Can mixed origins use your boxes? If not, please explain why other than just "because they're x" cuz that doesn't clarify anything. /gen
holy yap. please read all of this, i know theres a lot
Systems are caused by trauma. There is no science that supports non traumagenic systems. Please read the TOSD.
You scientifically cannot be ‘mixed origins’. You are either a traumagenic system, or not a system at all. Your trauma is enough. I promise. Even if its stress in childhood. Even if its struggling due to mental illness or neurodiversity. Even if its bullying. Or neglect. Or anything else. You DONT have to have been beaten, or assaulted, or abused, to have trauma. Trauma is the response to an event, not the event, and everyones threshold is different, especially children.
You can be traumagenic and split alters for reasons that arent explicitly trauma: ex splitting an alter to deal with exam stress. This does not make you mixed origins.
But outside of any of that? Mixed origins cannot use my boxes, because they fit under the endogenic label, and endos are on my DNI.
I am uncomfortable with spending my time and effort on a graphic for people who think they have any of the same experience as me, just without the trauma?? And dont believe in science?? I dont believe that you can have alters without a cdd, and i dont believe that you can have a cdd without trauma. If that experience exists, then it is entirely separate to my experience. My system and our alters were formed via trauma, and seeing people use the same terminology, the same graphics, the same resources surrounding alters, for non traumagenic systems? It feels like a mockery. Its like ive spent ages working on art for my teammate to put something through ai and get a shitty ai photo, but then both calling it masterpieces, or selling it in a stall next to mine, or anything like that.
I cannot stop you from using my userboxes, but would rather you request from someone on your side of discourse. Please think about why you specifically want *my* userboxes rather than any endogenic safe userboxes.
Thank you for being civil. I have tried to be in return, but i know it isnt nice to have somoene saying you dont exist. Your trauma is enough. There are spaces and people who will support you leaving the endo community. I don’t hate you. People won’t harass you. The anti-endo community is much less toxic than endos say we are. We dont care about your headcount, or your number of fictives, or any of that. If you have a cdd, then we believe you.
