Giving up and letting go.
"I’m not giving you up, I’m letting you go.."
Giving up would mean stopping whatever something beautiful you both have just because things are hard, stopping your happiness just because it is stormy now, stopping things just because it seems like the hardships are never-ending. I personally think that giving up is one-sided. You know you both love each other and you're both willing to fight no matter how hard it is, no matter how much pain it ‘causes you both. But one day, you just decide to give things up just because you can’t take the pain anymore. But here’s the thing, if you give up on the person you love, wouldn’t it be more painful to watch him go on with his life without you? To watch him achieve the dreams you’re supposed to have together, alone. Giving up means throwing away all the beautiful things just because you’re too blinded by the pain you’re feeling right now. Giving up means throwing it all away just because it seems like the world doesn’t want you to be together. I’m telling you, it should never be an option to just give up. As long as you know what your heart wants and as long as you know that it’s worth all the pain and hardships, then giving up should never be an option.
"Pwedeng mapagod pero bawal bumitaw."
Letting go means knowing what’s best for the two of you, it’s knowing that it is not meant to be. When things aren’t the same anymore and you can feel the other person slowly losing their grip on you, when you can feel that you’re the only one who’s fighting, you’re the only one who wants to make it work. You can actually feel it, you can actually feel when the other person is drifting away from you. And when you do, then I’m sorry darling, then I guess that’s the time to let go. Letting go comes when you learn how to love yourself. Let go of all the heartaches and all the happiness. Let go of all the dreams you’ve made together. Let go of all the stupid and beautiful little things. Let go and let God. I know it’s hard but maybe just maybe, greater things will come your way when you learn to let go of the things that’s not meant to be yours.
"You need to learn to let go of whatever it is that makes you think you’re not good enough. Because that’s how you’re gonna beat this. When you learn that you matter."
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*Sige. Hugot pa. Juice colored. Hahahaha. :)*













