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[daddyellis]

Meet the Author ft. DaddyEllis // Rowan Wolfe

Oh look, it's me, Rowan the Narrator.

and my three other dominant personalities (of late), Mika the Hunter, the vampire, Armand and some fuckass white dude (Nick).

hiiiiiiiiiiiiii I've been putting this off for a while because I'm not great at introductions so here's some fast facts about me

Age: 29 (Libra) AFAB he/him nonbinary polyam demi-bi pagan otherkin weirdo I have some form of OSDD huzzah 5 cats, 2 guinea pigs, 3 geckos and around a dozen fish live with me I produce reptiles, isopods and house plants in domestic enviornments for a living (i'm a vendor at exotic animal expos) Wildlife is my biggest passion, mental health is my second I'm painfully single right now for the first time in a century decade 16 years writing, 10 years doing cosplay, 7 years of visual art and a lifetime of failure but i'm probably the most hopeful misanthrope you'll ever meet

Aside from writing Frisson (The Ties That Bind Us), I spend a lot of time with my wonderful brother @raydiantdmg playing video games, doing art and working on our business. Games we like; Minecraft, Left4Dead, Skyrim, Balder's Gate 3, World of Warcraft, Farming Simulator, Jurassic World Evolution, Call of Duty, and like fuck, so many more.

I also read a lot but I won't say my choices are premium, probably will surprise anyone who reads my writing, but I mostly partake in Erin Hunter's Warriors, which I have loved since I was a child. I also love Holly Black's work more than life its self (ask to see my picture with her, the fear in her eyes is palpable), and other favorite authors of mine include basic bitch shit like Stephen King, Jesse Hajicek, George RR Martin and Anne Rice (just got into her work, phenomenal) and my favorite short story is The Axolotl by Julio Cortazar. My favorite author on ao3 is the amazing LadyRedms which I credit entirely with being my muse <3 love you Father

Other hobbies I have include being exceedingly chaotic, haunting the narrative, turning non-problematic ships into highly problematic ships, pouring my heart out in fanfiction, simping on main for my favorite actors/authors/creators/artists (looking at you, Jackie >;3c) and crochet! I also do a lot of horror SFX and I have a cosplay I have maintained and presented for as long as I've been in fandom, but aside from Mika, I also cosplay Germany (Hetalia), Cecil (WTNV), Tim (Magnus Archives), Nick (Left4Dead) and Aemond Targaryean (HotD).

My hopes and dreams; to be a professional author. It's all I really care about at this point, and all of my actions, motivations, thoughts, feelings seem to revolve around 'how do I improve my craft? how do I continue to fall in love with writing over and over? where do I find new language, new ideas, a new muse?' and it feels so good to only pursue the things I love. So if I seem a little obsessed, that's why.

Other random things about me; I live in the Midwestern United States and say things like y'all, howdy, youbetcha and ope unironically I grew up on a farm, born and bred hick with smarts over here I was a teeange cult leader in an otherkin wolf pack and if you saw me on youtube, no you didn't My favorite colors are yellow and pink My most niche interest is genetics and its affect on the coloration of cells in wildlife as well as morphology's relationship with health and behavior It's completely legal to smoke pot in my area of residence so you may notice me having a lifestyle akin to Snoop Dogg at times I rode horses with the intent to go pro when I was a teen and still adore them to this day, I worked with an intructor on English style riding, with a hope to do Cross Country as a sport, and my lease horse was named Rusty. For seven years I attended a barn that hosted international champions-- and I generally didn't let it go to my head. My ancestry comes from a lot of places, but I am most proud of being Lakota Native Indigneous and having connections to my culture is exceptionally important to me I have been out as queer for longer than most of you have been alive

My fandoms include: Left4Dead, Gravity Falls, Interview with the Vampire, Tulsa King, Warriors, Naruto, House of the Dragon, 9-11, Hannibal, DC's Gotham-verse and Yellowjackets.

thank you for coming to my tedtalk

here's a link to my ao3 its all garbage please enjoy

and here's a picture of my smallest cat

(Rowan Wolfe is my author's pseud, not a real name hahahahahaha i'm never giving you that)

[the-most-humble-blog]

⚔️ The Mind Behind the Flame

Keep calling me names. I’ll keep making your role models wet. 📸🦁

Welcome to the mental perimeter breach zone of the-most-humble-blog.

If you’re here, you’ve either:

Survived one of my posts,

Reblogged it in rage hoping someone else would call me a monster,

Or you’re one of those rare few with enough cognitive muscle to recognize a pattern of truth when it slaps your ideology across the face.

Either way: You're here. You're reading. And that means the trap worked. 🧠🐺

🧠 Who Runs This Blog?

Call me Mr. Humble. Not because I’m meek — but because I let my words slaughter politely.

I’m a former military leader, multi-degree academic, global observer, and cultural analyst with no allegiance to fragile narratives.

I’ve led men. I’ve mentored women. I’ve been across borders, across belief systems, and across the battlefield of modern manhood.

I’ve seen the psychological fallout of cultural regression. I’ve seen how truth, logic, and masculinity are now treated like viruses. I’ve seen brilliant men go silent out of fear. I’ve seen mediocre minds weaponize pity for power.

And I said: No more.

This blog is what happens when a highly aware mind gets tired of pretending it's confused.

💥 What This Blog Is

A digital guillotine for mainstream delusion.

A satirical steel boot stomping down on ideological cowardice.

A home for those who outgrew emotional clickbait and can handle words that hit like a brick of truth to the face.

❌ What This Blog Is NOT

A hug box

A gender circle-jerk

A virtue-signaling farm

A safe space for bad ideas

An apology tour

Or a place to earn internet forgiveness for having a spine

If you’re looking for an “ally,” go outside and ally yourself with a blade of grass. This blog is for mental adults only.

🧠 My IQ Isn’t the Point — It’s What I Do With It

Plenty of people are “smart.” Few know how to use that intelligence like a scalpel and a molotov at the same time.

I don’t flex academic degrees. I flex consequence-based thinking.

I don’t cite studies unless they cut cleanly through your fantasy. I don’t “debate.” I perform intellectual amputations and meme the remains.

👁️ Why I Write Like This

Because truth doesn’t beg. It burns. It ruins dinner parties. It kills weak conversations. It shakes entire identity scaffolds.

Because feminism stopped being about equality years ago. Because men are bleeding in silence while the world tells them to “man up” and “shut up.”

Because emotional blackmail dressed as activism needs to be mocked into extinction. Because if I don’t say it, 10,000 men will keep swallowing their rage while pretending they’re fine.

This blog is their voice — said with the volume, venom, and verbal finesse they were taught to suppress.

🛑 Rules of Engagement

You are welcome here if you:

Think critically

Laugh at chaos

Can handle full sentences

Don’t confuse discomfort with harm

You are NOT welcome if you:

Use “-phobic” every time you feel wrong

Think tone is violence

Confuse identity with immunity

Start sentences with “as a…” and expect reverence

Believe truth is whatever makes you cry the least

⚖️ LEGAL: I’m Protected. You’re Just Loud.

All content is protected under U.S. free speech law, academic commentary, and satirical cultural criticism doctrine. You don’t have to like it — but you can’t do a damn thing about it. Want me banned? Try harder. Want me silenced? Bring facts, not feelings. Until then? You are just another screenshot waiting to happen.

🧠 If You’re Still Reading… Congrats.

You have enough awareness to realize:

Not everything that offends you is dangerous. Not everything that comforts you is true.

That makes you rare. And if you’re smart enough to get this far, dangerous.

Welcome to the tribe. 🦁

💣 TL;DR (For the ADHD-crippled)

Smart. Brutal. Free. Don’t like it? There’s the block button. The algorithm still remembers me.

🔗 You just read the mind. Now pick your side.

Share it. Bookmark it. Or block it.

🧠 Truth doesn’t beg. It burns.

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[arambles]

✨About The Author✨ I keep trying to write something to post, but all my thoughts don't add up to something good enough yet. So here's some things about me 😊 1. I work six days a week and often get the most inspiration for writing topics at work. 2. I'm currently working on my first poetry book! 3. Im not as active at posting my writing as I should be, but I do write almost everyday. 4. I'm so madly inlove with metaphysical shops! 5. I have my own collection of crystals , and all together they make up what I call my "little corner of happiness" 6. I usually post my own pictures or two photographers and use my poetry as captions. (@opalitesky & @tylerneimeierphoto ) 7. I started writing in seventh grade. And it's been my passion ever since. 8. I'm embarking on a spiritual journey to find myself! And will be trying to blog about it! (dm for details if you'd like to join my journey) 9. I love to eat, to cook, food in general is nice lol 10. I'd like to get to know my followers more as well! #abouttheauthor #qanda #askme #metaphysics #metaphysical #author #authorsofinstagram #authorsofig #poet #poetsofig #poetsofinstagram #poem #poems #poemsofig #poemsofinstagram #grind #poetrycommunity #crystalhealer #crystals #crystalhealing #moonchild #inspiration

[daddyellis]

About Frisson -- pt 4 Rules

In writing Frisson, I decided to challenge myself. Because I love pain. If it isn't obvious. "But this was supposed to be corn with plot!" You say to me--- "Hush, I am cooking a delicious meal" I reply.

And every meal needs a recipe. Right? So like a bad dom, I've given myself a set of guidelines to live by, 24/7 while dealing with writing Frisson. It helps me keep my mind off... other things.

--- Own every mistake and make it work. This includes artwork I draw as concept/companion material. If I make a mistake, such as forgetting a prop, changing a characters appearance, moving the cast from a location I wanted to remain in, I have to write myself out of it instead of editting it out. Why? Because I'm insane. But surprisingly, it's led me to some absolutely incredible results. Once the first draft is posted, its my canon. After that, I can only add or elaborate. If you see a mistake in Frisson, such as a prop that's disappeared-- being most common-- POINT IT OUT! Seriously. I will thank you and you may be surprised in the result.

--- Write what you are good at. I used to write for the Naruto fandom, Warrior Cats and Pokemon when I was younger. Left 4 Dead in its self is a... humorous canon to explore. I love 'crackfics', especially ones with real depth. Naruto feels like a crackfiction that rips your soul out most of the time (I know people find it derivitive these days but I still appreciate it as an influence in my art). So I told myself; I want angst, I want feels. But I know 'crack'. So I'm going to lean into that. "Ellis and Nick do BDSM and Nick is the bottom" is a fucking cracked out plotline in and of it's self, but some of the other moments I have planned, some of the plot-points I intend to take, inspite of the tone of the fic, would 100% be a crackfic in another setting. I think this odd mix of intensity and levity encapsulates the feeling I get when I write most of all.

--- Stick to the script. I've never outlined before. By the end of the week, Frisson will have a completed outline. When the arcs I have planned are completed in the outline, it is my rule that I write all of Frisson before I begin work on Cynefin or Monachopsis (which takes place at the same time as Frisson). If I continue to script beyond the current book I am working on, I feel I will get lost in the script and also that I may loose key character interactions and building. I want the pacing to be good, for myself and others. I have a lot of information I want to put in this. If I continue to add to Frisson past the planned script, it could become convoluted. I want to honor it, treasure it, and experience it as much as I want to read it when it's done.

--- Don't overwrite it. I have a tendency to become obsessed with the numbers- word count specifically. I once heard that 100K is the average size of an elementary school book and every since I felt the only way to prove myself as a mature writer is to surpass 100K before I even read the true meat of my plot. That is... insane logic. I didn't have alot of encouragement when I began my craft oh god, like 15 fucking years ago. Often this led my projects to be rambling, scattered, unfocused, jammed with side plots and 2D characters (see Dance with the Devil). It didn't work. It was stupid. Frisson doesn't need anymore than what it needs. It's length will be decided on what it has to offer, not a preconcieved notion of appropriate wordcount for a writer of my caliber.

--- When it's done, its done. I have a hard time accepting last words in a scene. I often find myself adding more and more, thinking that what I have written isn't compelling enough or it needs more suspense. Now, when I write my final line of a scene, instead of staring at it for 15 minutes and adding 40-80 more words, I copy it, post it on ao3, and then edit any grammar mistakes there. If you read it within minutes of uploading, you may find some differences in your second read through, because I have changed repeated words or adjusted sentence structure slightly for flow, but never will I add completely new content without pointing it out. When it's done, its done. Add it to the next one.

--- Everyone gets a good ending. I keep this goal in mind the entire time because it is my focus to write an emotionally driven story (this was supposed to be corn, am I demi? I might be demi.) and to put the characters through a variety of emotional and physical turmoil and conflict. I have added in character flaws, back story, motivations and feelings that are inherently toxic, and I have intent to make the other characters' reactions to those traits realistic and believable. That will lead them to hurt each other, they are flawed people, and mistakes will be made. But I do not want anyone to suffer needlessly with no resolution. So, in order to maintain my ability to give each of them a climatic end that fulfills their individual arc, the ending is the driving force behind all of the choices I make as a writer, and this limit prevents me from doing what I would consider irrepairable damage to them, in the most realistic way possible. I have a tendency to be overdramatic (see my original novel, The Dragonlord, wherein one person literally destroys an entire continent simply because one law upsets them), so keeping a good hand on the reins is important to me. A good ending is a satisfying one for me, but it doesn't mean I will take the fic out of it's tone to give them all 'happy' endings.

--- Write every. single. damn. day. even if it kills you. << this is self explanitory. I've reached an age where I need to finish a longform work or die trying, for myself. This is it. This is the one I want to write just for me. I'm glad you're all here with me.

see you next time

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