#adviceneeded

[whitepeople]

im posting a lot but w/ever right??

if anyone has advice on how to find a good veterinary clinic to take my cats to that would be fantastic. my sweet children, one of which is sticking her tongue out at me rn, both deserve a good vet and a long happy life so yeeeaaaaa, let me know, dm or whatever i just want my stinky cats to get checkups and vaccines.

[puppy4mybirthday]

hi tumblr friends...olive and i need some advice! has anyone had any experience with taking a dog into the uk? putting her into cargo for flying isn’t an option. 💕

[nikkiagain]

I have a question for those who donate blood and exercise semi-regularly. How long does it take for you to recover? I was so low on energy today & it's been 4 days. Could it be the donation or something else. Otherwise I've felt fine. Posting this to all platforms. #blooddonation #exercise #running #fitness #adviceneeded

[thedirtmag]

Not sure how long this little watermelon will be able to hold itself up. The other two melons are better situated. Question is, should a sling this one? I'm not experienced in growing watermelon so appreciate advice from those who know. #watermelon #adviceneeded #gardenadvice #growwatermelon #thedirtonorganicgardening (at Pasadena, California)

[reawakeningfreedom-blog]

Finding

Let me start by saying on top of having a very slow computer I have very poor grammar skills. However I need to get everything off my mind before I feel like I will explode from having to put on a persona. I found out after a straight week of urgent care visits that I have contracted herpes. Side note, I hope to hell the aren't lying when they say the first outbreak is the worst because physically my downstairs department can't take anymore. Had I known that conversations of " You know, I will take care of you if you want to go to school"  had been a bullshit conversation that led to "Hey your underwear rubbed against me a bit I have a rash." I should've looked, I could've changed the outcome, I would've been writing a different post today. After being in a serious relationship I just wanted the warmth of someone against my body, the look of desire in their eyes when they met mine, and all the other hopeless romantic bullshit that came with it too. I find myself in this weird state of mind now. One moment I'm grieving with the wonder if a husband and kids are still on the table anymore and the occasional cry that looks like I'm off of a  lifetime movie. Watch out Kim Kardashian my cry may have surpassed you on the not so cute crying face scale. haha... Frustration stems from not hearing more people open up about living with herpes. See the statistics say I am not alone in this yet.. I feel like I'm in another dimension.. SO if there is anyone else out there going through this journey with me please reach out, It'd be nice to find out any remedies' to decrease the pain, how your journey is coming along, anything....

 Thanks for the rant to anyone that reads this.

 Mykkie (:

[idreamofhomesteading]

Propagating Cilantro

So I started propagating some cilantro cuttings the same time I started propagating my basil cuttings. The cilantro cutting is still alive, but after 2 weeks there aren’t any roots starting to grow. Can anyone help me figure out why or help me figure out a different way to propagate it. I want to have multiple cilantro pots and I currently have 3 new pots with some very young sprouts beginning to grow, but I still want a few more pots. I am becoming a gardening addict! I plan on buying more seeds in the future so I can continue growing herbs throughout this coming winter. Anyone have any advice for me?

[simpletimes-blog1]

It's ok to dream ✨

I would love nothing more than to meet and fall in love with the girl of my dreams. To make her happy and for her to make me happy. I want to bring out the best in her and for her teach me that I can love myself regardless of what I think. However, am I happy within myself enough for this to happen? Do I know myself enough to even consider a relationship right now?

If not, then why can’t I stop dreaming about it?

(Does this even make sense?! Well it makes sense to me and that’s all that matters 😋)

[akula-and-the-space-between]

My self care this morning is doing my nails even though I should be showering and rushing to make sure my nails are dry and I can shower and get to work on time. Maybe I should rethink this. My day will probably consist of being yelled at my patients, being confused by providers not knowing how to do parts of their jobs. Being exhausted by lunch but also being happy about lunch because I am on a weird cucumber salad kick and I get to go for a walk since it's finally semi nice outside. I am trying to take care of myself more since it's been a hard weekend with a love of family issues and my head is just ready to explode. Anyone have tips on how to talk to one self to say ok so this is happening and you did what you could at this time and to be ok with it. Or using the drawer method to place things in for later. I am doing better at it put still struggling. My therapist wants me to start seeing someone for emdr therapy and I am a bit terrified not sure why. Maybe mostly because I never really can explain anything going on in my head or my emotions.