He makes situations confusing because someone being confused works in his favor. Do not let this go over your head. Confusion is a gateway to manipulation. The more time you spend trying to make sense of what he’s thinking or doing, the less time you spend acting. Everything with him feels like it’s in the gray area because he loves being able to keep you there. If he wanted it to be clear for you, he would make it abundantly so, and that applies to anything. Ask yourself: do you even like when someone is so on-and-off with you? Do you even like having to analyze their words because they can’t just offer you clarity? Do you even like living in a constant state of uncertainty and doubt at the hands of someone who is supposed to care about you?
