It's annoying as fuck when people imply you are a bad person if you enjoy someone's suffering even if you're actively helping them to suffer less.
If you arent the one causing the suffering, you haven't done anything wrong. Your enjoyment doesnt hurt anyone.
In fact, if you enjoy the suffering of someone you're helping and enjoy getting to be the person who helps them and feeling powerful because you can help stop their suffering, then they feel like less of a burden and more liked as a person because the relationship becomes mutually beneficial rather than them using you for help.















