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allumante replied to your post: “i have been sending very serious and professional emails to important...”:

omfg make a legit email ur ridiculous <3

but lesleyyy managing multiple email accounts is so much work i’ve already got too many

perianfrost replied to your post: “i have been sending very serious and professional emails to important...”:

If that perfection ruins their vibe, it must not have been a good vibe. {When I'm an Important Person, getting an email from that sort of addresswould give me NOTHING BUT GLEE.}

I hope I have brought amusement to the world of these college advisers and various others

#allumante #perianfrost

@greyro anon - I have a slightly different perspective than Sofia. I'm (probably) greyro as well and for me, a qp relationship is a slightly elevated level of friendship and when I've had qpps I've considered them partners, and as such when I had more than one person I considered a "partner", I did in fact consider myself poly. For me, it has to do with the level of intimacy between the parties involved. But like Sofia said, it depends how you feel. No one can tell you how to identify.

And there you have it! I think part of the reason why I feel as I do, is that both my qp and I are in the aro/ace spectrums? So at this point in our lives (because orientations are flexible, and for me, at least, I can see myself having a romantic partner in the future maybe), romo relationships aren't really a thing. For us, it's mostly just a very strong platonic friendship. Though that really varies between you and your qp, and the nature of your relationship, etc. and is very different for other people than it is for us.

But yeah! There are multiple perspectives, and it all really depends on how you feel comfortable identifying.

#ace asks #thank you for the input lesley!!#allumante #sofiasks