I feel like ella and claire always know what to say, or give the best advice. I'm not sure if it's because they offer "fresh" perspectives as we call and catch up every so often and don't talk as frequently as i do with bree/ryan/mom/dad. I feel a let down/disappointed by how ryan responds to me when i express worry about things. It's like he doesn't know how to reassure me at all. If I'm having a bad moment he almost always makes it worse instead of helping me. He's aware of this but i feel like he doesn't do anything to change it-he could read articles or talk about it in therapy or fuck, even ask reddit how he could be more supportive. But he doesn't. He just gets all mopey and sad that he can't help me. And what am i supposed to say to him in that instance? Oh no it's not fine because you never know how to be fucking helpful when i need your help the most. I feel resentful because of it tbh.
Idfk ugh
He's right, that i can't stop pointing out the bad things he does and that I'm more focused on that. But i do my best to thank him when he does things i appreciate
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Him bringing that up makes me feel like i can't bring up any issues i have w him now