#acetag

[seeingteacupsindragons]

Fun fact on asexuals not being treated as humans...

They did a study on that.

[alcremikyu]

my mind mixed up autumnal and autism to create autismal . "Thursdays gonna be autismal" I need death

hell yeah its going to be autismal

[chososwifeofficial]

shnoozing.....

[quill-of-thoth]

Allo people playing farming simulator games: Here's a spreadsheet of which NPC to romance, based on how hot I think they are!

Me, playing a farming simulator: This old lady using magitech to clean up an oil spill is my boss now.

[namseoklovesyou]

What's your opinion on whether aces are part of the lgbta+ or not?

I’ve heard good arguments from both sides and on some level it depends on what we mean by ‘asexuality’ but personally I don’t have the need to exclude people from the community. I don’t really care whether or not I am part of the community either. Sometimes I’m feeling super gay and sometimes super ace and I seek a community acordingly. So in a way from personal experience I understand how some people feel like ace people souldn’t be part of the community. But if a heteroromantic ace person feels like they are, I don’t see why someone would actively try to exclude them.

What really annoys me though are people yelling at them/us to find our own community and then filling the asexual tag with hateful trash.

Thanks for asking 💕🌈 Sorry this was kind of a ramble

[seeingteacupsindragons]

How are people still in the year 2025 confused as to how aro and/or ace people are happy/what makes them happy?

I'm not an alien.

Are romantic and sexual attraction really the only things that make you happy? Discuss that with a therapist, not ace and aro people.

[seeingteacupsindragons]

I'm definitely feeling A Way about this joke in today's OOTS, but I'm entirely sure what direction exactly it is.

[seeingteacupsindragons]

Read a post on my dash reiterating the way this site was hell for ace people in the mid and late 2010s and. I'm not going to reblog it. But it got my hackles up so much reminding me that I am still constantly on edge on this site waiting for people to attack me for just. Being ace and aro.

The amount of vitriol even young ace people sent to me, thinking it should at least be considered because they had good points, didn't they?

And my entire community just died and I feel like some strange fossil of an utterly distant era still feeling like I belong to the ace community as it existed in 2013-2014, and it just does not anymore. It barely exists here at all.

And now I'm just constantly on edge because there was never a reckoning or an apology from anyone; they just moved on to attack another facet of my identity with furor.

It's a wound that's mostly closed over with time, but it aches and it changed how I expect interactions to go. I still react with nothing but wariness any time any kind of vague dog whistle reminiscent of those times cross my dash or inbox--and they still do, often by people who don't know what they're saying.