#8-1-15

[letters-to-arden]

Dear Arden,

I'm super exhausted. It's extremely late again. So I'm going to go to bed and I'll fill you in tomorrow. Monica and I talked a lot. Love, Pam PS Thanks for Don't Run. I love that song. It's given me strength.

[empireprep]

It never ceases to amaze me how quickly your life can change

[i-e-nfpisces]

Well this is Awkward

Awkwardness is a sign that you're learning something.

[ifwethinkandwishandhopeandpray]

I won’t give a name only because their twitter is private...

...but let’s just say that UAs make me sick when they don’t understand the job of the boy’s security in a crowd. (Lollapalooza weekends see upwards to 300,000 people.) To have them stop to chat, takes photos, and give autographs is asking for a mob scene. Those situations can escalate very quickly and then the bodyguard would need a whole team of security to get out safely.

To respond, when someone says the bodyguard is rude, with “____ can die” is in NO WAY ACCEPTABLE...and then you keep tweeting about how annoying security is.

YOU make me sick.

[treacle-tears-blog]

Entry.

I binged so much today (╯︵╰,)

[i-e-nfpisces]

Love and Marriage

It is a big difference in today’s society that people are expected to get to know someone and become intimately familiar with them before deciding whether or not to stay with them, rather than being committed to another (usually through arranged marriages) with limited knowledge of them; left to use their marriage to get to know one another better.

Freedom of choice is an important, relatively new factor, but to an extent, the high commitment level so early on the relationship provided a baseline acceptance, like built-in trust in the partnership which allowed partners to expose their true nature earlier and stimulate bonding (i.e. why hide things about yourself when your partner will inevitably discover them and still be powerless to avoid them?).

Excepting extreme cases, this semi-forced cohabitation provided an opportunity to see the best of the humanity in the partnership, and to spend time cultivating and deepening appreciation for one another rather than questioning the validity of the pairing itself: a change in objective that, I believe would lead to more successful marriages.

Fortunately, this can still be applied to a modern, freedom-of-choice context. If/when you find someone that you love enough to make a lifetime commitment to, who loves you just as much if not more (but certainly not less), you owe it to yourself and your partner to spend your lives increasing appreciation and love for one another, through good times and bad, adding your light to the Universe. Trust your heart to lead you, and follow it forever.

C.G.

[luckyleolion]

I wanna talk to him. Holding myself back. I think if my father is off tomorrow I am going to see him

[luckyleolion]

Why can't I stop thinking about capricorn....because I wanna talk to him....buuut im trying not to.