Ghoulish

transid plural para freak that says things sometimes, taken by 3, radqueer since its coining - use name or he/it pronouns inbox is always open yay attention gimme gimme

[ghoulishmurder]

『 ☯ The Ghoulish Murder ☯ 』

‎ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ« Ghoulish / Wraith » « no pronouns / use name or he/him/it/its » ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ « asks are encouraged, fuel the npd »

『 Main IDs . . . deminfinage adult, bisexual, polyamorous, cis xenoman, identityfluid + transeverything, trisbodygod, panpara, racefluid maining transwhite (american) 』

『 Other cisids . . . 21+ adult, poc, plural, intersex, schizoaffective, npd/ppd, tachycardia, brain injury, stroke survivor, soulfluid + more 』

『 Other transids . . . unsure right now due to recently re-discovered systemhood 』

『 Reasons you may want to block me . . . chrono-adult, radqueer (as in this or also this but that one's more vague), radinclus, transid, big 3 (non-contact outside transids or rp), punk, pro consent / para / transid / endo / bodily autonomy, anti-abuse 』

No DNI and I'm fine with being asked genuine questions about transid & rq stuff by people on the fence. I do have one thing, if you have untagged/unwarned nazi/white suprematist imagery on your account: 1) why and 2) tag it or block me, that shit’s triggering

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(blinkies kept static on purpose so no flash)

[cisplural-onyx]

Since you cant reblog comments

[perma1960s]

i dislike that the "kill your local [paraphile]" sentiment is still so prevalent even in leftist & queer spaces. remember that paraphilias do not make someone a bad person, they do not make someone a predator, nor do they make someone deserving of violence. try not to lose hope in a future where we are accepted as we are, keep advocating and be loud & proud. theres so much joy & love to be shared in this community, and no bigot can take that away from us. :-)

[xavlegbmaofffassssitimiwoamndutr]

daily reminder to those in the rqc..

[ghoulishmurder]

If you encounter this sort of content online, immediately look up what you should do in your country, report it to the platform you found it on if that is a feature and LEAVE THAT SPACE

Block the user/s involved, leave the discord server, leave the forum, whatever you have to do to GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM IT

UK reporting: Internet Watch Foundation

US reporting: CyberTipline

Global reporting: Internet Watch Foundation (global portal)

Google search reporting | MAP Resources' reporting guide

If you're struggling with urges or addiction in this area, see: StopItNow and their helpline (mobile, text, and email) - these are UK resources and I'm not aware of others in other countries so please look where you can

[ghoulishmurder]

『 Working Class Egocieve 』

[PT: Working Class Egocieve]

an egocieve term for when you consider yourself the 'Working Class person' in a way that is central to your identity. this can include but is not limited to: wanting to be perceived as the most knowledgeable or attached to Working Class culture and wanting others to think about you when they think about / see aspects of Working Class culture

also self-indulgent lol

Flag template || I apologise for the shoddiness of the recolour work- I tried my best the general concept is there lmao

tags; @egocieve @radiomogai, @rabidbatboy ask to be added or removed

[ghoulishmurder]

『 Black British Egocieve 』

[PT: Black British Egocieve]

an egocieve term for when you consider yourself the 'Black British person' in a way that is central to your identity. this can include but is not limited to: wanting to be perceived as the most knowledgeable or attached to Black British culture and wanting others to think about you when they think about / see aspects of Black British culture

this was the most self-indulgent of the self-indulgent. me fr

Flag template || I apologise for the shoddiness of the recolour work- I tried my best the general concept is there lmao, it was partially inspired by how British egocieve was done

tags; @egocieve @blkmogai @cultural-mogai @mogai-aroundtheworld @radiomogai, @rabidbatboy ask to be added or removed

[ghoulishmurder]

Do transnazis bother you?

not sure why I got this ask but im gonna use it as an excuse to ask if anyone relates to this

to the question: no. no group based on a transid is inherently going to 'bother' me, anyone with any transid is free to follow and interact with me and if an individual bothers me I will block them

I do wanna touch on this though because I dont see transhate-inclusive radqueers with this pov as much and I wanna know if its a thing others get and are just quiet about. the word nazi bothers me, so when I see it applied to people it makes me uncomfortable because I am uncomfortable with nazis and racist ideology as a black person. when i see the word transnazi, I am reminded of racist ideology which makes me feel like shit, so I dont tend to interact with posts specifically about it. same for the term N.I.N and non-ideological white supremacist (which im not the biggest fan of the way those terms are phrased, named, and presented but anyway)

Im also sick of seeing the swastika and iron cross and other racist hate symbols so widely used. I dont really care about individuals, just that theres so many people doing it and they do not tag for the use of those symbols. I dont want to see them on pride flags, and I know there has to be others who feel the same. theres no reason to be using them imo but do whatever just tag for it or something.

I legit see tw gore tagged more often for flags than I do literal swastikas. please tag for your usage of hate symbols. transnazis as a whole do not bother me. usage of hate symbols bothers me

if your blog is full of hate symbols id rather you block me or tw tag them

[theproblematicnerd]

Radqueer Infographic (covering the basics)

[PT: Radqueer Infographic (covering the basics)]

Click Here for the .txt file with image descriptions

Sources, credits, and a bit of extra info under the cut

I wanted to make this thing because I know not everyone can be bothered to leave Tumblr and head over to a wiki page, and not everyone trusts what's said by radqueers about their own label (which kinda sucks, but I see where it comes from), so here's a very objective look at what radqueer means from the perspective of someone who's just really interested in it and has spent a lot of time learning in and around the space (over 4 years in fact)

I constantly have to deal with having That Reaction (you know the one) when people get info about my special interest wrong. Because of that, I also want to eventually do a transid one, maybe a para one if Tumblr doesn't kill me, and just more posts talking about the...*checks notes*...over 34,000 words and counting I've written about radqueer alone (which you can read here by the way, forever a WIP)

Symbol Credits & Sources:

[PT: symbol credits & sources]

RQ Symbol (top left) - og flower, flower + strawberry combo RQ Symbol (top right) - I couldn't find the creator sadly but here Sparkles - all just free Canva resources May 2022 recoin TransID symbol (via Transid.org) TransID definition (via Transid.org) Paraphilia flag (via paraflags-wiki.org) Original Radqueer Coining (the most commonly linked one + the one linked on Transid.org is from a few days later: here) EDIT: This is actually the original, from 4 days before the most commonly linked one and 2 days before the one I was referencing, but there are very few differences between this one and the following one

Tags do not reflect me, my opinions are in my pinned post

[ghoulishmurder]

『 Radqueer Special Interest Flag 』

[PT: Radqueer Special Interest Flag]

A flag for those who have a special interest in radqueer, the community, history, activism, and/or anything else radqueer-relate

Flag template

Coined by a radqueer, doesn't have to be used by radqueers of course - anyone can have a radqueer special interest. If you recoin this just because a radqueer made it you're the uncoolest of the uncool, you can literally just make an alt flag like you would for any other term you wanted a different flag for

On that note, alt flags for anyone who wants a version more easy on the eyes / doesn't want the rq colour-picked version

[thisisparamisia]

Conversion therapy for paraphilias is still for the most part completely accepted in general practice worldwide and it sucks. At 16 I was diagnosed with p.edophilic disorder and advised by the medical professional that diagnosed me to 'punish myself' if I had these thoughts by restricting my food, sex life, social experiences, etc

When I developed agoraphobia later down the line due to this type of treatment, a therapist I was seeing told me that 'at least there are upsides', the 'upside' being that 'children would be safer whilst I was still experiencing p.edophilic thoughts' (I had never once made contact with a child)

I had other professionals ask me to go into extreme detail about my solo sexual experiences as a teenager (which I later got told was much more detail than necessary), blame me for my trauma, imply that I enjoyed my trauma, attempt to shame me out of my attraction, so on so forth

So many medical professionals spoke in this way that implied that there would come a time where I'd just stop having my paraphilia. It took close to a decade to find (and then afford) support from someone who actually helped make it so that my paraphilia no longer significantly impairs or distresses me

It should not have been that hard

[PT: Pedophilic. /End PT]

This is paramisia.

Its honestly horrific how normalized the conversion therapy, victim-blaming, and just general psychiatric abuse of paraphiles is.

Paraphiles shouldn't be tormented or victim blamed on the basis of a condition out of their control. And they definitely shouldn't be treated like ticking time bombs who shouldn't be allowed to be in public.

[ponyblvd]

pocd is worsened by people like antis who are constantly talking about killing all pedophiles in public and skinning them to death. btw. i'm gonna need antis to stop claiming to care about beings with pocd when they are literally worsening the pocd by talking about how evil all pedophiles are. you aren't helping.

[ghoulishmurder]

This this this

People with POCD (and ZOCD/NOCD/so on) are so often used by anti-paras as some kind of exception like 'oh but not you because you're not actually one of them'. I've even seen them used in a attempt to argue that paraphiles openly discussing acceptance of their orientations is somehow going to make people with para-OCD types worse or make them start identifying as a paraphile

In reality, trying to punish someone for supposed thought crimes is exactly the kind of thing that can trigger people with those OCD subsets. Para acceptance makes the world a better place

[ghoulishmurder]

Here's your daily reminder that s.exualisation can be consensual and it's not inherently wrong to want to be sexualised or to sexualise the traits of your consenting partner for example...apparently we need that reminder??

This applies to everything, not just the stuff that makes you comfortable to think of someone wanting to have sexualised (so yes it includes disability, race, weight, transness, the list goes on)

Like maybe I want you to think it's hot that my speech gets all slurred and incoherent when my brain injury's playing up. That's not ableism, I fear that's just me being a freak

[ghoulishmurder]

Pandissomei / Pandissodic

Pandissomei or Pandissodic (could also be called Dissoeverything) is a dissodic term that describes someone who feels involuntarily disconnected from the entirety of their physical / current self, believing that every aspect of them should be or is something else

This could refer to feeling disconnected from each individual part of yourself, being dissoage, dissobody, dissospecies, and so on, or just feeling disconnected from yourself as a whole. You don't have to identify under each dissodic umbrella individually to be pandissomei

This term is against transitioning if it could harm others

@dissodic-archive, flag template by @kiruliom

2026 update: This was coined by an alter in my system who is no longer active - if you're seeing this post later down the line, it wasn't coined by a radqueer you're all good, but this account is now radqueer-owned :D