#actually amadeus

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"adults should never be friends with children" im going to put you into a Box and shake you. Are we stupid.

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fire ant in my bed. baby girl how did you get here.

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the fact that i am blocked by @pangur-and-grim for interact with a post that mentioned someone critiquing their work. Not even an actual piece of criticism. I was going to buy the book and read it myself because I do think I'd enjoy it (as well as their upcoming things) but now I guess not. I will go find another beach book. What the fuck.

I get blocking people who are rude to you but the fact that they are stalking these posts and nuking anyone who might possibly be against them is crazy. I liked the post 3 hours ago. I haven't even read the critique. What the fuck is going on.

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if hanta becomes widespread i might genuinely have a psychotic break and i am not joking

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I'm going to be starting on a small project for my website where I review all 94 of the pet sims I have. These won't be super in depth, since I'd have to play each one for months to really understand it, but I do want to know a few things.

a) if you play these websites, what your experience is

and

b) are there any browser pet sims that I'm missing

i can totally complete this without any input but I'd really like to know.... may reach out on some forums for more responses

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i am still very frustrated that i am expected to dress a certain way to be read as Queer. i do not like the common fashion and am quite honestly a bit repulsed and dysphoric when i try to emulate it. i get dysphoric about adhering to standards and expectations about anything, really. i hate fitting into labels because suddenly and without my asking, there is an expectation for what i am and what i should be. and that is what makes me queer more than anything else. it's why i drop a label the second someone treats me a certain way because of it. but its paradoxical. to be read as what i am (queer), i have to go against the very things that make me queer (vitriolic distaste for cultural standards).

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mary may be a bitch but shes MY bitch

[actualamadeus]

I HAVE A NEW SURVEY FOR YALL

This is for my "Language and Culture" class, I am looking at double names.

The focus on this is in the southeast, but anyone with a double name from really anywhere will work for this (I have done my best to make it applicable to any double name spelled in the English alphabet).

I want to know what sort of experiences we have.

For clarification: I have a double name and live in the southeast. For many reasons, I don't go by it. I know many people with double names who have interesting relationships with their name, what they want to be called, and what people actually call them. I am hoping to get more information about this relationship we have.

Double Names in the Southeast

Thank you for being interested in my project! This is for my class on language and culture. Double names (such as Anna Clair or Mary Grace