Hello! I saw your account and I wanted to ask: how do you accept the fact that you're a heavy fictive system and decide to let others know that? We're a fictive heavy system and I still have trouble accepting the way we are. I haven't told anyone that we're a system because 1. I don't know how to explain how we're so many fictives (even though I fully know and understand the reason why), 2. I feel somewhat embarrassed when I say that yes, we have fictives from Danganronpa or Homestuck 3. I have imposter syndrome lol and 4. I don't want to end up on R/systemcringe. The only one who knows is my best friend because they witnessed and saw the moment we realized we are a system.
One headmate suggested that, since I kinda want others to know we're a system, each headmate should sign off with an emoji, but I'm scared others would find it cringe lol.
Any answer/suggestion will be greatly deeply appreciated and, if you don't want to post this, I understand!
-A very nervous host
Well, one thing that really helped us with telling people online that were a fictive heavy system, was befriending other fictive heavy systems, and just interacting with them, it made it feel less weird and more normal, and definitely helped with our imposter syndrome as well. As for accepting your system as well as being fictive heavy im sorry to say i don’t really know how to help you with that one, we struggle with it too, and the best advice i can give is to try not to care about being cringe, or what others think about your system, it’s hard to learn but once you do it makes it so much easier. As for the emoji sign off thing, i say go for it, I’ve seen a lot of systems do it, or you can tag posts with names. Also with the whole r/systemcringe, i cant guarantee you’ll never get posted there, but maybe don’t check, we’ve never checked and I believe we’re better off for it. Sorry if this isn’t very helpful, we’re not the best at advice, but I hope this helps, and you can accept your system fictives and all <3
