#!relationships

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❄ Relationships. [Wip.]

Y U K O.

♥ R e l a t i o n s h i p s;

@bloodtorn​​ - Due to a magical anon, Xenolith ended up confessing to her, much against his own chagrin. The two ended up having mutual feeling for each other and have plans for a wedding in the near future.

@wayward-sword​ - Two stubborn idiots and some drinks later, realize that they have very similar lives. Living under the same roof proves that human and demons can indeed fall in love.

@timidplum​ - Started as a confession from the smaller of the two, with Yuko accepting Plum’s feelings. In a sense, they can be complete opposites, one being shy and reserved, while the other being possessive and making their love clear to their partner. Regardless, these two are bound by a red string of fate.

@jokeranonymous​ - The constant teasing among the two finally caught up with them, behind those playful words, feelings blossomed...a bit too fast and almost crossing a certain line so quickly, nonetheless these two still continue their playful banter well into their relationship.

✰ F r i e n d s h i p s;

@darkheroclone​ - Their first meeting turned into a huge misunderstanding which almost cost Yuko's life, had Axel decided not to help her from certain doom. However, the two ended up being rather good friends with underlying feelings for one another--However both are rather dense when it comes to feelings.

♢** A c q u a i n t a n c e s ; **

@elclaree​ - Ras and Yuko keep running into each other a lot, so much that it’s probably become normal for them at this point.

@malicejudged - Begrudgingly opens her door for the great Judge Nemo, immediately her stomach churning just having her in his sights. The reason for there meeting is business and formal...for now.

@midgardrend - Two types of people with a similar hatred for humans. They could go on for days about how much they loathe them.

@scarbladed The two seem to be wary of one another in their own ways, but remain polite as they head for this dojo that Kenshin spoke of.

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[Note: All Relationships/Friendship happen in Alternate Universes/Time Lines and do not conflict with one another unless otherwise established between said characters.]

♥ R e l a t i o n s h i p s; 

@wayward-sword

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We haven't talked in 2 years and I being the most awkward person in the school don't know how to start talking to him again. Please help.

Before we start I want to apologize for the lateness on this advice. I know it’s no excuse but things have been a little hectic lately and we are really sorry.

Now before we start it’s best to remember that you haven’t seen this person in two years, so he might have changed in the time you haven’t seen each other. So if he seems to be a little different than from what you imagined please don’t take it to heart.

If you really want to start dating this boy you’re going to have get out of your comfort zone. He might have any idea that you crushed on him for 6 years, but hey at least you’re getting another chance right?

Now I recommend that you start talking to him slowly. You have his number, text him every once in a while. I’m pretty sure he’d be stoked to talk to an old friend. Ask him to meet with you so y’all can catch up on old times. If you feel that’s too brash or bold try e-mail, it’s usually not too intrusive and is a great way to communicate.

If you’re really eager to reconcile with this friend, try going places where you know they’ll be. That way both of you can spend some time face to face.

Keep in mind these things are only awkward if you think they’re awkward. Keep a positive outlook! I hope you are able to get with your friend, and good luck!

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chiaki, i have a long-distance relationship going on - and it's going pretty smoothly, but my parents don't know about it at all. her parents do and they accept it, but i don't know if i want to tell mine because i'm scared of them overreacting. i really want to meet her but i'm too scared to peep a word about it. what should i do?

Hey there, Anon.. I'll try to help you.

...Hmm...I think you should tell your parents, Anon. I understand it may be a little scary at first but it has a lot of benefits to it. If your parents acceptit, you'll have a whole load off of your chest. Also, they will help you possibly save up and help you meet your girlfriend. There are lots of other benefits, too. The only reason they may overreact is because they want you kept safe. You just need to tell it and give them time.

Here's how I suggest you approach them;

Approach them with a gentle but confident tone, and explain to them the situation in detail.

Respect any current opinions of the situation they have and talk about it with them. Try to persuade them.

Mention that her parents are aware of the situation, and accept it. I don't know if this will help fully but it will give them a somewhat good impression of her. It will show that she did a good decision in telling her parents about it.

Give them time to take it in. They need to think about it but make sure to not anger them about it - that will decrease their chances of accepting it.

...But please remember that it's your life and not theirs. You don't have to have your parent's approval on everything, but it'd be nice if you did. That's one of the good parts of growing up. You get to make your own decisions - they just want to keep you safe. Just don't stress too much about it, and only do it when you're full of courage to do it. There's no rush. You can do it and gather the courage. I know you can! I hope this was helpful, see you, Anon.

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I need some advice from anyone.. I've been single for years, and I've finally met a person that has similar tastes and other things in common with me... One of my friends has just recently gotten out of a relationship himself only 4 days ago, and this is where the problem lies - He's decided to go out with them, even though they knew I had my eyes on them, and vice versa. I just feel like nothing ever goes my way, I feel so annoyed and pathetic, like it's useless to keep trying... What can I do?

Oh my, a relationship problem I see..! Well fellow anon, there isn’t anything much you can do about it apart from working on yourself. We might have contradicting point of views, but the first step is to be happy with being single as you won’t get anywhere if you keep on thinking that you’re worthless for not being in a relationship; you’ll simply keep on thinking negative thoughts and that is not good even if it’s just little.

There are definitely a lot of great benefits and amazing pleasure from being in a relationship, but you first got to be happy with how you are at the moment; nothing would be able to work if you don’t work on your self-image first. 

Ehehe. Now, here’s the plan. Make sure you listen to what I’m about to say very carefully.. you can try surrounding yourself with good company and positivity! I might be mistaken but just because a particular person that you finally liked romantically had gone into a relationship with one of your friends doesn’t mean it’s the end of everything.

That particular ‘friend’ of yours might have done that nasty act to make you feel jealous and overall terrible, but we don’t know what that friend’s intentions were so we can’t exactly say for sure but you should definitely stand up for yourself and comfort that friend on why they did that fellow act of theirs as it hurt you very much.

Well, one thing you can do is try to bond even more with that special someone especially since they have a lot of common traits and tastes with you.. I’m very sure that talking with them will be no problem, you might be a socially awkward person so if that’s the case do try to come up with maybe silly and random topics.

However, there’s always that possibility in which that even no matter how hard you try to bond with that person you might not get them which is why you have to plan everything in advance to succeed. If that’s the case, then just know that it isn’t the end of everything because you couldn’t get that person you really wanted..

There are plenty more fishes in the sea, but this particular one might have caught all your attention and attracted you away, and that’s sort of a tiny little problem, you see.. you will feel very empty and pathetic especially since you desired to be with that person, but you got to move on someday because you can’t keep wasting your time desiring someone that you can’t be with.

You could also use that time to eventually find someone even better, but generally it isn’t the end of everything if you’re single! Relationships take a lot of time and commitment, and being single sets you free from the responsibilities in it such as making your partner happy, and a top priority is bonding with them; you can make yourself happy instead of worrying about yourself and someone else’s happiness.

The outcome from being in a relationship is amazing and definitely worth the work though, and maybe the right time (the time you meet a real special person, and you and them get together) for you just hasn’t come yet..

Ah, and lastly don’t ever give up in yourself! It’s the worst thing you can ever do. It might be hard to move on and I do understand that, but remember that if you keep trying even though it might seem useless you’ll eventually succeed.

However if even trying doesn’t ever make a difference, stop trying the same thing over and over again and try something different as it will not make any difference nor will it make any sense at all. Do you get what I’m trying to say here? You’re definitely not an annoying and pathetic person as you think you are, and although times like these are really hard I know you can do it!

Ehehe. I hope this helped you fellow anon, and feel free to reply by sending another ask if this has not helped you in any way..!

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Hi..I'm the anon that Hinata had a huge long ask for awhile ago.. See, my boyfriend decided to, a few days after breaking up out of fear asked me to get together with him again and I accepted it. It's just a little hard now though to.. grasp trusting them? I mean they broke up with me out of fear and before new years eve they started treating me more distant and now they say that they love me to bits and pieces, but I can't trust them and I don't know how to anymore...help?

Ahh Anon-san that is not good! I am no expert on this topic but I hope this helps you. Well, when you are in a relationship with someone, trust is vital and if you do not have that, I do not think that it is best to be in a relationship. I think it would be best if you spent some time away from him since you need time to yourself to heal.  You could always try enjoying time to yourself by reading, writing, or another hobby you might enjoy.

Sometimes relationships can be quite confusing. It can range from being distant to being very happy. I think that you should have a deeper thought if you want to be in the relationship or not during your time alone. If you do not want to be in the relationship, you can still be friends if you desire.

After that, I think that if you still want to be in the relationship you should look at the positives of having a relationship. For example, he must be a supportive person and I am sure he has been that in the past. Also, remember trusting someone does not happen immediately. You have to work together with him in order to regain the trust you once have. Talk to it with your boyfriend along with attempting to forgive him over what he did. Try to put yourself in their shoes and try to think about how they would feel.  Talk it out - communication is the key!

If he's trying to get together with you again, perhaps he does not feel fear any more. Just let time heal some of the wounds you have from the break up and remember; if you need more advice or help, you can come back here and we'll try to help you. I apologize for the long wait, but no one else knew how to answer this so we had to think this through. I hope you can forgive us!

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Miss Ibuki, I need some advice. Sometimes I just feel like I'm not a very good girlfriend to my lovely girlfriend of 10 months. I always feel like a bad person whenever I make her upset and I don't know what to do. Help?

Hey there Anon-chan! Ibuki is here to help you!

Don’t be sad, Anon! Smile! Ibuki is sure you are a wonderful person! It’s completely normal to make people upset, okay? You can’t control it! Don’t think you are a bad person because of that! You are not!!

Ibuki is not really good in relationships, but she is sure that your girlfriend loves you very very very very very very very very much and that you are not a bad partner, not at all!! Only coming here and asking Ibuki to help you out means that you care!! You just need to have some faith in yourself. You are an amazing girlfriend! 

Even though Ibuki doesn’t know you, she is proud of you and of your relationship! You were together for ten months!! THAT’S AMAZING! Don’t feel like that, Anon-chan. As Ibuki already said, fighting is normal, and it can’t be avoided (this word doesn’t fit Ibuki’s vocabulary at all!). Please do not feel that way!!

Good luck with your relationship, Anon-chan!