not to shit on anyones parade but as both a kinnie/system can i say this?
stop using system terms singlet kinnies!!!!!!!!!! it both a) can really mix up people with systems who don't know it (as me who thought some of my fictives were a kin, yes, it can happen) and not to undermine what a kinnie goes through, it really butchers how people see the both of us. some of these terms are exclusive (and professionally used) terms for systems
DON'T say switching; DO SAY shift
DON'T call your kins a system
DON'T or TRY TO avoid terms like plural or things like that
PLEASE KNOW: you're NOT a fictive if you're a singlet. Fictives are NOT kin terms












