Here's your daily reminder that s.exualisation can be consensual and it's not inherently wrong to want to be sexualised or to sexualise the traits of your consenting partner for example...apparently we need that reminder??
This applies to everything, not just the stuff that makes you comfortable to think of someone wanting to have sexualised (so yes it includes disability, race, weight, transness, the list goes on)
Like maybe I want you to think it's hot that my speech gets all slurred and incoherent when my brain injury's playing up. That's not ableism, I fear that's just me being a freak










