Day 7 of the #pregnancyandinfantloss #photochallenge :What NOT to say: “Oh but you were only 14 weeks, the baby was small”-So? He was my son and he died. “You are young, at least you can get pregnant again”-Maybe… but none of those babies are Noah. “I know someone who lost a baby and then got pregnant with her rainbow baby…”-Good for her, but how does that help me feel better about my son dying? And my least favorite: “Oh, dont worry, you will have kids some day, you will be a mother...”- As if somehow having more kids would replace losing Noah. I did have a son, and he died… Thank you very much. But I have to admit: the worst of all: nothing at all. Any comment-as bad as it could be-is better than silence. . . . . . #awareness #miscarriage #14weekmiscarriage #captureyourgrief #angelbaby #latemiscarriage #iam1in4 #grief #Octoberchallenge #loss #pinkandblue #miscarriageblog #miscarriagesucks #pregnancyloss #bornintoheaven #pail #miscarriagesurvivor #shatterthesilence #whatnottosay