#adoption first

[bloodreadmascara]

Reminder that surrogate pregnancies are higher risk than regular pregnancies while there are plenty of existing kids who need homes.

Why is adoption second choice, again?

[skullsandchaos-blog]

Okay, I need opinions or feedback. Whatever you want to call it. I love dogs and I'm huge on rescue/shelter animals. Chris has always wanted a neopolitan mastiff but now is not the time for such a huge dog and I'm not quite happy about him wanting to buy one from a breeder. Anyway, he says we can get a dog from the shelter. I have fallen in love with a dachshund who is there but Chris isn't much for small dogs and he would be happier with a medium or large sized dog. Personally, I enjoy smaller dogs because I can baby them and cuddle them on my lap. He eventually gave in and said I could adopt the dachshund next week if she is still there. When I say that I have fallen in love with her, I mean in. She is such a cuddler, has a great personality, and is absolutely beautiful. The thing is, I want him to be happy, too. I will fall in love with any dog I meet. I really want this dachshund but I feel bad that he is giving in to a smaller dog when I know he won't be as happy as if we had a bigger dog. Should I feel guilty? Should I pass up this dog I love in order to make him happy with a bigger dog?

[skullsandchaos-blog]

Olaf has been very good today. It has been the first day that he has not only let me touch him, but full on pet him without any biting attempts. Chris has been working with him tonight and made a lot of progress. Olaf got up on his hand and tried to test the water by a few biting attempts but no full on attack or bloodshed. He's now enjoying his good boy treat, a pistachio! ☺️

[caring4theunconventionalcritter]

My family may get a dog. I forgot how much I wanted a dog until 2 days ago....

CORRECTION: My family may ADOPT a dog. We will not now, not ever buy a dog.