My loves, soft nopes, and hard nopes in fanfiction.
Loves:
Well written AUs, in particular modern setting, college, and ballet
Ben Solo being called Ben
Conversations
Going Undercover
Grey Rey
Hair Braiding
Other people learning about the relationship
Pining
Reydar, because it usually involves going undercover
Size Difference/Kink
Soulmates (bonus for Soulmate-Identifying Marks)
Stuck Together tropes
Touch Starved Rey/Ben,
Literally anything that makes me laugh
Soft nopes (might read under right circumstances, but tend to avoid them):
Breakups, past or present
Dark Rey
Dub-Con (Reydar style, i.e. I don’t know Matt is Kylo Ren, is fine)
Jealous/Possessive (I don’t care if there are tids and bits, but if it is a major trait it’s a nope for me)
Not Happy Endings
TLJ Throne Room Sex (there is a DEAD SNOKE there, that’s just icky)
Hard nopes (I will not read a fic with these tags):
Major Character Death (within the ship i.e. Rey or Ren)
Rape/Non-Con
Infidelity










