#actual empath

[he13na]

god made his strongest soldiers autistic only children of narcissistic parents

[enter-the-darkness]

You gotta love how all those empath’s give people with ASPD and NPD the recovery advice of “just be better people”. Like yes hun, I’ll just “try harder” not like this is a condition often caused by childhood trauma and is largely a very long established and ingrained defense mechanism that kept me alive and as a result has created a strong foundation of my identity and personality and thus is a really complex and difficult thing to untangle.

I’ll just be a better person by thinking harder about how horrible I am, because yes. That is how this works.

[flittermousemoth]

Rant here,

Yeah people like to blame everything on personality disorders and the overuse of the words empath and narcissist in culture today has REALLY tainted views on personality disorders. My guy, I have narcissistic tendencies but that’s because I was all the way drained by how many emotions I felt off of everyone else and decided to finally love myself and now I don’t care about anyone but me… but I can literally tap into someone’s emotions and physically feel them… that’s what an ACTUAL empath is… not just someone who has empathy…. Being an empath is a PSYCHIC ABILITY… and not all empaths have to have a victim mindset and have to act like they are opposed to “narcissists” and not all empaths have to be nice people … it’s just about whether you can PHYSICALLY/MENTALLY feel other people’s feelings without them expressing them out loud. In actuality, as someone with a personality disorder who has the psychic ability of being an empath (with now narcissistic tendencies) I have in my past been the victim and been walked over and abused far more than any of these new age “empaths” that are just normies with empathy claim to have been. End rant.