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CA texted BB and MB all night placing the blame accordingly on everyone but him. He came home again and we all stayed in my room. He reached a new level of shithead when he began texting her saying sorry he was like that and they can't go to bed mad. Just kept saying "baby we can't go to bed mad" "come here I'm sorry" just trying to get her to forget. He said the main thing that was on his mind was when BB and I invited MB and CB to go swimming when we were driving them around town doing errands while CA was at work. I promptly texted him asking if he wanted to come too. We all got home and waited on him while he showered and he came out saying "I'm really tired, I don't know if we're gunna go" I asked "does MB still want to go?" She said yes from the other room. He then decided to go and didn't want to swim. I gave him an extra pair of shorts in case he changed his mind not even sure why he came. He took that all as me trying to get close to her and that I liked her so he needed to come just to keep an eye on me. Would explain why he directed them away every time we got close. He said I was clearly super worried whether she was coming or not and we didn't "invite him" when in reality I just assumed they're are two separate people and she can speak for herself and I shouldn't assume that what he says goes for all. I told MB about "gaslighting" and narcissistic personality disorder she agreed that's exactly what he does and who he is and she is seeing clearer now. He basically begged her to come to him because he "knows she got hurt but he was hurt too" just making it about him and invalidating her feelings. I'm so glad she sees it. We went to bed after she showed us the messages and said she was scared of him and she didn't want to see him at all. So there's so far.
