“Ugh, I wish I were asexual.”
I really hate when people say that they wish they were asexual or that they're going to become asexual. That some how being asexual exempts them from being hurt or having to deal with people's crap. It's not fun nor is it easy for me to be who I am.
You would think being part of the LGBTQ community would make things easier and that you would be free from bigotry and ignorance but no such luck. I understand that asexuality isn't well known and that you might get things mixed up or not completely understand it but you could try a little harder. I haven't been in the community for a year yet but I do my best to understand everyone else's identity. And if I can't completely understand it, then I at least do my best to respect it and support them. I don't tell them that how they feel and essentially who they are doesn't exist.
I understand that to you, my sexuality is challenging and this might be why you don't want to acknowledge it but please try to. If you don't understand it then ask questions or look it up for yourself. There are resources out there, you just have to look. And if you do know what it means to be asexual then educate others. Let them know that we do exist. We are not emotionless drones or mythical creatures. We are human beings and we do feel.
We are here and we're not going anywhere and we will fight until we get our voices out there. We will fight to show others that they are not alone and that there is a community out there for them and we accept them as they are.
If you want to know more about asexuality then check out these links:
Asexual Visibility and Education Network
Hot Pieces of Ace YouTube
Asexual Advice
Fuck Yeah Aces
Ace Watch
Those are just a few links to get you started. Ask questions, I'm sure they wouldn't mind answering them as long as you are respectful and considerate.