if any of you have wondered where i have been, i’m primarily not been able to because i’m going through an electronic crisis you could say, lmao.
basically my cell is a full fledged pos now to where its neither reliable or workable. Trying to make due with it until i can replace it with a new one as soon as possible which i already know which one and will last, so yeah there is that.
Also, i have to replace my laptop as well because while it still works perfectly in all other ways, the charging port is messed up where with the charging thing, it will go between acting like its charging and its not. Going to replace this as soon as i can too.
Very frustrating but im going to try to make due with both of them for the sole purpose of using the first what i can when able and the latter that like with the first to get the important stuff off both.
Otherwise, i have just been focusing on my life outside of social media personally with myself and those around me, doing other wanted things and getting needed stuff done, making changes, etc.
I haven’t really gone anywhere but this is why i havent really been active at all and still will be for an undetermined amount of time. I am ON here at the moment using my sister’s laptop to let you all know this. If i get a chance to get on here or my other blog, etc. I will try but i cannot guarantee until things are in more working order as i mentioned above.
{ no one wants to really use their gaming console to use the web from there to go on sites. Typing with the controller takes much longer and everythings out in the open for others to see which i do not like}
AS ALWAYS, any of you are always welcome to message me privately in the chats so we can talk as well as {and or} spam my inbox.
Lastly: TO those on here that i talk with more than others, as is those in my messages as well as my inbox, i adore you all and hope youre safe, happy and doing okay :)
----------- Everyone wants to follow a blog that they can enjoy so the following rules/guidelines i list is more of an obvious reminder of things so we all can have a good time here!
1) NO Hate is Tolerated
This is fairly obvious in and of itself; do not spread hate towards me or anyone else on my blog. Action of doing so despite warning will not gain any attention on this blog; only immediately removal. There is nothing wrong with helpful criticism because it helps others learn from mistakes and become the best possible version of themselves they can and want to be. Anything that goes too far/beyond that does not and will never belong here on this blog of mine let alone any of my others. Anyone who acts in a negative / hateful manner will immediately be blocked.
2) Age Restrictions
I am a 24 year old adult woman with a blog not only centered around silly/cursed, good natured things including fluff BUT also sexual content, gore and other adult materials. I would hope that anyone who pays attention to my blog regardless if they follow or not, would be fellow adults. Anyone below the legal age of 18 years old are not welcome on this blog. Any of these kinds of content is and will never be welcome to minors/children. This is my only warning as it is not only immoral and against the law but against my morals.
3) Trigger Warnings:
otherwise known as topics varying through writing, pictures, gifs, etc that are sensitive to any amount of people, causing a negative reaction in them that gives them feelings/reminders to things they went through/are against in general and do not prefer to have anything to do with such things. I have triggers myself and any will always be tagged. If there is anything you find a trigger that i haven’t tagged, then just let me know and i will fix that. I will always be understanding and never want to make someone uncomfortable which is why at any time too, there is always the unfollow button and the block button if you want to go that far.
4) Grammer & Spelling
I am not against misuse of grammar & spelling errors on the occasion as not only do i do that sometimes due to autocorrect and typos but also because any person won’t know how to spell something until they do and for anyone now knowing of the English language to any extent: I am not an asshole so this is okay; just your best at grammar and spelling is good enough for me :)
5) Communication
similarily with trigger warnings and any other kinds of things where such a thing is used? Communication is key with me. There shouldn’t be fear towards interacting with each other openly and genuinely like grown, respectful, understanding mature people.
6) Asks & Inbox {Private Messaging}
Anything my blog shows and has on it is a beloved thing but i always love to just talk, rant, laugh with people about anything else too whether its serious or light of heart, etc. Both of these will always be open for you to just be yourself; I am open to having happy and friendly interactions, even making friends out of mutuals. Just be yourself :)
7) Please Have Patience
We all have any amount of needed and wanted aspects that take focus in our lives so like anyone else, my life does not revolve around anything. I will always try to get to anything as soon and as best as i can. Give me a week before sending a reminder about something i may have missed/not gotten to. Please do not be demanding or pushy: Not only is it disrespectful and makes me uncomfortable which i shouldn’t ever have to feel on any of my blogs {let alone this one} but it will give me less motivation/determination/focus and want to do the thing. I won’t make anyone wait a long while as its not fair to any of you but i don’t want to stress myself, trying to push something out because i would want anything to be as awesome as possible, not half or less than half assed.
&&: I think that is all to this list. If i missed anything of importance that should be added, then this will be updated / and this little note here will be removed out of no longer being needed.
Okay so my thirst asks will be coming in shortly, but I need some advice. I’m starting some college classes on Monday, and I’m hoping that I can meet a nice guy there that might want to date. However, I’m socially awkward and sometimes have trouble with that kind of stuff. Do you know a good way to ask someone for their number and or start a conversation? It would be greatly appreciated, and as I mentioned the thirsty asks will be in shortly-🦇
{ i am so sorry i answered this late ; i hope things went well }
if you still need advice, start up a conversation about anything you two might mutually like because that can spur into such topics and lead to further ones because when people talk, they can go from one thing all the way to another bc the topics keep changing. And i think maybe hinting at it, casually ask for their number so you two can keep further in contact in the future because if you two liked each other then, why not continue communicating and then from that ,even hanging out together?
plus from that hanging out, you guys can do alot together and even learn and explore, help each other. And when you feel comfortable, just accept your feelings and start to hint towards them until you feel comfortable and ready to tell them how you feel unless they beat you to the punch with finding out without you even having to tell them. I would say it would be their loss if they don’t like you back but hey, it would be right? Best if there is understanding on both sides which makes it even better if they return the affections. Best to have friendship than nothing at all if things werent reciprocated. Things like that can hurt but you move past it and still be happy bc there are so many other people out there.
I welcome any thirsty / etc asks but lemme know how it went. I’m sorry i replied late :( :)
I hope you had a very safe and Merry Christmas! -🍄
What with my mom seemingly getting Covid just days before Christmas while me, my sister and her 5 month old (my nephew) taking all safe/preventative precautions/measures so WERE cometely fine. Hopefully my mom will get better.
One of my 5 older brothers had gotten Covid and he beat it so he is good now. SO hopefully my mom will and the rest of us will continue to be okay but so yeah
It had it's worrisome downer moments but otherwise, were all safe and the holidays were spent with family so it was good enough for me💖💖
