aboutarcticmonkeys replied to your post:i, a female, have been friendzoned and i think...
i think the right word is unrequited love, saying that you were friendzoned is trying to blame the other person for not having the feelings you wanted the person to have
yes yes yes it's exactly that ugh i think our generation has gotten accustomed to finding the easy way out of things (feelings, expression of feelings and expressions overall) like this issue of throwing the blame onto others and (in my case too, unfortunately) not finding the right words for things
nonetheless, i my main point was that we hardly ever see girls complaining, not like how boys keep whining on and on about it. i feel like for boys it's like "wow, she doesnt want to date me, whats wrong with her" and for girls it's "wow what's wrong with me"
either way, it's always the girl's fault and that's just one small example of how fucked up society and its expectations are