Feb 2, 2025
Louis Tomlinson has followed Ben Stiller on Instagram [1.2.2025]
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Louis Tomlinson has followed Ben Stiller on Instagram [1.2.2025]
نفسي أثق في نفسي وأحبها كفاية إني أستحمل عدم الارتياح والخوف والفشل في سبيل إني أدوّر على حاجة أحسن بعيد عن "المألوف" و"المريح" ليا واللي عرفته معظم حياتي.
1.2.2025
Matt Dinnadge, Louis’ bass player, posted to IG about Louis Tomlinson’s headlining set at Lollapalooza India [1.2.2025]. Matt used the intro to the Live version of Out Of My System
February 1, 2025 - Day 227
A belated birthday celebration for my dad in their beautiful newly renovated kitchen!
"Grief is so bizarre, every time is like the first time."
- it's not about you, their grief isn't about you and you shouldn't treat it as if it is. Put your feelings aside and be with them the way they want you to be. Sometimes straight up asking them "what do you need? How can I help?" Or letting them know that you're there for them is enough. Even if you pissed them off, it's ok. It's not about you. Keep trying, you'll get it right one time.
"Grief doesn't get easier, it gets different."
- we can't heal if people are stripping away any type of feeling from us to make us feel better. Don't try to take away the pain, it's not going anywhere. If you're uncomfortable in my pain that's not my problem nor my responsibility. You can't be somebody's support if you find yourself uncomfortable with how they express their feelings.
- saying and doing nothing is the worst thing you could do. Getting it wrong is better than not doing anything at all. Offer help. Share how sad you are for them and for their loss. But show up.
- grief doesn't go away. You just learn how to manage it.
- stay away from comments about religion (unless they're open to it), or them being in a better place, or that they'll get over it. Don't try to "fix it". And don't ask about the specifics of their death.
4/5 ⭐ (wasn't really informative, but it might be to some. I just liked how honest the guests were and that it's about grief. Felt heard.)
featuring 1) corensupes picture i had saved on my phone 2) doing my own little spin on the superman symbol 3) working on my clark kent design :3