Saw that Eagle One post for Supergirl and I'm not surprised that they put Cat as "Currently doing that". Like, this is the first time I've had a serious issue with lesbian crackship bloggers in a fandom. Because typically, *I* am the lesbian crackship blogger. But these people are delusional and insane!! They actively try to push how there's really a Cat/Kara romance ship and I'm like "Are we watching the same show?"
I have zero problems with people shipping Cat/Kara - until they start erasing James Olsen, aka her actual canon love interest who she canonically has a crush on and who happens to be black. Especially when they DO insinuate that she and Winn was a thing?? WHAT KIND OF LOGIC??
I can actually see chemistry with Cat/Kara, sometimes even slightly romantic (although I don’t ship it because boss/employee and major age difference) - so I don’t think they’re completely delusional. The problem is them acting like it’s all there is, like “oh obviously this is being set up as the Official Ship, no other ships are even valid”. The problem is when they’d sooner have her lusting after LUCY than Lucy’s black boyfriend who, again, is the actual canon love interest in the comics and on the show.
Just ... ship Cat/Kara all you want but don’t erase James and don’t shove any old white person in front of him - it’s that simple. And that Parks quote doesn’t fit here anyway because by using it you imply that Kara is 100% a lesbian (”if I had to pick a dude”) and since she’s canonically attracted to James that is not a correct assumption.