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they/them/she

[t-or-whatever]

2-27-24

Its been one month and 3 days since I left you Youve gotten your things your hair isnt in my bed anymore weve stopped talking

seeing your name no longer makes my heart speed up seeing your name makes me sad not sad fo rme but for you

I gave you the world and you destroyed me I hope the next girl treats you how you did me

I hope you learn how to be alone how not to go from one girl to the next i hope you learn to be alone

[t-or-whatever]

2-21-24

It's real.

Your stuff is gone.

I think part of me was holding on to a little hope of us making it work.

Of it not being over.

Of us still having a chance of being happily ever after.

But no. It's real and you're not mine anymore.

I'm not seeing things in my house that remind me of you.

The stray hairs in what once was our bed are gone.

Just passing memories and the feeling of you not being the one anymore.

[t-or-whatever]

When I left I thought I wouldn't cry.

Wouldn't feel this immense pain.

Wouldn't feel this sorrow and hope

I thought I wasnt in love with you.

But I still was

And that's the hardest part of leaving

[wiltedbelladonna]

I see you in my reflection

You are never truly gone

[t-or-whatever]

1-24-24

I've spent so much time torn between the present and the future.

The future with you.

The future that doesn't exist anymore.

I've lost so much of the present waiting to go.

Waiting for you to want me the way I wanted you.

But now that's the past and the future is me.

Me without you.

While that's scary to think of my life without you loving me..

It's better to love myself then spend my time grasping for the future I thought I wanted.

[sonandheirofnothinginparticular]

[vangoghcore]

by kylejohnbryan

[the-last-hipopotamovolador]

[atom-age]

MEW meme tokyo. 

[t-or-whatever]

I am so in love with my boyfriend.... And have the biggest crush on potential girlfriend 😤😤😤

[hellomynameisbisexual]

Bisexual Visibility Day (also known as Celebrate Bisexuality Day) was first officially observed on 23rd September 1999, at the International Lesbian and Gay Association Conference in Johannesburg, South Africa.

Twenty years on, is there still a need to increase Bi Visibility?

I was born and raised in a small country town approximately 80km west of Brisbane, with Ipswich being the closest major hub. I remember Ipswich being (in)famous in the media on several occasions. As I navigated my teenage years, I always felt like I was different to everyone else or that I didn’t fit in. I could never answer the one question that was constantly tormenting my thoughts – why?

Now at 27, I’ve realised that sexuality wasn’t discussed in the environment I grew up in. The occasions that I did hear someone talk about bisexuality were always negative. I was told that bisexual people were just going through a phase, confused or greedy. I was told that bisexual people (especially women) were promiscuous or more likely to cheat. Bisexual people face numerous stereotypes and negative assumptions. I should know, I’ve heard them all. Unfortunately, it’s not just me. According to the 2019 AWEI Employee Survey, nearly 30% of Bisexual respondents hearing or being made personally aware of negative commentary, jokes or innuendo targeting the bisexual community and other LGBTIQ people within the last year.

Growing up, I also never saw myself in anyone else. I wasn’t aware of any television or movie characters that were bisexual. Or if they were, they were portrayed in a negative light. Icons ‘Bicons’ who had come out as bisexual, such as David Bowie and Freddie Mercury, consistently had their identities erased. Bi-erasure is a pervasive problem in which the existence or legitimacy of bisexuality (either in general or in regard to an individual) is questioned or denied outright.

Fittingly, visibility for Bisexual respondents is extremely important:

89.47% say that LGBTIQ inclusion initiatives are important to an organisaiton’s culture

80.61% say that out role models are important to their sense of inclusion

77.49% say that Allies have made a difference to their sense of inclusion

33.10% say that there could be more visible signs of inclusion (ally signs, flags, network posters)

The need to maintain and increase visibility and inclusion for bisexual people is not only the right thing to do, but necessary for the overall health and wellbeing of the bisexual community. Biphobia, bi-erasure and not being out has been found to be associated with poorer mental health. The Who I Am study, the largest study of bisexual people in the world to date, led by La Trobe University, has examined why bisexual people experience higher rates of psychological distress than heterosexual and homosexual people.

The study found sobering statistics:

One in four have attempted suicide;

Nearly 80% had considered self-harm or thought about committing suicide;

Over 60% have high or very high current psychological distress, with 40% reporting having had depression in the past; and

Transgender and gender diverse bisexual people experienced even poorer mental health and these findings will be released in the coming months.

The study instigated Bi+ Australia – the first national organisation set up to improve the mental health of bisexual Australians through support, education and research.

How can organisations and employees increase Bi Visibility?

Attend/promote events like Being Bi+ in the Workplace

Visit Bi+ Australia website which is full of useful information

Buy/promote Bisexual Pride Badges from Pride Inclusion Programs Shop

[f4llingt3ars-deactivated2022091]

[witchoria]

[puppygirl10]

*sighs in ‘I wanna go home and sleep*

[destroymylife]

[understands]

[recaption]