I believe that last ask was referring to how you phrased your definition of aphobia. It's kind of off putting to some people I guess to say that all the hate they're receiving is because people hate something entirely different and are taking it out on you. I guess it feels like being told it's not real suffering, that you should get over it, even if that's not what you meant to say
Sorry I ran out of room. The whole cishet aro/ace thing is a sensitive topic. A lot of people use that argument to bar aspec people from the lgbt community and by saying they don't belong in q*eer spaces specifically may have come across as "you aren't welcome here, get out" again, you probably didn't mean that but sometimes things come out wrong
that makes sense..... i didnt mean it at all and i sincerely apologize for it coming off that way. i would never tell someone to “get over” bullying or discrimination...... im not an “ace discourser” or anything in the like and i follow very few blogs that do so i was simply relaying what i knew and the information given to me from the ace ppl in ym close circle and so i am sorry if it was incorrect information. as for the cishet thing, i meant SPECIFICALLY spaces ment for gay ppl (i.e. a cishet ace/aro person shouldnt be in a gay club) rather than community events/rallies/etc as a whole, u know? like a cishet person shouldnt be at an event for trans ppl, even if they are ace/aro, like that sort of thing. thank you for explaining this to me, its really help me out a lot. ✌️️