being asexual in transfem spaces is so hard because our communities are built around being a specific kind of hypersexual kinky (white) girl and like
okay so tme people will get mad at me for not being sexually available to them and then when i go to transfems they find me incredibly weird for me to not want them to be outwardly sexual towards me
transfeminity is treated as automatic consent for sexual advance by literally everyone and i'm sick of it












