hi just wondering if u have any advice on how to find your signatures? like signature color, signature scents, signature jewelry etc
✧・゜: finding your signatures・゜✧:・゜
omg i love this question so much! finding your signature elements is literally one of the most fun parts of building your personal aesthetic. it's like creating your own character design for the main character (you!).
i spent years feeling like i was just collecting random pretty things without any real cohesion. then i realized that having intentional signatures makes you memorable and gives you this sense of identity that feels so grounding. so here's my process for finding yours!
⋆.ೃ࿔:･ signature color ･:࿔ೃ.⋆
this one's actually more intuitive than people make it seem! start by noticing:
what color do you naturally gravitate toward when shopping?
which color consistently makes you feel confident when you wear it?
what color are most of your favorite items already?
which color feels like "you" even if you can't explain why?
for me it's a specific shade of light pink (surprise surprise). i noticed i kept buying everything in this color without even realizing it. your signature doesn't have to be just one color though! it could be a palette of 2-3 colors that work together.
pro tip: once you find it, add little touches of your color everywhere - phone case, water bottle, bookmarks. it creates this subtle cohesion in your life that feels so satisfying.
⋆.ೃ࿔:･ signature scent ･:࿔ೃ.⋆
this one is so powerful because scent ties directly to memory! people will literally think of you when they smell your signature scent elsewhere.
get sample sizes before committing (i wasted so much money before learning this)
wear a potential signature for at least a week straight
notice which one you keep reaching for without thinking
consider different concentrations (perfume, lotion, hair mist) for layering
my signature is a vanilla sandalwood that's slightly sweet but not too young feeling. i have it in everything from perfume to hand cream so the scent follows me subtly.
⋆.ೃ࿔:･ signature jewelry ･:࿔ೃ.⋆
the key with signature jewelry is choosing pieces you can wear literally every day without getting tired of them:
what pieces do you feel naked without?
which ones go with everything you wear?
what has personal meaning beyond just looking pretty?
i have these tiny star earrings i never take out and a delicate chain bracelet with my initial. they're subtle enough to go with everything but still distinctly "me."
⋆.ೃ࿔:･ other signature elements ･:࿔ೃ.⋆
there are so many other fun signatures you can develop:
a signature nail color or style
a signature accessory (headband, hair clip, specific bag)
a signature drink order (baristas at my local café start making mine when i walk in)
a signature makeup look (for me it's barely-there makeup with winged liner, or douyin makeup)
a signature phrase or greeting
the best signatures evolve naturally and feel effortless. if you're forcing it, it's probably not right for you! and remember signatures can evolve as you do - mine have shifted slightly over the years while still maintaining their essence.
what signature elements are you drawn to already? i bet you have some emerging ones without even realizing it!
xoxo, mindy 🤍
