when allos interpret friendships as romantic/sexual that's perfectly fine but when I interpret songs about romance/sex as actually platonic im weird for that???



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when allos interpret friendships as romantic/sexual that's perfectly fine but when I interpret songs about romance/sex as actually platonic im weird for that???
I'm not romantically attracted to anyone, but man do I like romantic fantasy. Never with real people.
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I used to be very romance repulsed as an aromantic, but as time went on, I learned to tune out the societal pressures for romance. I no longer felt bombarded by it since I could separate it from my own path in life. As a result, I no longer felt the need to defend myself against the notion of romance now that I didn’t feel it’s expectations on me. I actually discovered I like romance… just in a detached sort of way. I spend hours immersing myself in romance, but only in a way I am not directly involved. I enjoy the magic of being an outside observer of a good romance story. Although I myself never appear in my romantic daydreams, I can get warm fuzzies and butterflies when thinking of a fictional relationship. Part of the appeal is that it’s fantasy. It’s not real so I ger that comfortable separation of romance from life… but I still get the thrill of love. I’m just an aro who loves his romance! I guess that’s why I resonate with the term aegoromantic despite it being a micro label.
Found this old artwork of different aro/ace speck identities as cats!
I think its still cute (fun fact i use that aroace design in my stickers still)
Should redraw it and maybe add some
Source | Day 572
I want a boyfriend, but like, in an aromantic way.
Like, maybe our relationship is queerplatonic but really resembles a romantic relationship, so everyone thinks we're romantic and we know how we feel. Or maybe one of us likes the other romantically and the other person loves them in their own aro way. Or maybe we're platonic life partners who use the term 'boyfriend.'
hey, reminder that even if an aromantic person enjoys and participates in romance, that doesn't make them any less aromantic! lack of attraction does not automatically mean lack of interest!
in a similar vein, don't assume an aromantic person suddenly feels attraction just because they enjoy physical and/or emotional intimacy! no action is inherently romantic unless explicitly intended to be!
I drew more a-spec flags
The full resolution files are on itch.io. If you want one as a sticker I uploaded them onto TeePublic.
Original with other flags
Songs explicitly about or relatable to being aromantic
"Never Been In Love" by Will Jay
"Aromantic Moodboard" by Max Lizanich
"Crush Culture" by Conan Gray
"i think i wanna be alone" by mazie
"Zero Feelings" by Zoe Clark
"Turning Out" by AJR
"Please Don't Say You Love Me" by Gabrielle Aplin
"Not A Love Song" by bülow
"I Am Not a Robot" by MARINA
Other songs with aro-positive vibes
"Sports" by Beach Bunny
"Driving Myself Home" by Rose Betts
"despair" by leo
"my ted talk" by mxmtoon
"Kissaphobic" by Make Out Monday
"Rose" by The Weeknd (can be interpreted as platonic)
"FRIENDS" by Marshmello and Anne-Marie
"Dance Floor Anthem (I Don't Wanna Be In Love)" by Good Charlotte
"I'll Be There" by Walk Off The Earth
"You're My Best Friend" by Queen
For my aro community 🖤🩶🤍💚