Brighter Horizons and Oceans to Cross

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[sxfespxce]

So today we had our FIRST conversation over the phone—it was full of shy, flustered giggles and silly little talks about how one another’s day was. Yet, it might have been my favorite thing I’ve ever experienced. It was so sweet and innocent and small; even if it was almost two hours long. I don’t know if it is possible, but I might be even more in love with this woman than I originally thought. I’m helplessly smitten by this beauty that I have only just begun to know the many layers and emotions of, and as afraid and intimidating as the future might be, I can feel it deep down everything is aligning as it should be…

Trust the process, trust the Fates, trust the Stars. Everything will fall into place when the time is right for it to do so. In the meantime, I anxiously and excitedly await the next moment I can hear that heart-melting accent, and those sweet, soft giggles that have become a whispered, echoing lullaby tonight.

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[memoirsofbilal]

“what i really want in life is not grand gestures or dramatic love stories. it’s something quieter, softer… almost invisible to the world but everything to me. i want someone who understands me — and honestly, that feels like the bare minimum, yet somehow the rarest thing. someone who knows how to be around me after a long, exhausting day. not every silence needs to be filled, not every mood needs to be fixed. just… sit with me. exist with me. let the evening be slow, calm, and gentle after a day that felt too loud inside my head. i want someone who knows which parts of me are fragile and doesn’t press on them just to prove a point. someone who doesn’t turn every reaction into a personality flaw. because sometimes i’m not angry, i’m just overwhelmed. sometimes i’m not distant, i’m just tired of thinking too much about everything. and when i get irritated, i don’t need arguments or analysis. i need softness. i need someone who can look at me and say “it’s okay, we’re fine,” and actually mean it. someone who doesn’t take my chaos personally. i don’t want my thoughts — the messy, unfiltered, overthinking parts of me — to be labeled as arrogance or attitude. they’re not ego. they’re just me trying to make sense of everything i feel all at once. and when i finally express myself, when i actually choose words over silence, i don’t want to be made to feel like i’m disrespectful or ungrateful. i don’t want love to feel like a courtroom where i have to defend every emotion i have. i want safety. not perfection, not constant happiness — just emotional safety. someone who doesn’t make me feel like i’m “too much” on my heavy days and “too distant” on my quiet ones. someone who stays consistent, who doesn’t make me question if i should’ve just stayed silent instead. because at the end of it all, love to me is not about fixing each other. it’s about understanding each other in moments where we’re hardest to love — and choosing to be gentle anyway.” — memoirsofbilal (via Instagram)

[wehavewords]

“Practice patience. Believe in miracles. Be your authentic self. Protect your inner child. Celebrate your triumphs. Hold yourself accountable. Say yes to new adventures. Choose change over comfort. Honor the pain in order to let go. Pursue whatever it is that you love. Do something new everyday to grow. Ask for help but harness your intuition. Discover the good in every experience. Remove anything that hinders your peace. Choose to have lessons instead of regrets. Make healthy decisions for your future self. Remove expectations and go with the flow. Cry when you need to, smile when you can. Trust that every end leads to a new beginning. Have more fun and take yourself less seriously. Allow yourself to fail, but choose to get back up. Tell the truth, even if it makes you feel vulnerable. Treat yourself the way you seek others to treat you.”

Karin Hadadan, A List Of Ways To Cultivate Ultimate Peace

[wehavewords]

10 Rules Of Life

1. Be present. The now is the only moment you have. Don't ruin it by dwelling on the past or worrying about the future.

2. Give it time. Things are quietly unfolding, even if you can't see it yet. Time heals everything.

3. Be grateful. The more blessings you count, the more blessings will flow in.

4. Exude kindness. You never know what others are going through. Choose to spread more love.

5. Let it go. By releasing what no longer serves you, you create space for what will.

6. Don't compare. The only person you should try to out-do is the previous versions of yourself.

7. Take responsibility. Only you are in charge of your happiness. The outcome of your life is based on your own thoughts, decisions and actions.

8. Embrace change. See it as an opportunity for growth and transformation. Nothing changes if nothing changes.

9. Cultivate resilience. When things go downhill, choose to bounce forward instead of staying stuck.

10. See the light. There is always something to smile or laugh about. Choose to see the good in every situation.

Karin Hadadan

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