Can I get some uhhh *looks at menu* ace Moritz headcanons?
of course homeslice!!
so our boy moritz gets his first wet dream in 8th-9th grade right?
it makes him feel gross af; the mess, the feeling, all of it
everything in melchi’s essay freaks him tf out
it isn’t till later life, end of high school or college, when he has his first serious relationship that he realizes he’s still p uncomfortable with sex
he’s been dating the guy for a few months and his partner is ready to get more serious, consider sexy time, etc
this freaks mo out and he can’t fathom why
he likes this person a lot, right? why would sex with them seem so daunting?
moritz goes to his bros ilse and melchi for advice
melchi can’t fathom it either
he’s like maybe you’re just nervous? just tell ur them you wanna take things slow, i’m sure it’ll be fine
this answer isn’t entirely satisfying to our boy moritz
it kind of confusing for ilse too but she does some research online
bc our girl is resourceful af
she knows mo is touch-sensitive so for a while they think it’s because of moritz’s childhood
like sex doesn’t sound good because he got smacked around as a kid :/
but moritz actually quite likes cuddling, kissing, and other non-sexual forms of intimacy with his partner
so ilse and mo keep thinking and talking and realize sex seems to be the thing moritz doesn’t like
and they’re like we’re so stupid!!!!
mo is ace!! of course!!!
he’s relieved that there’s a name for what he’s feeling but PANICS because what if his partner dumps him? what if he can never find love now?
his bros ilse and melchi are like dude chill, it’s gonna be fine, just talk to them.
moritz tries to make dinner for his partner and almost sets the kitchen on fire. partially bc he’s nervous, partially because he can’t really cook in the first place
he orders takeout
he’s hella nervous and fidgety
luckily, mo has an amazing partner who’s like babe it’s ok, i promise you have nothing to worry about
mo explains to them that he’s asexual, what that means, and that he still loves them a lot, he just doesnt want to have sex
his partner ultimately decides theyre ok with this, much to moritz’s relief
moritz goes on to have plenty of healthy, supportive relationships that happen to not include sex
I used this article to help me with this as I am not asexual and wanted to make this as accurate as possible. I totally recommend reading!
