Think Good For Self And Others.
People believe that when one is successful, he becomes so by stealing the chances of others. If you eat more, there will less for other people. If you become rich, happiness will fade away.
Not true.
Previously, this might be true. For example, before the industrial revolution, the economy was stagnant.
For example,
Earlier, the total output of a 1 acre land was same. Years and years, the farm produced same amount of food which it produced earlier. So if someone wanted more food, they needed to conquer lands and keep the output of that land to themselves. After the industrial revolution, we are producing more and more food each year. This has enabled us to enter positive sum game.
Now there is more and more pie for each and every individual. Earlier, there was no person in this world who had exceeded 100 billion. Now are 2-3 such known people in the world.
When you think well about others, you radiate positivity. Conspiracy theories give us nice web series, and we love to see politics. But do you believe you will succeed in such tense environment? Whatever you do, there are some people that will try to conspire upon you. You may get betrayed anytime. This is not the right environment for a positive growth.
You can only grow in a positive environment. People say they are driven by negative emotions. This is way of fooling themselves. It can be the reason to start your success journey, but it will not help you succeed in life. For example, if had a bad childhood, you decide that you are going to start a hotel chain with affordable food. The reason is you started because you didn’t want that starvation and suffering.
You may start this hotel but in order to make it big, and to reach everyone who cannot afford a hot meal, you need positively driven mindset. “There are a lot of hungry people around the world.” And “Each and everyone in this world get their hunger satisfied every day.” Which sentence makes you feel good after reading it? You can start your journey by the first sentence, but you will need to set your goal as your 2nd sentence.
In our society many people believe the punishment is the key to success. If I don’t achieve this, I’ll punish myself. This creates unnecessary stress on you. Not good for your mental health. While working, in the back of your mind, you know that consequences you are going to face if you don’t succeed. This gives the task at hand a negative ring. Drive yourself with things you want instead of things which you want to run away from. This simple mindset change enables your mind to work in comfort and freely.
So in essence, there is abundance for everyone and henceforth always will be. Believe in yourself and work on your target, your goal. You are doing nothing wrong by becoming successful. Set a positive goal and look into positive aspect of it for motivation. Even while you pray, say “please make everyone Rich and Happy but start with me.”
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