouldn’t think it‘s weird.
He’ll casually mention how his group mates don’t even have his phone number. Which really sets in how important you are to him.
Jaijin definitely needs that extra support and has found it. So he’ll do what he can to protect it.
You’ll have to meet his group mates at some point, and you know they will be full of questions.
How could someone manage to put up with Jaijin?
Why would someone put up with Jaijin?
But to you it’s not a chore or some job.
He’s someone who is very important to you.
Most likely you have your own quirks too and understand how he feels.
It also means you’ll have to actually meet YG and that whole side of the family. Which may actually be more intimidating than his group?
Regardless, he’ll make sure that you are both comfortable and accepted within his family and within the group.
You mean a lot to him and he will protect that relationship.
He also isn’t too big with couple items that you can wear.
I see him being someone that wants their special someone to have a similar or same piece of decoration in their apartment or studio. It could be a photo of where the two of you had your first date or a plant that reminded him of you and in return you got him a plant that reminded you of him.
Something that isn’t obvious to the outside world but to those who know the both of you.
He has many thoughts going through his head and may not share a lot of them, but I think once you learn to read his facial expressions you can learn a lot of what he is thinking.
He could be stressed from work or tired from practice but won’t come out and say it.
Being able to read his face will help, as he can be quite stubborn at times.
He doesn’t want to concern you with what he considers to be somewhat mundane and temporary feelings.
They will vanish in time, so why concern you?
So bring him a snack or just be near him to help him relax and eventually realize that he can confide in you.
He just needs to be shown that you care.
He’s been through a lot and has barriers up.
Showing how equally stubborn about taking down those barriers will help him recognize that you value and cherish him and what he considers to be important.
Slowly, he’ll start to tell you about those irritating or frustrating moments in his life and by giving him your full attention he’ll see that you genuinely care about him and his feelings.
I think that he is someone that enjoys being close to people, more so physically when it comes to dating and relationships.
Being able to physically feel them nearby or at least see them helps keep him grounded.
I’m willing to bet money on that he gives some of the greatest hugs ever.
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