Jun 28, 2025
It's annoying as fuck when people imply you are a bad person if you enjoy someone's suffering even if you're actively helping them to suffer less.
If you arent the one causing the suffering, you haven't done anything wrong. Your enjoyment doesnt hurt anyone.
In fact, if you enjoy the suffering of someone you're helping and enjoy getting to be the person who helps them and feeling powerful because you can help stop their suffering, then they feel like less of a burden and more liked as a person because the relationship becomes mutually beneficial rather than them using you for help.
#ice cold#actually narcissistic#actually npd#low empathy#and enjoying helping someone is inherently enjoyment of their suffering#but if you enjoy it too much or in the wronf way people come at you#i just saw a post where someone helped a wet little creature and the creatjre was like#do you like this? do you like me?#qnd the person was like what kind of person would i be if yoh liked this#and it pissed me the hell of#bc first of all when yoj talk like that it feels mean to the creature who was insecure about being liked#and youre like no you arw a burden#and furthermore anyone who doesn't see you as a burden is a bad person#hello????????#what the actual fuck#stop being mean to him!!!!#stop being mean to me!!!#its okay if you dont likw helping someone and do it out of obligation bc its the right thing to do#but its weird as fuck to imply someone is a bad person for. enjoying helping people#just bc they dont have automatic deep distress at their pain#when its actually better for both parties and makes them a more effectice helper if they enjoy it#put that wet beast down asshole ill take him#i wanted to rb it to argue this or say it in the replies but im trying to argue online leaa#*less
