Lifestyle In Regard To A/B/O
As someone who loved hybrids for years, wrote stories based on them and praised them beyond belief, you could imagine the surprise it was for me to find ABO for the first time.
Most of the people I know found omegaverse through some sort of fanfiction, I’m no stranger to that. I’ve been roleplaying for around 8 years now and most of my muses are in the omegaverse world in some way, I experimented with it, learned it, and found myself falling in deeper than how I would as a writer. I was both surprised and dumbfounded when my brain sort of.. switched? Kind of like when you hang around someone for too long and start using their lingo. While someone’s mind might say “girl.” mine might say “omega.” (not stereotyping though, I am a women alpha after all.)
Around this time, months after being dragged down this hole, I met a girl, she had no idea what A/B/O was nor what it merely stood for, needless to say, she fell into pretty quickly along my side. I was someone literally horrified of being ‘unnormal’ and wanting to be an alpha out in the real world, not just a mere thing I roleplayed was pretty scary. Can you believe I cried over it? I felt like a child. There was one thing that stuck with me even til’ this day that she told me, “Your normal might not be someone else’s.” That was the moment I accepted it, and somewhere along the way she had too.
This is my daily life now, being in a constant a/b/o state is completely normal to me and I have no shame with it. I found my mate almost a year ago and we’re now in a pack together, I have a lot of confidence in calling myself a pack alpha, as someone who would do anything for the people in my life under my guard.
Nesting: I’ve found myself liking to nest more with sheets and bed arrangements as it’s the place I’m most comfortable, this isn’t different from your regular readings aside from what you feel you should use and where. Normally, I don’t realize I’m in a nest til’ my sheets and pillows are suddenly around me like a bird’s nest and I’m as snuggly as a bug. This happens usually when I’m sleeping alone, having a bad day, about to start my ‘heat’ and transitioning into my period. I could also imagine it being more frequent if being pregnant or trying to. In addition, having someone whom’s close to you’ clothing items either on you or around you might also help. (A mate, family member, friend, etc.)
Heat/Rut: For heat’s and ruts for women I would say this would start before your monthly. Keep in mind, you have your period because you’re not pregnant. Speaking more so for myself (as I have been), I get pre-period cramps and cumming always helps relax. This is also around the time most women start ovulating.
! IF YOU ARE A MALE WHO IDENTIFIES AS A ALPHA OR OMEGA AND EXPERIENCES THE SAME THINGS PLEASE HELP ME AND OTHERS UNDERSTAND YOUR CLOSEST EQUIVALENT TO A RUT/HEAT !
Knots: This can be pretty self explanatory, as humans can’t physically knot but there are plenty of knotting dildo’s online marketing from around $10-30, this can take a toll on someone’s body but with plenty practice and prepping I say go for it, no harm no foul! Don’t forget lube.
Mating: In omegaverse, mating is normally done when one partner is in a heat or rut. They use their K-nines to bite into their mating gland and truthfully, even in lust it’s pretty painful. Human’s don’t have sharp teeth nor any gland of that type, which is why I have thought of ways to do so.
Hickey’s. It’s unlikely they go unnoticed but isn’t that the point? To show off you’re taken? Keep in mind if done on neck multiple times, it shouldn’t be the same spot over and over as they can cause damage.
Collars. I have found collars to be both a blessing and a curse. It’s the less subtle way to show your mate off, most people won’t bat an eyelash and think it’s a mere fashion piece. If having picked a color your wolf would be, I recommend finding a color of that color!
Biting. This is the more traditional way and it’s most likely gonna hurt like a bitch but, if you’re careful in placement and aftercare, scarring can occur. There will be blood, but this isn’t something to freak out over, even in omegaverse it’s normal for bleeding to occur for both alpha’s, beta’s, and omega’s. Again; don’t be careless. Do your research and be careful of placement.
Dynamics: Finding whether you’re an alpha, beta or omega (perhaps even a sigma; combination of all three) could be as easy as tying your shoelaces, or as hard as carving a pumpkin (spoopy season is coming soon folks), but it’s okay if you can or can’t figure it out. There isn’t one thing that can prove you’re an omega, beta, or alpha. Most would say more dominant people would be alpha, switches beta’s, and subby/small omega’s but there are also power bottom’s, power tops, asexual’s and everything in between. This was something I struggled with heavily but I can promise, you’ll figure it out at the right time. Patience is key. Let it come to you.
reply/pm if you’d like me to add something, as I am forgetful.