Someone once said, "The
three most difficult things for a human being are not physical feats or
intellectual achievements. They are, first, returning love for hate;
second, including the excluded; third, admitting that you are wrong".
But these are the easiest things in the world if you haven't identified
with the "me". You can say things like "I 'm wrong! If you knew me
better, you'd see how often I'm wrong. What would you expect from
an ass"?
Just learned about Anthony de Mello today and immediately ordered this book, Awareness.
1st - Return hate with love
2nd - Include the excluded
3rd - Admit when you are wrong
Those are words to live by.