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Call me Storm/Agere/Taken/Has Autism and C-PTSD ✨DNI if K1NK, CG/1, DD/1G✨

[sweetlimabean]

Good Evening Lovelies

I know it can be hard to get out of bed every day, eat breakfast, brush your teeth. It can feel like the world is falling in on itself but I just want to let you know how proud I am of you for making the steps you have made today no matter how small you think they are. You are loved, you are supported, you are doing absolutely amazing!

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Regression is sometimes embarrassing…

There are sometimes big emotions, stressful moments, things can happen that you don’t want others to see. But remember, you are valid, you are loved, and there is nothing wrong with your age regression!!

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Things Caregivers Can Do.

Be patient, littles need a lot more support. Showing how patient you are makes us feel your love!

Remind us that we are not a burden. It’s sometimes hard to realize our worth in this big world.

Help us get to sleep with bed time stories, some of us have really bad nightmares

SNUGGLES!!! Snuggles have scientifically been proven to help people feel better, so it’s an important factor

Remind us to take our medicine. Medicine is extremely important to keep us safe and sometimes it can be hard to remember to take it.

Validate their emotions. Being supportive is super important

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LOSING MY STUFFIE!!!

So, yes. You have read the title right...I have unfortunately lost one of my stuffies. Not any stuffie, one of many stuffies daddy got me!!

I know that I’m most likely not the only regressor that has lost a VERY important stuffie, so I thought I would share my story in hopes to find peace with the fact that she is forever gone.

As most of my followers know, I had taken a long trip to see daddy. 13 hrs, 2 different hotels, and a cottage later...and you would of guessed right if you thought it would be lost in ONE of those places.

I got home on the Friday of Oct, 20th, unpacked and didn’t think too much UNTIL that night. I went to go grab her, as most of us do, and head to bed. But, she wasn’t on my bed, in my bag, under my furniture, or wrapped up in my sheets.

Now the panic starts, the fear of where she might be, the fear that daddy would be upset (he wasn’t), and the fear of nightmares. Since daddy had gotten her, I hadn’t suffered with as many nightmares, and that is what scared me the most.

11Pm and I finally curled back on my bed, crying at the thought of her being gone. I messaged daddy, not expecting him to answer so late because he would be in bed for school the next day, but to my surprise he answered in less then 3 minutes. He asked what was wrong, made sure I was okay, and told me to grab Wilma (my ty beanie boo that he got me awhile ago) so I did just that, trying to put the thought of my lost stuffie aside for the night, but as you can imagine it was very hard.

The next day, we called every last place we were and no luck. And as much as I’m sad about it, I know that even if I don’t find her I’ll be okay. Stuffies are our friends, but even friends go away sometimes, BUT know that even if they do, that doesn’t mean they don’t still love us ☺️ imagine where they may be, close your eyes and think about the castles they may be living in, the forests they have built their home in, or even the beautiful planet they made for themselves. Never think about the negative side of it. It’s okay to lose a stuffie, and please don’t beat yourself up for it. Think about the happy times, and never forget it.

One day, you will be patched up, and it won’t hurt so much, I’m going throw that healing process right now, and I can tell you it DOES get better ❤️❤️

[sweetlimabean]

Rewards for your little

Okay, this post is for the caregivers out there!! I know it can sometimes be financially hard to reward your baby with the things you THINK they truly want, but I’m going to make a guide line to follow to give your little the BEST rewards on a budget!!❤️

~I only speak for myself and my little friends who I’ve asked. If you are not in this group PLEASE don’t feel offended, we all like different rewards, toys, and expenses, AND THATS OKAY~

Now, you may think that your little wants that new calico critter, or those new dinosaur LEGO’s, and that MAY be true. Most littles want the most expensive toys out there, BUT that doesn’t mean they want YOU to reward them with those toys ALL THE TIME.

A little would be more happy with the rewards being small and heartfelt than being expensive and just all over the place. Us littles think with our hearts, just like most caregivers do, so remember that. We would rather you take us for ice cream, to the park, or to get stickers from the dollar store than using a,l your money on us.

NOW, that being said here’s a list of inexpensive items for your reward list! ❤️

1. Park visits.

2. Dollarstore shopping spree. (stickers, small toys, colouring books, etc)

3. Ice cream or frozen yogurt.

4. Walks to the beach.

5. Colouring time with their caregiver.

6. Dressup with their caregiver.

7. Playtime with your caregiver. (play-doe,carpet time, etc)

8. A new stuffie for your little big collection. ❤️

9. Little date night.

10. Trips to get your littles favourite snacks.

11. Going to your littles favourite restaurant.

I hope you all like this list❤️ if you guys have anymore rewards share and write them down for other littles to see!!

[garou-art]

Sometimes you just need dinos.

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5 more days!!!!

‘Okay, so I don’t normally talk about my relationship in depth on here, but today I thought I would.

I have been dating daddy for 8 months now and most of those months have been irl, however, since the end of August he has been in a different province for school. Let me tell you, it has been HARD! I haven’t dated long distance for years and honestly didn’t think I could, but somehow daddy keeps me going even with the distance we have between each other!

Now, it’s only been a month and a half, but it seems like a life time since he’s been gone!! But, this months, well, this coming Friday, I will be laying beside him and able to have his arms around me! I miss him so much, and will be traveling two whole days just to feel his warm embrace. I wish I could stay there forever, but sadly I will only be there for 6 days. It’s enough though, and I can’t wait!!

Do any of you have long distance relationships? If so please tell me tips and tricks for a long distance relationship. I’m new at this and honestly, I would do anything to keep this relationship whole.

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Helping our caregivers in our little space

As many of you littles know, we need a bit more attention then the average person. AND THAT IS OKAY!! But this post isn’t going to be about our attention needs, it’s going to be about what we can do for our caregivers.

Sometimes when we are in little space, we forget that our daddies, mommies, and other caregivers need attention just as much as we do!

In this post I’m going to be giving you ideas on what do do for your caregiver to help them feel that they are getting just as much of attention as you are! ❤️❤️

1. Communication. I know this may sound like an obvious one, but sometimes we forget, or have a hard time communicating things to our caregiver. If you are upset, tell them. If you are hungry, tell them. If you need space, tell them. If you need more attention, tell them. Your caregiver isn’t going to get upset if you express your feelings to them.

2. Do cute things for them. Drawing pictures for them or making a puzzle for them might be something small, but in a caregivers eyes it’s one of the cutest, most important parts of being a caregiver. It shows that you care!

3. Help them distress. Does your caregiver ever come home from work or school and look tired and just not happy? Make them forget about their problems for a few hours. For example my daddy LOVES when I put music on and start to dance or sing. It makes him forget about the real world for a moment.

4. Tell them you feel safe around them. Remember, a caregivers biggest job is to keep YOU safe. If you let them know that they are doing it, the worry about not doing what’s ‘best’ for you will lower and it will make them happy that they are doing their job right.

5. Finding out what your caregiver enjoys. Do they enjoy nature walks, gaming, or just snuggling? Pick something you both like doing a lot and go do it. Bring a Paci, dip up, or go dressed up. Whatever makes you both feel the most comfortable. Doing things together will help both of you distress and it will get you both of you doing things. Which is a win on both sides in my opinion!! ❤️

If any of you have anything to add to this list, beblog it and say what you do with your caregiver to help them while little!

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[sweetlimabean]

Little-Meal-Ideas!

Now, I know that sometimes it’s hard for some littles to plan out healthy meals or snacks through out the day, so I thought I’d make a list for you guys of what I personally love eating in little space

1. Baby carrots

2.Celery

3. Toast and peanut butter, jam, or cream cheese

4. Oatmeal and brown sugar

5. Applesauce (this makes me feel the most little)

6. Small bags of popcorn

7. Chicken nuggets (I eat the vegan ones)

8. Tofu with veggies/chicken or turkey if you aren’t vegan

Please remember, these are meals that I personally eat, and you don’t at all have to follow! I just know how hard it can be to eat in little space when my head is destructed with toys and stuffies haha!

The average adult should consume 2500 calories per day please don’t starve just because your mind is occupied on other things! ❤️❤️

[sweetlimabean]

Good NON-Sexual punishments

We all have had that look on our faces when our caregivers have caught us doing something bad. The, “I’m sorry daddy” look. But, sometimes sadly that look can’t always get us out of trouble, no matter how much we want to think it will.

So I thought about writing down some caregiver/little punishments good for when you are regressed. All nonsexual, and all for the appropriate ages. I, myself am around toddler age when I regress (2/3) so what may work for me may not work for you, so if you are younger or even older feel free to share this and put your nonsexual punishments!

#1.  Expressing disappointment. Your caregiver expressing their disappointment in you breaking any rules is a very good punishment for someone regressing to toddler age. I know when I break a rule and get told by my daddy he is disappointed instead of right away giving me a full punishment, it can turn my attitude right around. 

#2. Making them say sorry. After I break a rule, saying sorry teaches me that I've done something wrong. “I’m sorry for..” is a way to help me hear from my own words what I've done wrong, and help me think about it all for the future. 

#3. Make them do chores. Making a little do small chores like sweeping up the floor, cleaning a bit of their room, fixing their bed, etc can make littles understand that they have done something wrong and broken a rule. 

#4. Writing lines. Writing lines, for me, Is a great way to understand what I've done wrong. 20, 30, or even 40 lines depending on what I've done can help me understand. 

#5. Corner time. 5-20 minutes sitting in the corner and thinking about what you have done is a great punishment. It can make you understand why you are in trouble and why you need to be punished. 

[sweetlimabean]

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So, today is one of those days. You know, the days nothing seems to go right, and you constantly get a reminder that you are a failure in life.

I woke up, late. I somehow had all my alarms turned off, I don’t remember doing so, but they were off. Everyday I have a strict routine, and if it’s thrown off, well the whole day seems to get thrown off. I shake it off, and try to make the best od my day, but as I go to get my creamer for my coffee, I dump it! I shake my head, trying to keep positive, somehow it doesn’t work because the plans of my day were then thrown off by change of plans. I do my deep breathing, I play my music, and I try to calm down in anyway I know how, but somehow...nothing is working. The day passes me by, not remembering most of it until tonight. I go to put a fresh dip on, I’m excited, more excited then I have been in awhile to put a dip on...and then nothing works out right. The tapes don’t work, the landing strip rips off, and no matter how much I try making my dip straight on me, it doesn’t fit properly.

The one thing that I use to calm my nerves, and it doesn’t want to work out. So now, I’m sitting on my bed, crying, and feeling the energy and motivation seep out of my body, praying that tomorrow is going to be a MUCH better day!! I just wish I had daddy here to hold me tightly and tell me everything will be okay...because text through a screen, or words through a speaker isn’t enough right now!

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So I’m posting a lot more on here, so I thought I would write mine and daddies rules down and ask you all what your rules are with your caregiver!

1. Princess will let daddy know when she has taken her pills.

2. Princess will have a bath every other day.

3. Princess will brush her teeth at least once a day.

4. When out in public, princess will walk behind daddy.

5. When out at a restaurant, daddy will help order princesses food. Princesses don’t speak for themselves.

6. Princess will always hold daddies hand in public, and ask to go ahead of him or to look at something.

7. Princess will always answer to any request with “yes daddy” so that he knows she’s listening to him.

8. Princess will ask daddy before making any unnecessary purchases and give him a reason why she needs it.

9. Princess will ask before eating or drinking anything unhealthy

10. Princess will let daddy know when she leaves the house and when she arrives somewhere safely. Daddy will do the same.

11. Daddy will send a voice message in the morning and in the night, and princess will send a video or picture.

12. Princess will tell daddy when she’s co-conscious, and all alters will tell him when they are out

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“Daddy I didn’t do it!!” I’ve said this many times before getting in trouble and being sent to the corner to think about what I’ve done. I know it can be annoying, or even stressful when our caregivers punish us, but the one thing to keep in mind is that it’s done out of love. They wants the best for you, and wants to see you succeed. They can’t have their princess/prince being a brat, or being rude to others so rules are put in place and you have to follow them, or punishing is in order.

Just keep that in your mind when being punished. You both put these rules in motion to keep you well behaved and safe! Love your caregiver and remind them that it’s okay to punish sometimes!

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Praise, it’s the number one thing in my life that I desperately search for. I get it all the time from my daddy, but it seems that this week specifically I need it much MUCH more.

Daddy is away at school, and let me tell you 13hrs away isn’t fun! It may not be as much as most of ageplay/regression relationships, but it can still be hard!! I’m use to having him right next to me, or be able to call him and him come over after work to see me and now I can’t.

All of us go through struggles in a relationship whether that be arguments in person, mental health getting in the way, or long distance being draining on us, but I want you all to know it’s worth it! They love you and you love them, you will get through it and at the end they will hold you tight and you will be safe and calm!!

I love you babies, and I hope you all are safe and loved to the fullest!!! ❤️ you will get through this, and if that means taking some ‘me’ time, do it, because at the end of the day taking that time will strengthen your relationship and yourself!

[sweetlimabean]

I absolutely love this paci and paci clip ❤️do you guys have a favourite paci?

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This is Mr.Buns he’s one of my favourite stuffies (don’t tell the others that though!) he goes everywhere with me, I never leave home without him!!