Gentlemen there are two major differences between CNC and rape the first being CONSENT!!!!! Let’s be clear guys anything bu a clear “yes” is not consent if she doesn’t say no that’s not consent, if she’s not clear headed that’s not consent. And for the love of Christ check in with your partner to make sure she’s ok during play. Learn to read body language, if she doesn’t appear to be enjoying herself FUCKING STOP!!!!!!! Whether she uses her safe word or not. Which brings me to the second difference, if you do not have consent you will be hunted by men with guns and you will spend years locked in a cage where you will inevitably learn what it feels like to be a victim of sexual assault. I call that poetic Justice. Oh and guys, just because you’re dating her, living with her or even married to her doesn’t mean it isn’t still rape!! Have fun and be safe out there folks.
